Ideas for Church Outreach to Victims of Trauma and Tragedy

First, we want you to know that our thoughts and prayers are with you, your family, and your congregation as you begin picking your way through the aftermath of this heart-wrenching experience.

In answer to your question, we'd suggest that you can take an important first step in the right direction by making sure that your expectations are realistic. Bear in mind that a disaster is a disaster. It's one thing to deal with the normal strains and stresses of life. By way of contrast, the very meaning of the word trauma can be summed up as "too much too quick." It's going to take time, determination, and perseverance to get past the pain and devastation that seem so paralyzing and all-encompassing at the present moment.

You're to be commended on your desire to reach out to others in the midst of this difficult situation. Jesus' Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37) tells the story of a man who cared enough to minister to a victim of a sudden and traumatic attack. The parable provides us with a clear example of what it means to help those who are suffering in the aftermath of a physical disaster. Among other things, the Samaritan models the following principles:

  1. Compassion . Effective ministry involves a willingness and an ability to enter into the feelings and experiences of other people. It's important to realize that there is no quick and easy way to reach out to victims of natural disasters and other tragedies. Events of this nature generally push people beyond the limits of anything they've ever had to endure before. Our first responsibility is simply to be with them and listen to them in their pain and confusion.
  2. Selflessness and Flexibility. In order to help the bleeding man by the roadside the Samaritan had to interrupt his journey. Compassion compelled him to put his own plans on the back burner. We can't follow his example unless we're willing to make the same kind of sacrifice. Lend a hand when it is needed, not just when it is convenient.
  3. Emphasis on Practical Needs. Resist the temptation to over-spiritualize. "If a brother or sister is naked and destitute of daily food," writes James, "and one of you says to them, 'Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,' but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit?" (James 2:15, 16). When people are suffering, Christian workers sometimes jump too quickly into a message about eternal hope and salvation in Christ. Our first priority in a situation like this is to meet concrete needs. If you and your church aren't in a position to do this, then get behind the efforts of relief organizations who are better trained and equipped to help.
  4. Personal Ownership. The Samaritan assumed responsibility for the expense of the injured man's care (Luke 10:35). In effect, he said, "This is my problem, not somebody else's." You can do the same by supporting the relief effort with your time, your money, and your material resources. Churches can also help by offering counseling and small group support programs. Many victims need an opportunity to "de-brief" about their losses and traumatic experiences.

Thriving Pastor, Focus on the Family's outreach to pastors and others involved in professional ministry, is available to offer guidance and encouragement to church leaders who want to get involved in the effort to help victims of natural disasters. You can visit their website online at www.thrivingpastor.org or contact us by e-mail at pastors@family.org. Our Pastoral Care Line, a support and crisis hotline for pastors and their families, features a professional staff of pastor-to-pastor ministers who can offer an understanding ear, a word of advice, or a heartfelt prayer. Our toll free number is (877) 233-4455, and we're able to take calls Monday through Friday between 9:00 a.m. and 4:00 p.m. Mountain Time.

One last thought. It isn't easy reaching out to people who are in the midst of intense sufferings. If you're going to become involved in this kind of ministry, it's important to monitor your own physical, emotional, and spiritual condition very closely. If you allow yourself to become depleted, you won't have anything to give to those who need your help. When the burden seems too heavy to bear, remember the incredible promise God has given us in His Word:

Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? … For I am convinced that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord (Romans 8:35, 38-39).

Resources
Parenting in the Midst of Tragedy (PDF)Booklet

Understanding and Coping with Trauma (booklet)

The Complete Guide to Crisis & Trauma Counseling (book)

Where's God in the Midst of Suffering? (broadcast)

When God Doesn't Make Sense (book)

Lord, Where Are You When Bad Things Happen? (book)

If God Is Good . . . Faith in the Midst of Suffering and Evil (book)

Stronger: Trading Brokenness for Unbreakable Strength (audio book)

For the Tough Times: Reaching Toward Heaven for Hope (book)

A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows Through Loss, Expanded Edition (book)

Children and Grief: Helping Your Child Understand Death (book)

Referrals
World Harvest - World Harvest is an international, faith-based, non-profit organization that focuses on providing humanitarian relief and development to the poverty-stricken and disaster-affected. We serve all people regardless of their religion, race, or nationality

Operation Blessing - Operation Blessing International Relief and Development Corporation (OBI) is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit, humanitarian organization headquartered in Virginia Beach, Virginia. Through core programs of disaster relief, medical aid, hunger relief, orphan care, water wells and community development, OBI is dedicated to demonstrating God’s love by alleviating human need and suffering in the United States and around the world

World Vision - World Vision is a Christian humanitarian organization dedicated to working with children, families, and their communities worldwide to reach their full potential by tackling the causes of poverty and injustice

Compassion International - Compassion International exists as a Christian child advocacy ministry that releases children from spiritual, economic, social and physical poverty and enables them to become responsible, fulfilled Christian adults

Sanaritan's Purse - Samaritan's Purse is a nondenominational evangelical Christian organization providing spiritual and physical aid to hurting people around the world. Since 1970, Samaritan's Purse has helped meet needs of people who are victims of war, poverty, natural disasters, disease, and famine with the purpose of sharing God's love through His Son, Jesus Christ

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