How much should my new spouse and I know about each other’s past? I realize that honesty and transparency are important in any relationship, but I’m concerned that telling all of the “dirty details” might cause hurt or damage. Where do we draw the line?
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How do I go about telling my wife that I’ve been unfaithful to her? I recently ended a longtime affair with another woman. After wrestling with my guilt for a long time and confessing my sin before God, I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s best to disclose this information and share the whole story …
Does menopause have to spell the end of physical intimacy in a marriage? My wife is going through what our mother’s generation called “the change of life,” and as a result she’s almost never “in the mood.” She even complains that sex has become physically uncomfortable. Is she just making excuses? Is it all in …
How am I supposed to handle the sudden role changes that accompany my military spouse’s comings and goings? He is a wonderful husband and father, but we’re often apart for long periods of time. When he’s deployed, I have to take care of all aspects of our family’s life; when he returns, he takes the …
My husband has had a tendency to resort to violent behavior throughout our marriage. I feel trapped. At times I have even feared for my safety, but I don’t know what to do. Can you help me?
Should special consideration be given to an abuser with post-traumatic stress disorder? My spouse recently returned from a two-year deployment overseas. In the month or two since he’s been back I’ve noticed some disturbing changes in the way he treats me and the children. He’s sullen and withdrawn. On occasion we’ve been subjected to verbal …
How can we fix an unsatisfying sex life? We’ve been married for more than two years, and our sexual relationship has never been mutually satisfying. For some reason sex makes me feel “cheap” and “used.” My husband says I approach it as if it were a chore. That frustrates him and makes him angry. What …
My spouse of twenty years has decided that she is no longer a Christian. As a matter of fact, she now claims to be an atheist. This has upset and changed our entire relationship. I don’t understand what is going on with her or how to respond. Can you help me?
How can my spouse and I survive my recent job loss? Without my income I can’t see how we’re going to make ends meet. What will we do if I can’t find another employment opportunity?
What can I do to alter my bad habit of speaking harshly and critically to my wife and children? I desperately want to be a better husband and father, and I need to change my behavior. Can you help me start moving in that direction?
Is it healthy and appropriate for wives to take the lead when it comes to lovemaking? My husband and I enjoy a fulfilling and satisfying sex life, but that’s one thing I’ve wondered about: There are times when I desire physical intimacy, but I have doubts about whether it’s right for me to get things …
Can you help me overcome my obsession with sexually explicit material?
As a guy do you think it means I’m gay because I’ve always had a preference and appreciation for feminine and “girly” things? I’ve been this way since I was a small boy, I’m not sure what to make of this.
Does God expect gay people to live without love? I’m a Christian, and I have a sincere and earnest desire to live a holy life. At the same time, I struggle with intense same-sex attractions. Other believers have told me that my obligation in this area is the same as that of a Christian heterosexual …
Should I continue a relationship with a man who seems to have a real problem with obscene and sexually explicit material?
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