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Embracing the Counter-Cultural Message of the Cross

Embracing the Counter-Cultural Message of the Cross

John Stonestreet discusses the Bible as the unshakeable foundation of truth in a culture where truth is perceived as relative. With the approach of Easter, John also highlights the need to share the Gospel as he talks about the historicity of Jesus Christ's death and resurrection.

John Fuller: In the gospel of John, Jesus said, I am the Resurrection and the Life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live. That’s good news, the good news, the gospel and we have a message on this Good Friday that looks at the events leading up to Jesus’ resurrection and we’re going to examine what that means in the context of today’s culture. This is Focus on the Family with your host Focus president and author Jim Daly and I’m John Fuller.

Jim Daly: John, there is no greater event in the history of the world than the resurrection of Jesus Christ 2,000 years ago. Everything we do at Focus is based on that truth, that Jesus conquered death and offered life to all of us. It’s changed the course of human history. It gives you and me purpose and direction and billions of other people. I’m honored to have John Stonestreet speak about the cultural thinking today and to juxtapose that with the message of Christ, who is our only hope. John is president of the Chuck Colson Center for Christian Worldview and the co-host of Breakpoint. He spoke recently at Focus on the Family’s chapel and that’s what we’ll be sharing with you today.

John F.: Yeah and John began with some comments about passing our faith on to our children and as Christians, maintaining right thinking about God. So, with that, here’s John Stonestreet on Focus on the Family.

John Stonestreet: It’s great to be the dad of little girls. I got to tell you I was a little idealistic maybe, being a father thinking, you know, particularly, I mean, you know, Jim, you were talking about not losing that’s – all of God and what we try to do with our kids is kind of put that all in them or help them nudge along so that they can see God.

So you just kind of think, as a parent, that the answer is easy, right? You tell them what to think about God and they just believe it and that’s it, right? I mean, and anyone that has kids knows that that’s not the case at all.

I actually learned this quite early when my oldest daughter, Abigail, uh, was only about two or three years old. And my wife was, uh, putting them to bed and – and so she, uh – Abigail, joined her mom as they were putting her little sister Anna, who was, at the time, just one, to bed. And as they were walking out of the room, Abigail leaned in and looked at her little sister and said to her, God will be with you tonight, Anna. God will be with you. Wasn’t that sweet? Except then, she turned around to my wife and she said, Mommy, I told Anna that God would be with her, and the other God will be with me. (Laughter)

My wife told me this story, and I was like, oh no, I work for Chuck Colson and my daughter is a polytheist, right? I mean, where do they come up with these ideas? I mean, listen, just maintaining right ideas about God are – it’s a difficult task enough, for us. A.W. Tozer said that the essence of idolatry is entertaining ideas about God that are not worthy of Him. And so, it’s quite easy to become an idolater, just in our own thinking, but there’s a whole other factor. And it’s that other factor, in light of the events that – that we’re going to celebrate and remember this week that I think – that we want to talk about. The other factor is is that we don’t think thoughts about God in a vacuum.

We think thoughts about God in a cultural context. We think thoughts, not just about God, but about family and about each other, and about marriage, and about morality, and about truth, and all that. But we live in a cultural context, and this culture puts pressure on us, kind of from every side, to shape our thinking in one direction or another. There’s an old Chinese proverb that says, if you want to know what water is, don’t ask the fish. Why wouldn’t you ask the fish? I asked a group of high schoolers that once, and they’re like, I don’t know, ‘cause fish can’t talk. No, that’s not it. The reason you don’t ask the fish, is that the fish don’t know they’re wet. And culture is to us, as water is to fish. We swim in it, and so on. And this pressure, from the culture around us, shapes and impacts and molds and – and nudges our belief about God.

Case in point is this time of year, every single year. Every single year, it’s that time of year, where Christians get together and remember the crucifixion, resurrection of Christ. And culture gets together, and major media and major news outlets get together, and they come up with these “Jesus specials” every single Easter, right? And they tend to do this at every single Christmas as well, but really, at Easter, where, you know, major news publications – who is Jesus? And do we really know who Jesus was? And did Jesus even exist? – and so on.

And I woke up a couple of Sunday mornings ago and I checked my newsfeed before church because that’s always a good idea…and I found that this news network, in order to promote their series on Jesus, had put out a quiz. Some of you may have seen this quiz. The quiz was actually directed at Christians. And the quiz asked this question – how much faith do you have in your knowledge of Christianity? So, it was specifically aimed at Christians in the description and so on, challenging, saying you’re a Christian, do you really know enough about your faith? And so I took the quiz. And in a quiz about your knowledge of Christianity, there was a sum total of one question about Jesus – out of ten, just one. And the question was, where did Jesus walk on the water? There was a sum total of two questions that had anything to do with the Bible, whatsoever. The first was about Jesus walking on the water. The second one was, how old was Methuselah? The other questions were like this: We eat Easter eggs in America, or in the West, to celebrate Easter. What do they eat to celebrate Easter in a random obscure commune in southeast France?

And then another question was, you know, about, you know, what do they hide from me? I mean, it was just these kind of crazy, obscure questions that were geographically-based in obscure expression – now. Here’s the punchline of the quiz. The quiz told you absolutely nothing about how much knowledge you had about Christianity. But it does tell us a lot about how our culture understands religion, in general. And it reveals something about the power, or the influence, of culture. You see, what that quiz showed us is that in our larger culture, religion is not seen as anything having to do with truth.This is one of the deep messages of our culture, and it nudges us. It’s this kind of fundamental idea – and the name for this idea, by the way, is called secularism.

But what secularism says is that religion doesn’t deal with truth; religion deals with faith. Religion doesn’t deal with reason; religion deals with feelings. And it separates these two things as if Christian truth claims aren’t truth claims at all, but that religion is not only personal, it’s private.

If there’s one punchline I want you to get out of today, and as we walk through the events of Holy Week, it’s this – Christianity, and the truth claims that Christianity makes about life in the world, are personal, but they’re not private. The truth claims of Christianity are public truth claims, just like gravity is, the sun is, the solar system is. Christianity says Jesus rose from the dead. And it’s not something that’s true for you and not for me, or true if you believe it. What Christianity claims and what it sets its feet on, is that this Jesus – what happened to Him – is just flat-out true.

It’s in Peter’s sermon on Pentecost. So, this is after the resurrection. This is after Jesus has appeared to them and explained things in the Upper Room. This is after Jesus has ascended and sent down the Holy Spirit. And now Peter is preaching a sermon in Jerusalem where Jesus was crucified, and he gives you a punchline. It’s in verse36 of Acts Chapter 2.The punchline is this. “Let all the house of Israel, therefore, know for certain that God has made him both Lord and Christ, this Jesus, whom you crucified.”Do you see the punchline?

He wasn’t saying Jesus Christ is Lord, if you believe it. He was saying Jesus Christ is just flat-out Lord.I think you can look at each event of Holy Week, starting with Palm Sunday, the Triumphal Entry, going through to what we’re talking about today, Maundy Thursday, the crucifixion and the resurrection. And at each point, each event in Holy Week points to some public truths about Jesus and about Christianity that directly confront some myths that are in our culture today. And I want to walk through each of those four events. Now, I know – here’s one of the temptations. As a Christian, one of our temptations is to rush past Holy Week to get to Sunday, right? You know, that old African-American preacher, you remember that line – Sundays – Friday’s here but Sunday’s a-coming – it’s one of the best things. If you’ve never YouTube this, this go YouTube this. It’s really fantastic. And we want to get to Sunday. Don’t get to Sunday too quick.

The only way to Sunday is through the events of this week. You can’t get to the Resurrection, without going through this. And let’s go through each of these. Let’s start with the Triumphal Entry. One of the things that’s interesting, or one of things that many people have commented about, in terms of the state of our culture today, is what some people have called perpetual adolescence. Perpetual – one of the characteristics of Western culture is perpetual adolescence. Now it’s hard to think this through, but stay with me. Adolescence is not common to the human experience. In fact, in most cultures throughout the history of the world, kids went from being kids to being adults. It’s only in the last 50, 60 years that we added a stage of life called adolescence. And so now, kids go from being kids, to being adolescents to being adults. But what’s being noticed is that kids are entering adolescence at an earlier and earlier stage, and they’re leaving adolescence later, and later and later. There’s names for this. I don’t know if you’ve heard of this – Peter Pan syndrome. My favorite is failure to launch.

(LAUGHTER)

Some of us are thinking of people. Yes, exactly. Right? In fact, the National Academy of Sciences now defines adolescence not as a stage of life between 13 and 18, but as the stage of life between 11 and 30.

Audience: (Murmuring in surprise).

11 and 30. And we could see it almost all the way through our culture. If you ever saw the movie Amazing Grace – anybody see the movie Amazing Grace? Sure. The movie Amazing Grace, you remember, you have these two young parliamentarians – anytime they go out in public, they put on gray hair. Times have changed, right? They want to put on gray hair. There was an idea in their culture that they want to look older, and wider and wiser – and not wider, that’s a different culture.

(LAUGHTER)…Older and – that’s ours. (LAUGHTER)

…Older and wiser, right? In our culture, it’s, you know, let’s put on youth, let’s put on youth. Let’s stay young forever. Let’s stay a teenager, right? The most popular movies in our culture, things like, you know, The Hangover. And all of these movies show these kind of married men acting like Ferris Bueller, right? So, we live in a culture of adolescence. There’s a couple of characteristics of adolescence. One of those characteristics is the characteristics of entitlement, that I’m owed something from the world. And one of the things that I’m owed is the – I’m owed the ability to make the decisions that I want, without any consequences. I want to jump off the roof, but not hit the ground. I want what I want, when I want it, and I don’t want any other kind of side consequences that are undesirable, that necessarily go along with it. That’s one of the characteristics of adolescence. Another characteristic of adolescence is kind of a consumerism. We’re a culture that’s very much addicted to choice.

Descartes said, I think, therefore I am. In our culture you might say, I shop, therefore I am – the ability to choose between infinite options and to always have whatever option that I want on display. You don’t realize how seriously addicted you are to choice, until you find yourself without one.

The other characteristic of adolescence is – is kind of emotionalism – that feelings should trump facts. And you say, what does that have to do with the Triumphal Entry? Well, the Gospel of John tells us that it was when Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead that directly led to the Triumphal Entry. And for the record, Jesus wasn’t the first one to get a Triumphal Entry into Jerusalem.

There was another guy a couple hundred years earlier, named Judas Maccabeus, that had gotten a reception, right? He had beat down the Romans and rebellion and restored worship in Jerusalem. And as he rode in, or walk – came into Jerusalem, they got on both sides of the road with palm branches for Judas Maccabeus. And they said, “Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord.” And so they’re thinking the same thoughts that Jesus is going to be that sort of Messiah. Jesus is going to do that sort of thing. And this is the real deal this time, ‘cause he raised somebody from the dead. And it’s those same people who have these expectations – who want life in the world and so on, on their terms. Even the prophecies ofScripture, that just a few days later are saying, “We have no king but Caesar – crucify him, crucify him, crucify him.”

We live in a culture in which we’re told almost all the time that we can have whatever life we want, whatever world we want, that the terms of reality will change on the mere condition that we want them. And even sometimes Christianity, and forms of Christianity, in a kind of a name it, claim it – sort of, if I want it, I get it – and God owes me this, and God owes me that, and that sort of stuff. It’s just deeply ingrained in our culture to think like adolescents. And one of the lessons we learn on Holy Week is – you know what? – the world belongs to God. It belongs to Him. The plans of history are in His hands, not in ours.

The second event of Holy Week is the Last Supper – Maundy Thursday. I remember first telling my kids about Maundy Thursday, and they’re like, what – Monday-Thursday? No, not Monday-Thursday – Maundy Thursday. Maundy comes from that Greek word, or the Latin word, which means “command.” And you know the story. At the Last Supper, Jesus gathers his disciples and He says, “a new command I give to you that you” – what? – “love one another.”

Love’s a tough thing to figure out in our culture, isn’t it? Because, one of the things we’re often told is is that love and truth can’t go together. If we say the truth about something- for example, that marriage has a structure and a definition given by God – if we say the truth about something, then you can’t be loving.

And if you’re loving, you can’t say the truth. And a lot of times these two things are put into conflict. And I’ll just tell you right now, in the work that I do, and even having kids, and so on, I feel the tension between love and truth in our culture – anybody else? Do you just feel like if you speak the truth you can’t be loving? If you’re loving you can’t – and that these two things are always butting heads? This is where Maundy Thursday comes in. See, when Jesus steps up and says, “A new command I give to you” – here’s the irony. He is, at that moment, fulfilling an old command by doing the Passover meal with his disciples. You see theywere to remember the Passover, but now Jesus says, remember, this is my body, broken for you. This is my blood, spilled for you. And – and why is the body broken?Why is the blood spilled? Not because that we’re OK and we just need a friend,not because we just need love from our Heavenly Father – it’s because we need rescue from our sin. This is one of the reasons we have to stay in this week, before getting to Sunday.

There’s no Resurrection without Crucifixion. It matters. And in that act, when Jesus says, now instead of remembering the rescue of Israel at the Passover from Egypt, remember the rescue of sinners from sin and death, and my death and my resurrection. And this is my body, and this is my blood. He says, here’s how you’re to remember it. Love one another. And this is what it looks like. He got up, got the basin, got the towel, got down on his knees and washed their feet. If we think love and truth are in conflict with one another, I get it. It feels that way in our culture. Here’s the good news. Jesus is love. Jesus is truth. If there’s a conflict between love and truth, it’s in our minds, not in reality. He is the source of both of those things, and at that Last Supper, He embodies that connection. And we’re going to remember that together here in just a minute.

Then, of course, there’s the Crucifixion. The crucifixion – I mean, what can we say? There’s so many things that we can say that the Crucifixion confronts. I think one of the most obvious things that the Crucifixion confronts is this idea in our culture that we’re OK. This is one of the most unpopular things about Christianity. Christianity, in our culture, does not say that your feelings are correct on the mere condition that you feel them. We say things in our culture like, every opinion counts. The Bible doesn’t understand that, that every opinion counts. Maybe – yes, every person counts. But some opinions are wrong. Some opinions are dangerous. Some opinions are in conflict with reality itself. The Bible makes no bones about this. You’re not OK. I’m not OK.

The best we can do is as filthy rags. Now you say, how can that be kind? How can that be loving? It’s easy. The cruelest thing you can say to someone who’s not OK is that they are. The cruelest thing you can say to someone, who is under the wrath of God is that they’re not. The cruelest thing that you can tell someone who’s broken is that they’re whole.

The Resurrection – I know we’re not supposed to do this yet. But let’s do it, right? Sunday’s comin’, right? He has risen–.

Audience: –He’s risen, indeed.

John S.: He’s risen, indeed. Isn’t that good news?If you go through all the different political or philosophical systems of the world, what we might call worldviews – all the different worldviews that are out there, all the different belief systems – you can pretty much categorize them into those that are optimistic and those that are pessimistic. The optimistic ones are those that will look at reality, and the human condition and say, you know what? We’re not that bad. We can pull ourselves up by our own bootstraps.

For example, you might say that the 20th century, the 1900s, was the age of utopian visions – one utopian vision after another one saying, we’re gonna fix the world. We’re gonna fix the world. We’re gonna fix the world. We’re gonna rid the world of poverty. We’re gonna rid the world of disease. We’re gonna rid the world of this, or that or the other. How did those philosophies work out? Not really well, did it? Not well at all. In fact, not only didn’t not one of those utopian fantasies fix the world. Almost all of the utopian fantasies of the 20th century made the world a worse place, a more cruel place. More people died at the hands of ideology in the 20th century than all the previous centuries of the world combined. Just one failure after another. If there’s one thing we should learn from the 20th century, it’s that the next time somebody gets up and goes, hey, guys, I figured it out. I got it. I can fix the world – run, because he’s going to bring a lot of hardship and a lot of trouble. But you have philosophies that are optimistic. You have some that are kind of big and grandiose, like those utopian visions, or you just have, kind of the everyday ones that – that tell people they’re OK.

My favorite is Oprahism. I’ll just call it Oprahism – is that OK? It’s kind of a new-agey sort of philosophy that says you’re OK and I’m OK, and if you focus on the good stuff and just ignore the bad stuff, all will be well and you’ll get good parking spots at Christmas and, you know, things like that, alright?

So you have a whole set of philosophies and religions that – that are optimistic about the world, or optimistic about the human condition. You’ve got a whole ‘nother set that are really pessimistic. Life’s broken – kind of the darker forms of what’s called postmodernism falls into this category. No one knows anything for sure, so everyone is just – it’s like all of reality is just one power struggle after another after another. You see this in a lot of kind of alt culture sorts of things- that everything’s broken, everything stinks, and so the only thing to do is just party hard until you die, or just kind of live a life of despair.

The events of Holy Week culminating in the resurrection of Jesus Christ keep us from being an optimist or a pessimist. Why? Well, you can’t be an optimist about the human condition if in order to fix the human condition God had to die. On a Friday afternoon outside of Jerusalem, it can truly be said that God died. God, who took on flesh, entered the world of brokenness and died. That’s the worst thing that could ever happen in the history of the world. That’s the ultimate innocent victim that was victimized because of us.

So, we can’t be an optimist about the human condition, but, you know, you can’t be a pessimist about the human condition, either – why? – because death didn’t win. The day that Christ died, ultimately became the day that death died. It’s funny ‘cause Peter comes to the same conclusion. Years later, as he’s writing his epistle to a group of Christians, the same Peter that preached that Jesus Christ is Lord, and that’s the truth of reality. He actually, in his letters to the church that was about to experience persecution – it’s the first epistle of Peter – you can actually go in there and read that – what do you find? Peter says that where we are to land – what all of this means for us living in this culture – is that we can neither be an optimist or a pessimist. He puts us right in the middle. And the word that he gives us is hope. Just like the Book of Joy was written by Paul from a prison, the Book of Hope was written by Peter in a time facing Nero’s persecution.

And what Peter says is, that there is an event that happened in the history of the world, and the thing that now ought to characterize the Church of Jesus Christ is hope – not wishful thinking, not hope for a new political candidate, or hope for a new situation, or hope for a new tax bracket – hope in the fact that Christ is risen from the dead. And like Peter, like believers throughout history, you and I are to face our cultural moment, plant our feet firmly on the resurrection of Jesus Christ and be people defined by hope.

So the Supreme Court goes our way or doesn’t go our way – here’s what we say together – Christ is risen, right? ISIS continues to wreak havoc on our brothers and sisters in other parts of the world. We say together – Christ is risen. The economy goes up, the economy goes down. We say together – Christ is risen

Thank you, Father, for these events this week. And as we remember them with millions of Christians across the globe, millions of Christians around this country, millions of Christians throughout history, the saints that have gone before us, the angels and the archangels, and the 24 elders, and the living creatures, and everyone else that remembers and – and proclaims the reality and centrality that Christ is risen from the dead. Ground us in that as we look at this crazy world in which we live – in the crazy situations that we face in front of us. And we’re thankful for Jesus Christ, your Son, our Savior above all. In his name, amen. (Applause)

John F.: That’s John Stonestreet speaking at one of our monthly chapels here at Focus on the Family.

Jim: Well, John is such a gifted communicator and I appreciate what he’s done to be a champion in our culture. He’s a wonderful voice for the cause of Christ. As he says, all ideas in the culture have consequences and we need to get our bearings from the cross of Christ, the central event in all of history. To recap, he said the culture pushes us toward making ourselves the center of the universe and that’s not the case. We tend to, as human beings, make our feelings our reality as we adopt those ungodly perceptions like entitlement, consumerism, and emotionalism. I’d say materialism as well. And what should change all of our thinking? Well, it’s the way Jesus taught and lived; to love one another, to speak truth and to always remember his death and resurrection. That should change how we behave. When we share Christ’s love and truth with others, we will contribute to the culture and help to heal some of the brokenness around us.

John F.: And that’s what we’re trying to do here at Focus on the Family. To proclaim that love and that truth and to see the impacts of those in the culture. Now, stop by our website and get a free audio download of this Easter message from John Stonestreet. It’s there at the website and has additional content that we couldn’t fit into this broadcast. The website is focusonthefamily.com/radio. While you’re there, look for the e-booklet. It’s “Coming Home: An Invitation to Join God’s Family” and that has details about becoming a Christian and growing in your Christian faith. Again, focusonthefamily.com/radio.

Well, have a great Easter celebration and join us on Monday. We’re going to be talking with Phil and Kay Robertson of Duck Dynasty about hunting for hope and happiness.

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Phil Robertson: You can be born again and so the change that took place all those years ago, 43 years ago, the change that took place is literally stunning.

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So, after all you’ve seen through the SeeLife ‘21 Episodic journey; what can you do now? We’ll share how you can partner with some amazing organizations that are making significant impacts in the pro-life movement! You want to Celebrate Life!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 2

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

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Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

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Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Effective Habits to Embrace in Parenting

To be an effective parent, you must be a leader in your child’s life, guiding with a gentle hand and setting a solid example. Dr. Randy Schroeder provides the insight you need to be a leader-parent. As he explores the foundational Rs—relationship, routines, responsibilities, and rules—you’ll better understand the role you play in your child’s life. You’ll learn great phrases to employ such as “Either/Or/You Decide” and “When You/Then You”. While there is no perfect parent, this nuts-and-bolts material will equip you to lead your child in a loving, confident manner.

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Dr. Randy Schroeder

Dr. Randy Schroeder has spent more than four decades writing, counseling, speaking, and teaching. For nearly 25 years, he was Vice President of Student Personnel Services, Dean of Students, and a professor of pastoral counseling at Concordia Theological Seminary in Fort Wayne, Ind. He’s also led a successful counseling practice helping individuals, couples, and families to thrive in their lives and relationships.

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Simple Habits for Effective Parenting

Effective parenting is now within your grasp! With this inspiring how-to comprehensive book, achieve extraordinary results in raising a child to be self-assured, self-reliant, and responsible! You will be able to successfully lead and lovingly encourage your child toward a Godly life!

The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage

God designed marriage to reflect His love to the world; and because of this, the enemy wants to destroy God’s beautiful design. Based on his book, Defending Your Marriage, Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff share about the reality of spiritual warfare against marriages, and how to combat the enemy’s lies with the truth of God. Couples will be encouraged that they’re not alone in the fight for a godly marriage and better equipped to be a shining example for the world around them.

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Dr. Tim and Mrs. Noreen Muehlhoff

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff is a professor of communication at Biola University in La Mirada, California where he teaches classes in family communication, interpersonal communication, apologetics, gender, and conflict resolution.  Tim and his wife, Noreen, are both on staff with Biola’s Center for Marriage and Relationships  where he is a co-host of The Art of Relationship podcast. 

Defending Your Marriage

Is your marriage under attack? Sometimes it can feel like the world is trying to tear your marriage apart. Internal conflicts or external pressures might make you wonder if something sinister is going on. How can you tell if you’re facing spiritual opposition? And what can you do about it? Tim Muehlhoff provides a straightforward resource for protecting your marriage from the threats of the evil one. He looks at what Scripture says about spiritual warfare and how our everyday struggles have deeper spiritual realities. And he provides practical steps for guarding our marriages with the whole armor of God.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 1

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 2

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 2

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

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Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

Cover image of Rhonda Stoppe's book "Moms Raising Sons to be Men"

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage - Part 2

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

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Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

Cover image of the book "Marriage Triggers" by Guy and Amber Lia

Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 2

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

Are You Really Okay?

Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Embracing Your Role as a Spouse

As a spouse, you have three roles to play—a friend, a partner, and a lover. On this one-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Pastor Kevin A. Thompson explores those different roles and challenges you to live them out by investing emotionally, physically, and mentally in your relationship. As friends, he suggests we learn to play and laugh together. As partners, he equips us with solid ways to handle conflict and communication. As lovers, he offers some thoughts on how to bring back the sizzle. He shares five keys to saving your marriage: humility, respect, mercy, communication, and resilience. You’ll be encouraged to intentionally invest in your marriage.

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Pastor Kevin Thompson

Kevin A. Thompson (MDiv, Beeson Divinity School) is lead pastor at Community Bible Church, a growing multi-site church with four locations in western Arkansas. Every year he meets with nearly one hundred couples with a range of needs, from pre-marital counseling to navigating the most serious betrayals. A marriage and parenting conference speaker, he and his wife, Jenny, have two children and live in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He blogs at kevinathompson.com.

Cover image of Kevin Thompson's book "Friends, Partners & Lovers"

Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work

With engaging stories and clear, simple language, pastor Kevin Thompson shows how to live out three distinct roles in marraige. Using solid biblical principles, he helps you and your spouse grow your friendship, be supportive partners through the good times and the bad, and develop a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Sharing Your Faith with Grace and Purpose

You can confidently and lovingly share your faith—you just need to learn some new tactics to do so! In this Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast, apologist Greg Koukl outlines the “Columbo” tactic of asking questions, the “self-defeating argument” tactic to find holes in your opponent’s arguments, and other specific methods for engaging in faith-building conversations with others. Greg pulls from his over 30 years of experience debating atheists and agnostics to help you share your faith with grace and truth.

Mr. Greg Koukl

Greg Koukl is a writer, public speaker and talk show host who’s spent 30 years advocating for and defending the Christian worldview. Greg has written or contributed to 15 books, including The Story of RealityTactics, and Precious Unborn Human Persons. Greg has published nearly 230 articles and has spoken on 80 college and university campuses in the U.S. and abroad.

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Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions

In a world increasingly indifferent to Christian truth, followers of Christ need to be equipped to communicate with those who do not speak their language or accept their source of authority. In Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition, Gregory Koukl demonstrates how to artfully regain control of conversations, keeping them moving forward in constructive ways through thoughtful diplomacy. You’ll learn how to stop challengers in their tracks and how to turn the tables on questions or provocative statements. Most important, you’ll learn how to get people thinking about Jesus.

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage - Part 1

Debra Fileta has identified the four seasons of marriage that correspond with our natural seasons – spring (new life and new love), summer (things get hot!), fall (showing our true colors), and winter (long days ahead). In this interview, she will help couples better understand the four seasons of healthy relationships, what to expect during each one, and how to carefully navigate them for a stronger marriage.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage.

Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship

Every relationship goes through four life-changing seasons: Spring. Summer. Fall. Winter. Each season plays an important role in taking your relationship to the next level. And depending on how you navigate each season, your relationship will either flourish and grow, or it will slowly die. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged or married, join licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta as she takes you on an eye-opening psychological and spiritual journey through the four seasons that she has observed in every healthy relationship.

How a Former Abortion Doctor Became Pro-Life

As an abortion doctor at Planned Parenthood, Dr. Patti Giebink believed she was helping women. Later, she began reading scripture and God gradually changed her heart on the abortion issue. Patti tells the story of her long journey from abortion doctor to pro-life and encourages listeners to share the message of life with compassion.

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Mrs. Patti Giebink

Dr. Patti Giebink is an OB-GYN who serves on the board of the Alpha Center, a well-known pregnancy center located in Sioux Falls, S.D. She also travels intermittently to work in mission hospitals in Pakistan and other countries. After completing her medical training, Dr. Giebink worked for Planned Parenthood from 1995-1997, during which she was the only abortion-provider in the state of South Dakota. She eventually experienced a radical change of heart on the issue of abortion after receiving God’s grace, forgiveness, and love, and she is now a passionate advocate for the pro-life movement.

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Unexpected Choice: An Abortion Doctor’s Journey to Pro-Life

Unexpected Choice is told from the perspective of a doctor who actually performed abortions through Planned Parenthood. The book chronicles her journey from being a pro-choice physician to someone speaking on behalf of the pro-life movement.

Giving up Sugar, Tasting God's Goodness

As a latchkey kid, Wendy Speake turned to sugar for comfort. Every Friday, she would pedal to the candy show and use her allowance to fill her bag with candy. And one day, when she was older and a mom of three young boys, she came to realize that she was still “pedaling” away from her stress and using sugar as comfort, instead of turning to Jesus. She was joyless, worn out, tired, and in need of a change. In this interview, Wendy will challenge Christians to take 40 days to focus on fasting from something they turn to instead of Jesus for comfort. She invited people to break free from a dependence on sugar and taste the goodness of God.

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Mrs. Wendy Speake

With a background in Hollywood as a trained actress, Wendy Speake ministers to women as a bible teacher by applying the power of drama, poetry and comedy to the study of Scripture and real-life application of biblical truths. She has co-authored two books with Amber Lia titled Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and their latest, Parenting Scripts: When What You’re Saying Isn’t Working, Say Something New. Wendy is also the co-author (with Kelli Stuart) of Life Creative: Inspiration for Today’s Renaissance Mom.

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The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation

Welcome to the 40-Day Sugar Fast, a fast that begins with us giving Jesus our sugar and ends with Jesus giving us himself–the only thing that can ever truly satisfy our soul’s deep hunger. On this 40-day journey you’ll learn how to stop fixating on food and other things you use to fill the voids in life and instead fix your eyes on Christ. Anyone who runs to sugar for comfort or a reward, who eats mindlessly or out of boredom, who feels physically and spiritually lethargic, or who struggles with self-control will discover here not only freedom from their cravings but an entirely new appetite for the good things God has for us.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 1

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

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Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 2

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

Bundle of Why Your Kids Misbehave

Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage - Part 2

Debra Fileta has identified the four seasons of marriage that correspond with our natural seasons – spring (new life and new love), summer (things get hot!), fall (showing our true colors), and winter (long days ahead). In this interview, she will help couples better understand the four seasons of healthy relationships, what to expect during each one, and how to carefully navigate them for a stronger marriage.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage.

Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship

Every relationship goes through four life-changing seasons: Spring. Summer. Fall. Winter. Each season plays an important role in taking your relationship to the next level. And depending on how you navigate each season, your relationship will either flourish and grow, or it will slowly die. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged or married, join licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta as she takes you on an eye-opening psychological and spiritual journey through the four seasons that she has observed in every healthy relationship.

Reconciling Faith and Science in a Medical Crisis

Dr. Lee Warren is a neurosurgeon who has faced many heavy challenges in his life – from serving in the Iraq War to removing deadly brain tumors to experiencing the loss of a teenage son. He’ll share about his difficult quest to find answers to some of life’s toughest questions, while holding onto his faith in God and the sure hope of heaven

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Dr. Lee Warren

W. Lee Warren, M.D., is a brain surgeon , inventor, Iraq War veteran, and author of I’ve Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know, winner of the Christian Book Award®. His previous book, No Place to Hide, was included on the 2015 U.S. Air Force Chief of Staff’s Recommended Reading List. Dr. Warren has appeared on The 700 Club and the CBS Evening News, and his writings have been featured in Guideposts magazine. His Dr. Lee Warren Podcast, which is heard in more than 60 countries, helps listeners use the power of neuroscience, faith, and common sense to change their lives.

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I've Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon's Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know

This gripping inspirational memoir grapples with the tension between faith and science—and between death and hope—as a seasoned neurosurgeon faces insurmountable odds and grief both in the office and at home.

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 1

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

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Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

Cover image of Jodie Berndt's book "Praying the Scriptures for Your Children"

Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 1

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

Headshot of Rhonda Stoppe

Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

Cover image of Rhonda Stoppe's book "Moms Raising Sons to be Men"

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage Part 1

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

Headshot of Guy and Amber Lia

Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

Cover image of the book "Marriage Triggers" by Guy and Amber Lia

Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 1

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

Are You Really Okay?

Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Navigating a Toxic Culture with Your Daughter - Part 1

As a pediatrician, Dr. Meg Meeker has seen thousands of girls come through her office through the years. They struggle with eating issues, sexual identity, social media…and many other challenges in this toxic culture. Dr. Meeker will encourage parents to invest love and time in their daughters and develop their character to give them the best opportunity for a bright future, all rooted in a spiritual foundation. The discussion also includes healthy feminism vs. toxic feminism

Mrs. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as a an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong DaughtersStrong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers

Cover image of Dr. Meg Meeker's book "Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture"

Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe

Meg Meeker has been a pediatrician for more than thirty years, is a mother and a grandmother, and has seen it all. She knows what makes for strong, happy, healthy young women–and what puts our daughters at risk. Combining that experience with her famous common sense, she explains the eleven steps that will help your daughter–whether she’s a toddler or a troubled teen–to achieve her full human potential.

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Newest Release - Episode 1: The Truth About Life!

In this episode, we will tackle tough questions like, “When does life begin?” and “What does the Bible
say about Life?” You’ll discover and understand the stages of pre-born life and that babies are more than
just a clump of cells!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

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