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June 14, 2022

Don’t Become a Spider Spouse

Unrealistic expectations are something all of us struggle with, yet they're very damaging to a marriage. John, Greg and Erin share how they've learned to adjust their expectations in marriage. Featuring Gary Thomas.

Original Air Date: June 14, 2022
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