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Pure Intimacy is an online ministry of Focus of the Family devoted to the biblical truth that human sexuality flows from the image of God that we bear as male and female and is a good gift from God.
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TroubledWith.com's Pornography and Cybersex section provides additional reseources for indentifying and dealing with the issues caused by pornography and Internet addiction.
The Seductive Lure of Internet Porn
Listen online as Focus on the Family counselor Joann Condie discusses the devastating effects of pornography on marriage and how couples can find help and healing.