Communication and Conflict

young married couple

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Who Did You Marry?: Understanding Your Spouse

Paul Reisser and Teri K. Reisser

People who have been staunchly committed to faith and family fall into trouble when they don't grow with their spouse. We need to continually "update" our knowledge about our husband or wife.

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Stuffing Emotions is a False Way to Keep the Peace in Your Marriage

Lysa TerKeurst

True peacekeeping isn't about stopping the emotion. It's about properly processing the emotions before they get stuffed and rot into something horribly toxic.

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Extinguishing Marital Conflict

Ron Deal

Marriage conflict often involves more than simply an issue over which the couple disagrees. How the couple interacts and the negative feelings experienced by each person also affect communication.

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Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast

Episode

Reducing Conflict in Your Marriage

In a discussion based on her book The Argument-Free Marriage, Fawn Weaver explains how you can reduce conflict with your spouse by making small, intentional changes, timing your discussions, establishing rules of engagement, and more.

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A pensive young man looks over his shoulder toward where his wife sits in a field looking sad.

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Managing Stress Together

Greg Smalley and Erin Smalley

What do you do when you're stressed out? When you deal with stressful events in unhealthy ways, you create new problems in your relationships. But there are ways to constructively deal with stress.

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Why Couples Stop Talking

Greg Smalley

Good communication is the lifeblood of a successful marriage, so when spouses stop talking at a deep level, their marriages slowly die. A marriage will only be as good as a couple's communication.

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Believing the Best About Your Spouse

Emerson Eggerichs

When you decide to view your spouse as a good-willed person, that perspective changes your entire relationship. Even in the middle of conflict, you can see each other as partners and friends.

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Control in Marriage

Yvette Maher

"I've come to realize, through my own experience as well as in conversation with friends, that marriage works best when my husband and I labor in tandem." — Yvette Maher

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Learn to Identify Your Emotions

Milan Yerkovich and Kay Yerkovich

Using "soul words" helps develop a greater awareness of your inner experiences. And once you begin the awareness process, you will be amazed at how thoughts, feelings and reactions become clearer to you.

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Illustration of a man holding half of an umbrella in the rain; his wife is offering her half of her umbrella to help protect him from the rain

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Are You Kind to Your Husband?

Shaunti Feldhahn

Shaunti Feldhahn shares from the results of her recent research, pointing out that she found the answer to having a great marriage was simple—be kind.

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Peace on Earth ... and Goodwill Toward Your Man

Erin Smalley

Christmas may be the most wonderful time of the year, but the busyness of the season and financial pressures can lead to stress, which breeds conflict and leads to a disconnect in marriage.

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When You and Your Spouse Can't Agree

Teri Reisser

Perpetual disagreements don't have to derail your marriage. Most unsolvable problems won’t harm your relationship if you have an adequate set of communication skills and follow a few basic principles.

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Mastering Your Spouse's Love Language

Gary Chapman

Can struggling relationships be reborn? The answer is yes if couples become aware of the nature of love and learn how to express it in a language their mate can understand.

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Husband talking to unhappy wife in the living room

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When Your Wife Doesn't Like You

Eric Christiansen

Your relationship with your spouse is often gauged by a "like meter," which describes how you feel about him or her. What can you do to lift the needle? 

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Series

Discover the Joy of Helping Your Spouse Succeed

When you discover the joy of helping your spouse succeed, you begin to establish or restore emotional health, respect, support and encouragement in your marriage.

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Article

30-Second Marriage Boosters

Bill Farrel

Couples can find the balance between a busy life and a growing relationship, and they can further enhance their love with these simple, 30-second habits.

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Article

Honest Affirmation Can Make Your Marriage Great

Erin Smalley

Amid the busyness of life, Erin Smalley incorporates simple affirmation into her marriage relationship and watches her husband thrive.

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Article

Strong Women and Married Life

Cynthia Tobias

Most strong-willed women handle marriage the way we do almost everything else — we have the capacity to bring out both great passion and great friction.

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How Can I Forgive My Spouse?

Tony Evans

To overcome unforgiveness, we need to deal with our emotional wounds and let them heal.

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How Childhood Experiences Impact Marriage Relationships

Kay Yerkovich with Milan Yerkovich

Our childhood experiences and the way our parents related to us have imprinted certain thought patterns and behaviors on us.

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Article

Reconnect Through Meaningful Conversation

Greg Smalley

It takes intentionality to overcome the tendency for talk with your spouse to morph from meaningful to administrative. Deep, meaningful conversation is a must for couples hoping to stay connected.

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Darrell and Stevie Waltrip in the late 1970s.

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NASCAR'S Darrell Waltrip: Racing Through Life

Matthew Branaugh

NASCAR's Darrell Waltrip and his wife, Stevie, raced through life until a recorded sermon and an almost fatal accident changed their lives.

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Emotional Safety in a Troubled Marriage

Vicki Morgan

Taking responsibility for a better marriage begins by recognizing your need for help and then creating emotional safety in your relationship.

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