Today’s Scripture
I thank my God in all my remembrance of you” (Philippians 1:3, ESV).
Today’s Devotion
My dad was angry! All he wanted to do was sit down and watch the game. What else are you supposed to do on Thanksgiving Day?
My mom had other ideas. She was working in the kitchen and needed his help. The discussion ended in a huff, and he stormed out of the kitchen, into his office, and then shut the door loudly enough to let everyone know he was displeased.
Happy Thanksgiving?
I gave him a few minutes to cool down and then knocked on his door. “Who’s there,” he asked in a gruff-sounding voice. “It’s Greg,” I answered. His only reply was “Ugh.” (Love you too, Dad.) I walked in his office and found him reading a document on his computer. I peeked over his shoulder to see it was some sort of list. “What’s this,” I asked.
The gratitude list that changed everything
His answer left a lasting impression. “Over the years, I’ve kept a list of things I cherish about your mother,” he said. “I add to it from time to time. And when I’m upset with something she said or did, I read the list to remind myself that she is a wonderful gift from God and that I am truly blessed.” Talk about gratitude!
I don’t remember the outcome of the football game on TV. I don’t remember the dinner table discussion. But I will always remember Dad’s list.
Gratitude List: A new holiday tradition
I’ve started a similar gratitude list about Erin and what I absolutely love about her. And just like my dad did, I read it from time to time.. When I do, I’m reminded of Philippians 1:3, “I thank my God in all my remembrance of you” (ESV).
Marriage isn’t easy. The holidays are stressful. It’s easy to forget that your spouse is a gift. So, this Thanksgiving, start a new tradition:
- Write a list of all the things you cherish about your spouse.
- Add to it often.
- Read it often.
And when you do, say a prayer of gratitude for your spouse and the blessings they bring to your life.
Today’s Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank you for the wonderful gift of a spouse! May you bless our relationship and help us grow deeper in love. Amen.
