Mike Bechtle

Dr. Mike Bechtle is a writer, public speaker and communications expert, drawing from over 40 years in ministry and corporate consulting. He has authored six books including Dealing With the Elephant in the Room and I Wish He Had Come With Instructions. Dr. Bechtle has published articles for Writer’s Digest, Entrepreneur and many other media outlets.

A group of four friends is sitting at a wooden table in a cozy café with exposed brick walls, engaged in a deep conversation. One woman is talking while the others listen attentively, showing different reactions—thoughtfulness, concern, and curiosity. The setting suggests a supportive environment, but it also raises the question of when to talk to a professional counselor instead of just talking to friends.

When to See a Professional Counselor Instead of Talking to Friends

When you have problems with your marriage, you might reach out to friends, who bring value that a professional can’t. But when should you get professional help?

September 9, 2025

A smiling couple sits together on a couch, engaged in a lively and positive conversation. The woman, wearing a white t-shirt, leans in with a warm and expressive smile, while the man, dressed in a denim shirt, listens attentively. Their body language reflects open communication, illustrating how to give constructive feedback in marriage in a way that strengthens connection and understanding.

How To Give Your Spouse Constructive Feedback

Persuading someone to accept feedback isn’t just about phrasing things the right way. You’re showing your spouse what he or she doesn’t already know. Both of you will grow through this trust-building process.

August 29, 2025

A close-up of a person’s foot breaking through a damaged wooden floor, symbolizing the struggles and challenges in learning how to fix a broken marriage.

How to Fix a Broken Relationship: Find the Termites

Long-term problems, like termites, can eat away at the foundation of your marriage. But you can fix a broken relationship by exterminating them.

August 4, 2025

A woman sits on a couch on the other end from her husband, with whom she is clearly angry. Imagine they hit one of your “buttons,” and you had an angry outburst at your spouse. How do you repair the relationship?

What Should I Do After an Angry Outburst at My Spouse?

How do you repair the relationship when you have an angry outburst at your spouse? Read on to learn more about controlling your reactions.

June 30, 2025

A couple sit at the computer together, in a discussion, asking questions. Asking the Right questions in marriage can strengthen your relationship.

Improve Your Marriage by Asking the Right Questions

Asking the right questions can strengthen your marriage and determine the trajectory of your relationship. It’s essential that you develop this tool for a strong marriage.

April 17, 2025

A man and a woman sit on a couch, arms folded, angrily turned away from each other. Have you ever wondered if you and your spouse are under spiritual attack or if your spouse is just a jerk?

Is This a Spiritual Attack, or Is My Spouse Just a Jerk?

Spiritual attacks and normal growth issues are happening all the time. Here are some things to consider if you’re wondering why your relationship is going through some rough patches.

August 22, 2024