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Ginger Kolbaba

Ginger Kolbaba was an award-winning author, editor and speaker. She was a contributing editor to Focus on the Family magazine and a columnist for Positive Note magazine. Her many books include Your Best Happily Ever After and The Old Fashioned Way.

Managing Conflict with your in-laws is very important. Here we see a harmonious family with two in-laws, a young couple and their two kids.

Managing Conflict With In-Laws

You don’t just marry your spouse … you marry their family. And that can be difficult. Learn how to set healthy boundaries and love your in-laws.

Remarriage doesn't wipe away memories and old habits. When such habits arise take time to discuss them, like this couple sitting on this couch.

Remarriage Doesn’t Wipe Away Memories and Old Habits

Remarriage may start a clean relationship slate, but it doesn’t wipe away memories and old habits. Your best response to your spouse’s remarriage mistakes may be uncommonly simple.

Photo of man and woman laying on the ground, each holding a paper heart over their chest, while paper hearts are sprinkled on them from above. They are happy because they have the secrets of healthy sex in their marriage.

5 Things Experts Wish You Knew about Healthy Sex in Marriage

Have hope. You can take steps to have healthy, God-honoring sex and intimacy in marriage.

Photo of Kristin, having just given birth to Christian Robert.

Baby Christian Was Supposed to Die

If the Botsfords thought the prognosis couldn’t get worse, they discovered that it could. “Do you want to terminate this pregnancy?” the doctor asked. Both Kristin and Kevin immediately said no.

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Healthy Gender Roles in Marriage

Learn how embracing your God-given gender roles in marriage can bring vitality, joy and security into your relationship.

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Chronic Pain: When Your Loved One Hurts

Taking back your marriage from chronic pain

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How to Reconnect with Your Spouse

With the chaos of kids, jobs and schedules, it’s easy to feel disconnected. But there are simple ways you and your spouse can reconnect your love.

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Giving Back the Engagement Ring

Breaking off the engagement is difficult, but if you have doubts about getting married, it’s best to take things slowly and prayerfully.

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Celebrate Easter As a Couple

Though you may be social distancing or “quarantined” at home, you and your spouse can still celebrate Easter in meaningful ways.

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When You Don’t Want to Divorce but Your Spouse Does

What do you do when your spouse wants to end the marriage but you don’t want a divorce?

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What to Do When Your Teens Aren’t Ready to Go Back to School

Help your teens make a smoother transition as they head back to school.

Equip Your Teen to Be a Great College Roommate

Prepare your teens to get along with the people they’ll live with in college

When Your Spouse Still Mourns What Can No Longer Be

When a marriage ends, it’s normal to mourn the loss of what can no longer be. Those times of grieving are a part of the healing process, and they offer opportunities to show love to your new spouse.

Time Out for Two

Instant-family couples aren’t afforded the same luxuries as first-time married couples. They don’t get privacy or generous amounts of uninterrupted time together like pre-kid couples do.

Dating in a Digital World

Help teens choose what works today without compromising what has worked in the past.