Coping With Disaster

Natural disasters deeply impact us. People often feel helpless or overwhelmed in the wake of their destruction.

This page provides resources for those who are looking for a way to deal with grief and for anyone to reach out to those affected by natural disaster.

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Dealing With Suffering and Loss

Don't Walk This Road Alone – Speak With a Counselor

Help is available if you’re facing trauma, grief, or loss — or supporting someone who is. If you’d like to talk, our professional, caring counselors are here to listen, pray with you, and offer biblically sound guidance. It’s a safe place to take a meaningful first step.

Dealing With Suffering and Loss

Recovering Emotionally From a Traumatic Experience
How can I find healing from the effects of disaster and trauma? Can you help me get a handle on that process?
How Can God Allow So Much Evil and Suffering?
How could a good God allow so much evil? Why doesn’t He do something about it? Couldn’t God have created a world without evil?
C.S. Lewis and Answers to the Problem of Pain
The problem of evil is one of the most difficult challenges for Christian theists to answer. In fact, it is the problem that Christians must face.
California Wildfires and Our Search for God When Disaster Strikes
While mourning, people usually don’t need philosophical answers to their pain and suffering. They need others to come alongside them, sit with them, and grieve with them.
Walking With God Through Pain and Suffering
Timothy Keller shows that there is meaning and reason behind our pain and suffering, making a forceful and ground-breaking case that this essential part of the human experience can be overcome only by understanding our relationship with God.
Recovering From Losses in Life
H. Norman Wright tackles tough issues such as the meaning of grief, blaming God, and learning how to express yourself and share your pain in times of loss.
How Can Pain and Suffering Be Good?
What happens when, in the wake of some apparently senseless tragedy, life seems meaningless and the future looks absolutely bleak?
Where is God in the Midst of All My Troubles?
Where is God? Does He know, or are my prayers heard only by the wall? Is He near, or somewhere distant, only watching? If you hurt enough to ask such questions, you deserve an answer.
Understanding and Coping with Trauma
Each person affected by trauma experiences his or her own unique reactions and symptoms.
Why Does God Allow Suffering?
The real question is not “Why doesn’t God do something?” It’s “How did the world get into such a mess in the first place?”

Helping Kids Cope

Natural Disasters and Children’s Faith Encourage your children to grapple with hard questions. You don’t have to know all the answers. You just have to be willing to engage.
How to Help Your Kids Process Tragic News As a counselor, I’m often asked how to talk with kids about tragedies such as the latest school shooting. Here are some strategies I offer in my practice for intentional and effective conversations about tragedy.
Parenting a Child Affected by a Traumatic Event I was a first responder lending mental health support to kids rescued from Columbine High School. So when I hear of the latest school shooting, I feel sickened that another community has to cope with the aftermath.
It’s Okay to Cry: A Parent’s Guide to Helping Children Through the Losses of Life Offers practical help for parents. It explains the symptoms of loss and unresolved grief so that parents can recognize them and walk alongside their children on the path to recovery.
Lord, Where Are You When Bad Things Happen? Chaos, tragedies, broken relationships – how could a God who is all-powerful, all-wise, and all-loving allow these things?
Helping Children Cope Emotionally After Traumatic Events and Experiences You have to be prepared for ups and downs and emotional setbacks. Meanwhile, there are some things you can do to help your kids face their immediate situation with courage and confidence.
How to Help Your Child Grieve Death is an ever-present fact of life, yet even adults face it only with difficulty. Here are some tips to help your children through the grieving process.
Talking to Your Kids About Natural Disasters We can’t control the natural disasters our families might face. But we can reassure our kids and address their fears, explaining how rare these events are and that we will do everything we can to keep them safe.
Parenting in the Midst of Tragedy Nothing will eliminate the pain that you or your children have suffered, but there are steps you can take to help your family face those circumstances with courage and confidence.
Count Yourself Calm: Taking Big Feelings to a Big God This beautifully illustrated and empathetically written book walks children through a calming activity that focuses their attention on God and helps them manage their emotions.

How to Help

Ideas for Church Outreach to Victims of Trauma and Tragedy
Effective ministry involves a willingness and an ability to enter into the feelings and experiences of other people. It’s important to realize that there is no quick and easy way to reach out to victims of natural disasters and other tragedies.
Understanding the Grieving Process
Everyone works through grief differently. Some are instantly devastated; others feel numb and disconnected. Some withdraw socially, while others reach out for support.
Helping Loved Ones Grieve
Watching someone you care about experience loss is inevitable. Knowing how to respond when it happens can make a memorable difference.
Preparing Your Family for Any Situation
On this broadcast, Kathi Lipp describes how a close call with a house fire inspired planning and preparing for any difficult circumstance. She provides some simple, realistic, and tangible steps to prepare your family and get them on board.
What to do When Tragedy Impacts Your Family
On this broadcast, Dr. H. Norman Wright describes how to navigate the unexpected and painful crises of life we will all experience.