Teaching Kids the Meaning of Prayer

It's impossible to overestimate the importance of solid spiritual training during childhood, and we want to begin by commending you on your dedication to teaching your child an accurate, biblical view of prayer. Keep up the good work! We know the Lord is smiling on your efforts.

It's important to realize that 7-year-olds can't always comprehend some of the subtler nuances of prayer that mature adults are able to grasp. That's not surprising, being that many grown-ups seem to have a pretty childish understanding of prayer. Too many people of all ages tend to view God as some sort of "cosmic vending machine" that dispenses blessings at the touch of a button.

With that in mind, we'd encourage you to resist the temptation to criticize your daughter's misapplication of prayer. Instead, concentrate on accentuating the positive. Praise her for making prayer a central part of her life. Encourage her to talk with the Lord about everything. Read the Lord's Prayer with her (Matthew 6:5-15) and point out that Jesus gave it to us as a model prayer, teaching us how to pray and what to pray for. As you do these things, you'll probably have all kinds of opportunities to reinforce the idea that conversation with God isn't about getting what we want, and that one of its main purposes is to make us more Christ-like. Apparently you've already been making a diligent effort to plant this concept in her mind. Just keep plugging away at it and eventually the message will get through.

If you have further questions, feel free to call one of our pastoral counselors.

 

Resources
A Parent's Guide to the Spiritual Growth of Children

What Happens When I Talk to God?: The Power of Prayer for Boys and Girls 

Teaching Your Child How to Pray

Faith Conversations for Families

Raising Kids With Christ-Like Conviction

Talking As a Family About Topics of Faith

Articles
Spiritual Growth for Kids

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