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Greg Smalley

Dr. Greg Smalley serves as the vice president of Marriage and Family Formation at Focus on the Family.  Prior to joining Focus, Smalley worked for the Center for Relationship Enrichment at John Brown University and as president of the National Institute of Marriage, now known as Hope Restored. He is the author of almost 20 books including 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage: And the Truths That Will Save It and Set It Free and Reconnected: Moving From Roommates to Soulmates in Marriage. Smalley and his wife Erin host a popular weekly podcast called Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage.

This Thanksgiving, Turn Tension into Gratitude.

A List That Turns Thanksgiving from Tension to Gratitude

What is it about your spouse that you are most grateful for? Take time today to write a gratitude list and then say a prayer of thanks to God for your spouse.

A close-up of a bride and a groom at the wedding, with the groom putting the wedding ring on the bride's finger.

9 Reasons to Get Married

Since people are getting married less often, it’s important to understand the reasons to get married. There are practical reasons, like the fact that marriage creates stable societies, is the best environment for raising children, and greatly benefits each spouse. There are also spiritual reasons, such as becoming more Christlike and reflecting His love for the Church.

Happy couple hiking on a mountain trail, smiling and celebrating together — symbolizing overcoming stress in marriage and building a stronger relationship.

7 Ways Strong Couples Grow When Stress Hits

Every couple faces stress, but strong marriages don’t just survive—they grow. Learn how faith, trust, and perseverance can deepen your connection.

An illustration about biblical leadership. A man and woman are lauging as they walk down a trail. The man is holding his wife's hand and leading her.

What is Biblical Leadership in Marriage?

Ephesians 5:23 calls men to be leaders in the home. “For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior” (ESV).

A happy family of four sits together on the floor of their bright and cozy living room. The parents, a smiling couple, raise their arms playfully, forming an arch over their two children, who gaze up at them with joy. The image reflects love, unity, and the lasting impact of strong relationships, symbolizing the importance of your legacy as a married couple

Is Your Legacy as a Married Couple Worth Imitating?

Our kids are constantly watching us, and how we treat our spouse is probably how our children will treat their own spouse someday. Your marriage is your child’s blueprint for intimacy and relationships.

Proud affectionate senior man looking at his talented wife playing guitar and singing when they are resting in park.

Marriage Devotion: Different by Design

Your spouse is a gift from God. Their differences are gifts too. God uses those differences to mature us and shape us into the image of His Son.