Toni Nieuwhof is the author of Before You Split: Find what you really want for the future of your marriage. She is a family law mediator, former divorce attorney, author, speaker, and co-host of the Smart Family Podcast. She has been married to leadership expert, author, speaker, and former pastor Carey Nieuwhof for over 32 years. To learn more about Toni, visit toninieuwhof.com.