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December 14, 2021

Choosing Love, Even When You Don’t Feel It

As you get to know your spouse, you learn so many things about him or her. While learning new things can be funny, some situations can lead to tension. John, Erin and Greg discuss why loving your spouse is still a decision, even if you don't feel like doing it. Featuring Mrs. Melanie Shankle.

Original Air Date: December 14, 2021
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