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Anger

A woman sits on a couch on the other end from her husband, with whom she is clearly angry. Imagine they hit one of your “buttons,” and you had an angry outburst at your spouse. How do you repair the relationship?

What Should I Do After an Angry Outburst at My Spouse?

How do you repair the relationship when you have an angry outburst at your spouse? Read on to learn more about controlling your reactions.

Violence among girls signals a time to teach strength without aggression

Is Your Daughter A Mean Girl?

Some are calling this breed the “New American Girl.” She’s more physical, not afraid to be aggressive or go after what she wants, and she takes care of herself.

An angry woman sits at the end of a couch, clearly angry with the bearded man sitting on the other end of the couch. There is plenty of motivation to learn how to deal with anger in your marriage effectively. Here are a few scenarios to consider.

Dealing With Anger in Your Marriage

Marriage provides motivation to learn how to manage anger, which often stems from other emotions: hurt, fear or frustration. Here are some healthy ways to deal with anger in your marriage.

A woman sits on a couch with her husband, comforting him after and argument. Don't let your spouse make you angry. When you feel strong emotion (a reaction), slow down and decide what to do next (a response).

Don’t Let Your Spouse Make You Angry

No one-including our spouse-can control the way you feel. The next time you react emotionally or in anger, take a step back and acknowledge that while the emotion is real, how you respond to it is up to you.

A couple sitting across from each other hold hands, in support of each other. Be on the lookout for warning signs of mental health issues.

Warning Signs that Your Spouse Has Mental Health Issues

When spouses stay alert to changes in each other, they can catch warning signs of possible mental health issues early on and seek the help they need.

Portrait of a young girl making an angry face

How to Stop Your Child’s Angry Cycle

Helping your children deal with their anger can seem impossible when emotions run high. But you can train your kids to recognize triggers and replace them with truths that will help them get out of their angry cycle.

A man grabs his spouse's aggressively, symbolizing physical abuse in marriage.

What Is Physical Abuse in Marriage?

Physical abuse is a means of coercively controlling another through fear and intimidation. It involves intentionally or recklessly using physical force that may result in bodily injury or physical pain.

angry toddler crosses her arms

Uncovering the Pain Behind Your Child’s Anger

Learn how to recognize the reasons for anger, and whether it’s appropriate or not.

What Should I Do If My 5-Year-Old Wets His Pants When Angry?

These situations can be awkward for everyone involved, especially if it occurs in public. However, you have the chance to bring reassurance and confidence to your child’s world and understanding of their emotions.

mother daughter conflict

Mom: Friend or Foe?

Ask the Lord to give you empathy for your mother, to help you understand, and to show you how you can love and support her in her struggles.

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Controlling Anger So It Doesn’t Control You (Part 2 of 2)

In a discussion based on his book Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion, Gary Chapman offers practical advice for dealing with anger in a healthy manner and embracing the power of forgiveness. (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Controlling Anger So It Doesn’t Control You (Part 1 of 2)

In a discussion based on his book Anger: Taming a Powerful Emotion, Gary Chapman offers practical advice for dealing with anger in a healthy manner and embracing the power of forgiveness. (Part 1 of 2)

Dad taking a mental health break

Turtle Time: Mental Health Breaks During Coronavirus

Be aware of your own feelings. Notice when you are annoyed or overwhelmed and are becoming angry. Once you are aware, choose to take a break and deal with your emotions before you try to deal with your child’s emotions.

Illustration of man standing on a ladder in his garage, struggling with a water hose wrapped around his neck

How I Learned to Avoid Overreacting

I used to overreact. Now I seek clarity before reacting in communication with my wife. I slow down and examine my heart before engaging.

I’m so Mad!

Helping children develop healthy ways to think through and talk about their anger.

Upset mom in a business suit talking on the phone, distracted by tween daughter tugging on her sleeve

Mommy-Anger Management

Consider using three biblical, anger management techniques to connect with your kids and nurture young hearts.

angry toddler

How To Cope With an Angry Baby or Toddler

Anger can be a normal, and necessary part of your child’s development. He’s trying to express needs, trying to control his environment, and trying to become independent. He’s also trying your nerves!

Close up of angry young boy's face

Managing Tween Anger

Help your tween grow into a thoughtful young adult by prioritizing your relationship rather than simply listing rules.

Living With a Killer

Do we have the tools, the skills, and the patience to help build a renaissance of fatherhood? Read on to discover what this wife, mother — and family court judge — thinks.

Close up of a man's fist resting on a table, suggesting it's balled up in anger

The Upside and Downside of Anger

Is “righteous anger” ever justified? Know the difference between selfish and selfless anger.