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MARRIAGE DEVOTIONAL: THE ORIGINAL INSULT GURU

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Insulted young woman gesturing with hand and looking at her boyfriend while sitting in a cafe at the park outdoors
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Sarcastic words, spoken in the heat of the moment can destroy your marriage. What if, instead of insults, you spoke with truth and kindness?

Today’s Scripture

“Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29, ESV).

Today’s Devotion

William Shakespeare was a master wordsmith. Though his plays and works are over four hundred years old, they’re as relevant, witty, and entertaining today as they were in the 1500s. They’re also very quotable. Especially the insults. Shakespeare was also the master of taunts and put-downs.

  • “A most notable coward, an infinite and endless liar, an hourly promise breaker.”
    All’s Well That Ends Well (Act 3, Scene 6)

  • “I’ll beat thee, but I would infect my hands.”
    Timon of Athens (Act 4, Scene 3)

  • “Methink’s thou are a general offense.”
    All’s Well That Ends Well (Act 2, Scene 3)

  • “The tartness of his face sours ripe grapes.”
    The Comedy of Errors (Act 5, Scene 4)

Shakespeare’s insults – like many others – are fun to say, but not to receive. What might initially seem like a silly turn of words can leave scars on the heart of the one to whom it is directed.

Sometimes that person is your spouse.

Words spoken in jest, sarcasm, or the heat of the moment can destroy relationships and harm marriages. That’s why Ephesians 4:29 says, “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.” (ESV)

When you’re tempted to “really let your spouse have it,” take a time out. Ask God to control your tongue and turn your words from sarcasm to encouragement so that you can build up your spouse and show them grace.

Today’s Prayer

Heavenly Father, sometimes it’s so tempting to get the last word or speak my mind. When those moments come, please control my tongue and help me treat my spouse with grace. Amen.

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