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MARRIAGE 911 – Questions and Answers

FOR CHURCHES The First Phone Call – What to do when a couple calls for help. FOR MENTORS Honoring Walls – What to do when someone doesn’t want to talk about their issues. Caring for Yourself as a Mentor – How to stay emotionally healthy when mentoring. MENTORING vs COUNSELING When to Refer Someone to …

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A Film Reviewer’s Thoughts on Marriage Story and Real Marriages

Critics praise the way Marriage Story portrays a couple in crisis, but film reviewer Paul Asay says there’s a powerful message behind Marriage Story.

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The Church of England Said This About Marriage

The Church of England announced its stance on sex and marriage. You might be surprised how they define it.

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How to Restart Your Marriage

Has your relationship grown cold? Now is the perfect time for you and your spouse to reconnect and learn how to restart your marriage.

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Dealing With Emotional Crises in Marriage

Often couples respond to conflict poorly. Emotions flood them and they feel out of control. Here’s how to stop that destructive cycle.

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Survivors of Childhood Trauma Can Have a Good Marriage

He couldn’t see a thing. A pitch-black cell left Ian feeling hopeless. How did my life end up like this? Ian Humphrey hit bottom when he was put in solitary confinement after starting a fight with another prisoner. His past and the darkness of his surroundings spoke to his soul: You are a failure, unworthy …

A Marriage in Crisis After a Job Loss

In the aftermath of a crisis, couples may feel as if their entire life has been ripped apart. At this time, spouses need to work together. Here’s how.

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Caring for the Caregiver

Taking care of a loved one without caring for yourself harms your emotional, relational and physical health. These tips will help you develop self-care strategies to strengthen you and your marriage.

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Hope for a Marriage Challenged by Mental Illness

For years, I thought I could handle my bipolar disorder. When I began the intensive therapy necessary for improved mental health, I discovered I had to prioritize my needs before I could be the wife and mother God desired me to be.

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How to Help a Friend Who Has Marriage Problems

We need the encouragement of friends and family — not just when a marriage begins, but to keep it from ending. Our loved ones can make the difference between relationship life and death.

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How to Recognize Where Your Marriage Is Vulnerable to an Affair

Some telltale signs can help couples identify vulnerabilities to infidelity. Keeping these areas of susceptibility and their antidotes in mind could ward off a potential affair.

Crisis: A Pivotal Point in Marriage

Many couples struggle during critical events that create an emotional crisis. Crises can stress marriages even to the point of divorce. Here’s how to draw closer even during a crisis.

Faith Conversation: Searching for Hope

If your marriage has an area that needs a miracle, seek God. You may not understand how He is working, and the miracle He brings may look different from what you expect, but He is always faithful. 

A group of four friends is sitting at a wooden table in a cozy café with exposed brick walls, engaged in a deep conversation. One woman is talking while the others listen attentively, showing different reactions—thoughtfulness, concern, and curiosity. The setting suggests a supportive environment, but it also raises the question of when to talk to a professional counselor instead of just talking to friends.

When to See a Therapist Instead of Just Asking Friends for Help

When you have problems with your marriage, you might reach out to friends, who bring value that a professional can’t. But when should you get professional help?

How to Overcome Porn Addiction and Restore Relationships

Forgiving a pornography user too quickly can hinder recovery because it avoids the problem. Bravely acknowledging the emotions associated with betrayal is imperative to the true forgiveness process.

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Al and Lisa Robertson: ‘Forgiveness Changed Everything’

The pain of an affair drove both Al and Lisa to despair. They were shattered, exhausted and drained of all pride. But the crisis was also a turning point — what they now call “desperate forgiveness.”

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The Dilemma of Divorce

At the Fall, the battle of the sexes began, and one of the most tragic consequences of that battle is the propensity to divorce.

I’ve Been a Fool, and I Want You Back

It’s not over until the judge says you’re divorced. If you’ve destroyed your marriage, there are five things you must not do and seven things you must do if you want to win back your spouse.

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Pornography, the Brain and Bonding

God created the brain to bond sexually with one person: a spouse. When we understand how our brains really work, we’re free to enjoy God’s design and trust that it’s far better than we imagine.

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From Meth Addiction to Ministry: A Grand Plan for Mac and Mary Owen

One couple tells about the heartache of placing a child up for an adoption, drug addiction and co-dependency. Find out how God mercifully redeemed their marriage and family by rewriting their story.