Steve and Rhonda Stoppe

Steve Stoppe is the senior pastor of First Baptist Church in Patterson, Calif. His wife, Rhonda, is a speaker and author who is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Her books include Real-Life Romance and If My Husband Would Change, I’d be Happy. Steve and Rhonda have co-authored a book titled The Marriage Mentor and speak together at their No Regrets Marriage Conference. They also mentor ministry marriages at one-on-one retreats on their ranch in California. The couple has four grown children and nine grandchildren. Learn more about the Stoppes at Rhonda’s website, rhondastoppe.com.

Creating a No-Regrets Marriage

In a discussion based on their book The Marriage Mentor, Pastor Steve Stoppe and his wife, Rhonda, explain how married couples can cultivate the relationship they’ve always hoped for by re-framing their expectations, depending on God and remaining committed to one another through the difficult challenges of life.

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