The little boy or girl you once were is who you still are as an adult.

We may grow older and wiser, but in many ways, the person we become is not all that different from the person we were as a child. And that’s because our place in our family’s birth order, whether as firstborn, last-born, only child, or middle child, has a profound impact on our relationships throughout our life. This is especially true in marriage.

This series of short clips will help you:

  • Understand the concept of birth order and how it impacts our development as children and continues to influence our adult relationships.
  • Discover the joys and challenges of how your own family birth order can complement and conflict with that of your spouse.
  • Explore practical ways to overcome birth order differences between you and your spouse and even use them to your advantage as a couple.

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We may grow older and wiser, but in many ways, the person we become is not all that different from the person we were as a child. And that’s because our place in our family’s birth order, whether as firstborn, last-born, only child, or middle child, has a profound impact on our relationships throughout our life. This is especially true in marriage.

This series of short clips will help you:

  • Understand the concept of birth order and how it impacts our development as children and continues to influence our adult relationships.
  • Discover the joys and challenges of how your own family birth order can complement and conflict with that of your spouse.
  • Explore practical ways to overcome birth order differences between you and your spouse and even use them to your advantage as a couple.

Get access to all six videos in your inbox.

Fill out the form below, and we’ll get you the whole series right away.

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