Bill and Pam Farrel

Bill and Pam Farrel have been working together to help couples and families for more than 40 years. The Farrels are popular speakers, best-selling authors, and the co-founders of Love-Wise, a ministry dedicated to helping people build successful relationships. The couple has co-authored numerous books including The 10 Best Decisions Ever Parent Can Make, Red Hot Monogamy, and Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti. Bill and Pam have three grown sons and five grandchildren. You can learn more about the Farrels here.

A couple shares a romantic moment at sunset, silhouetted against a dramatic sky, embodying the idea of what the Bible says about soulmates.

What Does the Bible Say About Soulmates?

Don’t get swept away with the exciting notion that your soulmate has arrived. Check what the Bible has to say about soulmates first.

February 4, 2026

A loving daughter and her father sit beside an elderly mother, smiling and offering support, symbolizing the importance of caregiving for parents.

Care For Your Marriage While Caregiving For Parents

Caregiving is a season, so it helps to have regular getaways for empathetic listening, caring conversations, essential evaluation, and the ongoing need for flexibility and modifications.

August 1, 2025

A young couple sits with a mature couple in fellowship around a couch. Marriage mentoring can be important in helping young couples navigate the issues they will face together. Here are five ways to find a mentor couple.

Marriage Mentoring: Five Keys to Help Find a Mentor Couple

Marriage mentoring can be important in helping young couples navigate their lifelong journey together. Here are five ways to find a mentor couple.

July 4, 2025

The ideal picture of how to keep your marriage strong with an elderly couple sits closely together on a wooden porch swing, gazing toward a rustic log cabin in the distance. The scene is bathed in warm, golden evening light. In the background, a man relaxes on a lawn chair while two children play on the grassy yard, evoking a peaceful, multigenerational family moment in a rural setting.

How to Keep Your Marriage Strong During Life Transitions

Pam and Bill Farrel realized that the quality of their love was going to be determined by how they handled the changing seasons that every marriage encounters.

May 21, 2025

Deciphering the Secret Language of Your Spouse’s Heart

Everything has a secret code or password—including your spouse’s heart! For women, that password is security, while it’s success for men. Bill and Pam Farrel dive deep into these two core needs, helping you better understand your spouse and how to relate to him or her. They talk through marriage essentials such as conflict resolution and communication to help you decipher that code and to help you gain the skills you need to better understand your spouse’s heart.

March 4, 2025

A mature couple walks hand-in-hand near some boats in a marina. The goal of you marriage vows is to build a lasting love in marriage

Enduring Bonds of Marriage: Building a Lasting Love

Authors Bill and Pam Farrel look back on some of life’s storms that helped them build a lasting, enduring love in their marriage. They offer some tips that will help you do just that.

November 11, 2024