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Shaunti Feldhahn

A graduate of Harvard University and a former Wall Street analyst, Shaunti Feldhahn is a popular speaker, best-selling author, and social researcher. She applies her analytical skills to provide eye-opening, life-changing truths about relationships, both at home and in the workplace. Her books include The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages; For Women Only; For Men Only; Through a Man’s Eyes; and The Kindness Challenge. Shaunti and her husband, Jeff, reside in Atlanta and have two grown children. Learn more about Shaunti by visiting her website, shaunti.com.

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Commitment in Marriage

What does commitment have to do with marriage? Isn’t love supposed to be easy?

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Answering Questions About Sex in Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Shaunti Feldhahn and professional sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma join Jim and John to discuss common questions that married couples ask about physical intimacy. Whether you just tied the knot, or you’ve been married for decades, there are bound to be questions surrounding the topic of sex — and that’s okay! (Part 2 of 2)

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Answering Questions About Sex in Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Shaunti Feldhahn and professional sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma join Jim and John to discuss common questions that married couples ask about physical intimacy. Whether you just tied the knot, or you’ve been married for decades, there are bound to be questions surrounding the topic of sex — and that’s okay! (Part 1 of 2)

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Uncovering the Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn offers insights from research she’s conducted on what makes for a happier, more fulfilling marriage. She also outlines practical ways to develop a more Christ-like relationship with your spouse. (Part 2 of 2)

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Uncovering the Secrets to a Happy Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn offers insights from research she’s conducted on what makes for a happier, more fulfilling marriage. She also outlines practical ways to develop a more Christ-like relationship with your spouse. (Part 1 of 2)

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10 Encouraging Facts About Marriage You Need to Hear and Share

Do you know the real facts about marriage or just the myths? Find out the positive truth about marriage today.

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Maximizing the Happiness in Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

Shaunti Feldhahn reveals from her extensive research some simple attitudes and actions that can help your marriage thrive. (Part 2 of 2)

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Maximizing the Happiness in Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Shaunti Feldhahn reveals from her extensive research some simple attitudes and actions that can help your marriage thrive. (Part 1 of 2)

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Changing Your Relationships Through the Power of Kindness

Best-selling author Shaunti Feldhahn challenges listeners to practice acts of kindness to see the positive difference it will make in their relationships.

Women in the Workplace

Find support as you nurture your family and earn an income.

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Small Ways to Make Marriage a Priority

Dory had been eager to return to part-time work. Her family needed the income, and she loved her new job. But Dory now realized that her work outside the home was stressing her marriage in ways she hadn’t anticipated.

Wanted: Good Friends

Teach children that making friends starts with being one.

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When You Don’t ‘Get’ Him

When a couple’s differences threaten marital harmony, it is easy to wonder: How can that man and I really become one? Rather than losing heart, discover a new perspective through some life-changing truths.

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Are You Kind to Your Husband?

Shaunti Feldhahn shares from the results of her recent research, pointing out that she found the answer to having a great marriage was simple—be kind.

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Understanding the Differences Between You and Your Spouse

Men and women are equal — but that does not mean they are the same. God created men and women to be different, and one key to a great marriage is to work with His design rather than against it.

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For a Happy Marriage: Believe the Best — Even When You’re Hurt

In this first article of Shaunti Feldhahn’s three-part series, she shares how believing the best about your spouse, even when you’re hurt, makes for a happier marriage.

For a Happy Marriage: Do the “Little Things” That Matter to Your Spouse

In this third article of a three-part series, Shaunti Feldhahn explains how doing the “little things” that matter to your spouse can make for a happier marriage.

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For a Happy Marriage: Speak With Kindness — Especially When You Want to “Tell It Like It Is”

In this second article of a three-part series, Shaunti Feldhahn explains how speaking with kindness in all the day-to-day bustle of married life can make for a happier marriage.