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A young couple sweep the floor together in their kitchen. When you share the chores in your marriage and your goal is to out-serve each other, you can bring an end to the chore wars in your home.

Chores and Your Marriage

Household chores can be a point of contention in marriage. To avoid this conflict, couples should focus their energy on out-serving each other.

A woman looks at her wedding ring on one end of a couch, while a man holds his head dejected on the other end of the couch. Should you tell your wife about infidelity? Is it better to be honest and hurt your spouse and risk your marriage?

Infidelity — To Tell Or Not To Tell Your Spouse?

If you’ve been unfaithful in your marriage and you’re wondering what to do now, Dr. Greg Smalley explains 10 reasons to have a talk with your spouse.

A couple sits together at a rustic wooden table, holding hands while engaging in Bible reading with their spouse, with open books, coffee mugs, and a journal nearby.

Bible Reading in Marriage Is Transformational

Invigorate your spiritual connection by reading the Bible together. By applying biblical principles as a couple, you’ll reach into an untapped power source.

A young husband and wife argue on a couch, which is an opportunity to exercise healthy conflict resolution in marriage.

Healthy Conflict Resolution in Marriage

If your approach to conflict resolution is going nowhere, you may need a heart change. Try these five ideas.

wife being a controlling spouse by lecturing her husband sitting on couch. He looks away from her with his hands to his head

Is My Spouse Controlling or Just Caring?

Does someone you know wonder if they have a controlling spouse? Help them sort through their concerns by looking at characteristics of a controlling spouse and a caring spouse.

Photo of a man and woman sitting on opposite ends of a couch, taking their wedding rings off. They have decided to separate as allowed in the Bible due to their unhealthy circumstances. But what does the Bible say about marriage separation?

Separation as an Act of Love

While reconciliation is God’s desire for struggling couples, there are all sorts of situations that can bring a marriage to the crisis point — and separation can be an act of love.

Newlywed couple holding hands on their honeymoon

12 Pieces of Advice For Newlyweds

For my 12 year anniversary, I’ve highlighted 12 pieces of newlywed advice I wish I could share with the newlywed version of myself.

An angry young couple sit on a couch engaged in a heated argument.

What Does the Bible Say about Fighting in Marriage?

It’s normal to have conflict — and it’s unavoidable. According to the Bible, what matters most is how you handle the fighting in your marriage.

Photo of a wall and chain between the viewer and the church, symbolizing spiritual abuse keeping you away from God.

What Is Spiritual Abuse in Marriage?

Darby Strickland, a counselor and teacher at the Christian Counseling & Educational Foundation, defines spiritual abuse in marriage and offers advice for helping wives who are oppressed in this way.

The Power of Praying Together in Marriage

Praying for your marriage is important. Every time you and your spouse pray for one another, great things happen in your relationship.

A loving husband twirls his smiling wife in the kitchen, symbolizing how to be a good husband by creating joyful and meaningful moments together.

How To Be a Good Husband: A Wife’s Perspective

While there are many qualities that make a good husband, there are three I’ve discovered in mine.

A couple spending time together while cooking in a kitchen, representing living together before marriage and cohabitation.

Living Together Before Marriage: What Does the Bible Say?

How do you counsel someone against living together before marriage? Looking to the example of Jesus, we can point out the sin of cohabitation and correct with love and grace. Understanding what the Bible actually says about this subject is key to engaging this issue.

A man praying for his wife.

Praying for Your Wife

Praying for your wife is one of the best things you can do for your relationship!

Two adults engaged in a serious discussion while seated on a couch in a living room, illustrating conflict resolution and communication challenges often explored in Bible verses about anger in relationships.

Bible Verses to Help You Handle Anger in Marriage

Learn how to handle conflict in marriage by memorizing these bible verses about anger in relationships. Asking God to remind you of them when you’re tempted to lash out at your spouse.

A man tenderly embraces his wife in a hospital bed, offering comfort during a deeply emotional moment, representing the journey of when your spouse has a terminal illness.

When Your Spouse Has a Terminal Illness

When you learn your spouse has a terminal illness, everything changes in an instant. What’s important to know as you begin this hard journey?

6 Truths About Marriage For Engaged Couples

So you think you’re ready for marriage? Engaged couples are often surprised by these six things once they are married. With time, you’ll learn new things about your spouse. Remind yourself that it’s OK because you couldn’t have known everything before the wedding.

A woman who married an introvert, sitting back to back with her husband trying to talk to him while he clearly wants to be elsewhere.

Different Personalities: Help, I Married an Introvert!

Sometimes, when we meet our spouses, our differences attract us to one another. But then those differences can be frustrating once we’re married. If you’re finding that’s the case in your relationship, here are five strategies that might help.

How Birth Order Affects Your Marriage

Because of birth order, the place in their families of origin, spouses have different experiences growing up, and that shapes behavior, personalities and relationships with each other. Understanding how birth order affects how your spouse thinks and behaves can improve communication in your marriage.

A wife grieves her sexual assault as her husband wonders how to help her.

When Sexual Assault Affects Your Marriage

The aftermath of a wife’s sexual assault has profound effects on her marriage. Helping a husband understand how rape has affected his wife is critical to helping her recover.

Portrait of a newly married couple standing by a large window in an elegant room, the wife wearing a white wedding gown and holding a bouquet and the husband wearing a dark formal suit, as they look forward to their wedding night.

How to Prepare for the Wedding Night?

How can an engaged couple prepare for their wedding night? Learning to communicate about expectations and embracing the process is key. But perhaps you don’t know what your expectations should be, or what it’s okay to talk about about. Books, candid conversations, mentors, are all resources you can turn to.