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Forgiveness and Healing for Post-Abortive Women

Forgiveness and Healing for Post-Abortive Women

Lindsay Christensen and Laurie Haynes, both of whom serve in leadership roles at pregnancy resource centers, share powerful stories from their ministry to post-abortive women and men, offering encouragement and hope to listeners who may be struggling with the emotional anguish of a past abortion.
Original Air Date: October 14, 2020

Woman #1: I made the most awful decision because other people wanted me to. I wasn’t strong enough to do the right thing.

Woman #2: The second it was over I wanted to turn back time, but I can’t. And I feel completely empty and ashamed.

Woman #3: My husband and I have struggled with trauma of our abortion for 34 years.

Woman #4: I think about my baby often. Every year at the anniversary of my due date, I think about how old my child would have been.

John Fuller: Today on Focus on the Family we’re going to be exploring how abortion impacts women, often in unexpected ways. And as we get into this topic, it won’t be appropriate for younger listeners. I’m John Fuller. And your host is Focus on the Family president, Jim Daly.

Jim Daly: Uh, John, those comments are heartbreaking that we just heard, because abortion is clearly not a simple fix or procedure that people describe. Teen girls and women who are looking for a way out of an unplanned pregnancy don’t realize the devastating consequences when they sacrifice the life of their child. It sounds heavy, it is heavy. Abortion damages everything – your health, your emotions, and your identity. And it will impact your marriage and the relationships you have with your future children. And worse, it can damage your relationship with God. That sounds very negative, but God is also there with forgiveness. And that’s the, uh, core of the program today. And I want people to know right from the start that that’s our aim, that’s our passion, to know that in Christ there is forgiveness. If you’ve experienced an abortion in your past, we do want to help you. We have great, caring, Christian counselors that are here for you. I’m grateful to the donor community that supply the resources to take care of that. Uh, simply call us and we will get back to you with a counselor if that’s what you need now.

John: Mm-hmm. Yeah, we have a lot of great resources and support here for you. And our number is 800, the letter A and the word FAMILY. You can also find help at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast.

Jim: Our guests today work on the front-lines of pro-life ministry. They represent the pregnancy resource centers, uh, that are scattered throughout the United States and Canada, which help women who are dealing with unplanned pregnancies. Um, many provide counseling for those who’ve experienced an abortion as well, so you can turn to your local pregnancy resource center for that help, too. Here at Focus on the Family, uh, we partner with the centers through our Option Ultrasound program where we, uh, provide grants to get, uh, ultrasound equipment in and training for that equipment, uh, doctor’s licenses to help cover a clinic. Um, all kinds of things that we attempt to help the clinics with. Let me just say and make a pitch for supporting your local pregnancy resource center. Uh, that’s one of the best things you can do to express your Christian concern and love in a local way. And I’m sure, uh, there’s a pregnancy resource center near you that you can get involved with.

John: And our guests today are Laurie Haynes and Lindsay Christensen. Um, and Laurie is the Director of Post-Abortion Support at the Living Alternatives Pregnancy Resource Center, uh, based in Central Illinois. Lindsay is the COO of the Parkridge Pregnancy Medical Clinic in Lubbock, Texas. And as a professional counselor, she directs the Post-Abortion Recovery program at Parkridge.

Jim: Lindsay and Laurie, uh, welcome to Focus on the Family.

Mrs. Laurie Haynes: It’s great to be here, thank you.

Jim: Good to have you.

Mrs. Lindsay Christensen: Yes.

Jim: Um, let’s start by describing the women you see in your counseling. Um, there’s no typical woman, the average woman who is contemplating abortion. So, give us a portrait of what’s happening. I’m sure it’s teens and even 20-, 30-something women.

Lindsay: Yes. So, while there doesn’t seem to be a typical woman who seeks post-abortion recovery, generally what we have seen in the women that we’ve counseled through the years, um, fall into a couple of different categories. One may be, they’re maybe six months to a year to three years out from their abortion and their life is continuing to implode in some ways. And so, they remember that they came to Parkridge, or they came to a clinic for help and they remember somebody saying, “Hey, if you make this choice, if you have an abortion, um, we want to help you if you struggle.” And so, they may return for some counseling. Another woman that often comes to seek healing may be in her 40s, 50s, or 60s. Maybe her children are older or she’s an empty-nester. And I think in a certain stage of life, uh, women may feel like, “Wow, I have some time to think about me.” And then some of these things are rising to the surface.

Jim: Yeah.

Lindsay: And I’ve seen women, uh, be so courageous. Because how easy would it be for that woman to say, “It’s been 20, 30, 40 years…”

Jim: Yeah.

Lindsay: “…Why would I even go back there?” Yet, I have seen God do amazing work and amazing healing with that woman who has the courage to face that choice, even if it was decades ago.

Jim: What do they say to you in that regard? Why is that spark there to come back? Is it, is it, again, grieving that loss? I mean, they raise their other two, three, four kids and yet there was that other.

Lindsay: Oftentimes, the women coming to us in that age range have heard about us at their church. So, they hear about a ministry, like Parkridge or Living Alternatives, and they hear that there’s an option for post-abortion recovery. I’ve had women say, “I had no idea there was a place that I could go just to talk about that.” They don’t feel like they can talk about it in their regular Bible studies, or book clubs, or community groups. For some reason, the enemy continues to make them believe that it’s not safe. So, when they can find a place that specializes and is safe, they often realize, “I need to go.”

Jim: That’s good.

Laurie: Can I just add onto that? I think now, too, with abortion in the media and in the news, a lot of these wounds are – are coming to the surface. And we pray that these wounds would come to the surface so that people could get help. But I think another thing, when women and men get older, they’re starting to think about generations. And they’re starting to think, “Remember, I could be a grandparent had I not aborted that child. I could be a great-grandparent.” And so, it’s always there.

Jim: Laurie, you have spoken pretty boldly about your situation, that you had an abortion. Um, describe that and, you know, work us through the feelings of that. So, it’s that, you know, statement that your passion was born out of your pain, obviously. And that you’ve given your life to this now.

Laurie: Yes.

Jim: Um, describe why?

Laurie: Yes. Um, well first of all, um, I have to say, it brings me no greater joy than to share my story because God can redeem anything. In my work with post-abortion, I know that many, many women that have this in their past have a history of trauma – um, emotional, physical, sexual trauma. And that’s why I have such a heart for women and even for Christians who – who may not even want to acknowledge it, but they hold a judgment in their heart towards women who made this choice because there can be so much trauma. For me, however, there was not trauma in my life. I was raised in a God-honoring home with two committed, devoted parents. Was raised to know God. Uh, went to church faithfully every Sunday and I had high expectations with how my life was going to go and I did believe in abstinence until marriage. Got to college and got into the party scene, was drinking a lot on the weekends. And one thing led to another, and my boyfriend and I began a sexual relationship. Um, I thought I was doing the, um, responsible thing. I visited a local Planned Parenthood and got on birth control, but a couple months before I was to graduate from nursing school, I discovered I was pregnant. Now, that’s where the quandary is (laughs), because I had this moral, um, sense in me that abortion is wrong. I mean, I knew. I knew it was wrong, but I was scared. I, um, was ashamed. I didn’t want to bring disappointment onto my family. Although my mom and dad – uh, they’re both with the Lord now – they would’ve supported me through that. They would have. Um, a friend of mine had had her abortion six months before. I knew who to call. She gave me the number of a clinic in Chicago. My boyfriend, to his credit, he did offer to marry me at the time, but that was not in my plans. I wanted things to go my way. So, that day, worst day of my life in that clinic. What strikes me now is when I, when I left that clinic, I was relieved. I had that sense of relief like, “Okay. I can get back to my…”

Jim: The problem’s taken care of.

Laurie: The problem’s gone.

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: I mean, that’s the whole lie behind the abortion industry. It’s a quick fix.

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: But it’s a lot of times impossible to tell how you’re going to feel…

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: …On the backend.

Jim: Let me, um – you know, in some ways I hesitate to even ask this question, but oftentimes those on the other side of this debate are going to say, “You know, if the culture was just more accepting of this, if religious people would keep their faith to themselves, then women would not be stigmatized like they are.” I get the question, but I – I think it totally misses what’s in the very deepest part of a woman’s heart. What God has placed in them as a mother. And it starts when you – when you’re pregnant.

Laurie: That’s right.

Jim: You begin to realize there’s something in here that’s a miracle.

Laurie: That’s right.

Jim: It’s spectacular. It’s – this is amazing! And I – you know, all the religious people in the world could keep their mouth shut it’s not going to change what’s in a woman’s heart if she’s honest with herself. Have you experienced that, or have I articulated it right? Or correct me where I’m wrong.

Lindsay: Yeah. I think you articulated that well, Jim, because the women that I’ve had the opportunity to work with and who I’ve heard their stories, regardless of what others have said, or what they see on Facebook, or in politics, they have their own set of values. Um, and really, that’s what determines if somebody is going to struggle afterwards, is what do they value about life? What do they value? Um, and so, it doesn’t really matter in some ways what the culture says, or what Christians say, um, I think women do have – and it’s God’s design. We know that as believers, it’s God’s design from the very beginning…

Jim: Yeah.

Lindsay: …To bond with that child.

Jim: It – it’s so true. And you’re working against God’s nature in that way. And I say that very implicitly, you know, that God has put this in your heart as a woman.

Laurie: I’m so glad you brought that up, Jim, too, because I’m involved – um, I’m on a private Facebook page. It’s called “I Regret My Abortion.” And I am surprised – well, really, not surprised. But I – I read on there from women who regret this choice, okay? And they’re asking for help and they say, “Is there any post-abortion help that I can get that isn’t religious?” And to me, I really, I – I want to say, “You know what? I really can’t recommend a healing program that isn’t based on God, because the bottom line is the sanctity of human life, you feel badly because in your deepest sense, your conscious, you know that that was a life.”

John: This is Focus on the Family with Jim Daly and our guests today are Lindsay Christensen and Laurie Haynes. And, uh, we have resources for you if this reverberating within you. We have counseling, uh, staff that can, uh, talk to you over the phone. We have articles, videos, and more all at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast. Or call 800, the letter A and the word FAMILY.

Jim: Lindsay, let me ask you to describe the counseling process that you use with post-abortive women. Uh, what are some of the key components of that? You’re speaking to women right now that may have never expressed their regret for an abortion that they had. They’ve never talked about it with anybody or maybe just a handful of people.

Lindsay: Hm. Well, I’ll start by telling a quick story. Um, so, a woman I’ve been able to work with, Lauren, um, she came to Parkridge and she sought out healing because she felt like no matter what she did, she could not reconcile her choice of abortion. So, she had felt like she chose that and now her life was going pretty well. She was married. She had a daughter. She was involved in her church. And so, she’s thinking, “Why does this still bother me? I know it was the wrong choice, but it had to be the right choice because look where I am now.” And so, in her mind she had reconciled that surely this must’ve been a good choice, um, because now I have what I always dreamed I would have.

But, every time she would hear the word “abortion,” every time she would even hear positive, um, teaching about that from her church, the shame would well up in her, so she .- I believe women a lot of times, something will click and they’ll identify – they’ll make a connection that the shame and guilt that they feel hasn’t gone away. Like you said, Laurie, there’s so many things that try to cover it up, even good things. Um, women living great lives, abundant lives. Yet, there’s something inside of them that just won’t, um, let them fully live in color…

Jim: Yeah.

Lindsay: …So to speak.

Jim: You know, one time somebody expressed to me – I think I may have been a teenager at the time – but they said, “You know, the Lord’s going to start house cleaning in your heart and you’ve got to give Him access to those small closets.”

Lindsay: Yes.

Jim: And it – it seems to me, as I look at this issue, um, women and men too that go through it, can compartmentalize it, this into that small closet. “Lord, check out the bedroom, certainly clean my heart. The living room’s wide open to you. Oh, but don’t open this door.” And you’re also kind of describing the lack of grieving. You know, that we have to cover it up to the point that we don’t properly grieve the loss or the decision that we made. Speak to that issue of grieving in that process.

Laurie: That is very poignant to me, uh, personally, because, um, after having my abortion, that was in 1983, I met the Lord Jesus in 1988 and oh my goodness. In my religious background, I will say it was more of an intellectual belief, kind of, a ritualistic belief. It wasn’t…

Jim: Huh.

Laurie: … It wasn’t a personal relationship. Um, so, when I struggled, uh, it was in 1988 when really my bottom fell out of my world. I, um – Todd – I married my husband Todd and we were thrilled. We had our first child…

Jim: Oh.

Laurie: … Megan. She was born in 1988. I immediately, within a week or two, started experiencing post-partum depression. Well, very, very common among post-abortive people is the sense of expected retribution.

Lindsay: Hm.

Laurie: And I knew, I knew that I was guilty of a terrible, terrible thing.

Jim: Huh.

Laurie: And in my mind, I thought, “God’s going to come back and get me with this. I mean, He’s a holy righteous God and I’m going to be punished some day for this.”

Jim: What were you envisioning He would do in that context? Like, you would have a child that had difficulty?

Laurie: I…

Jim: I mean, what was His retribution in your imagination?

Laurie: A lot of – well, for me, I thought this was my punishment, this deep suffering and sorrow. Um, for a lot of women and men, they feel like God’s going to take my living child or, you know, the rug’s going to pull out in another area of my life. I had shared, uh, this-this feeling of retribution with my sister, Mary, who had had recently in the last couple of years had come to know Jesus and she shared the gospel with me. Uh, those verses out of Psalm as far as the, “East is from the West, Laurie.” She said, “That’s how far Jesus has taken that sin of abortion and all your other sins and you can be free from that.” And gentlemen, I – the light just shown…

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: …And I said, “I want to be forgiven.” And I knelt down, uh, in our home in Charlotte and I just prayed…

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: … And received Him as my Savoir. Um, and that was the beginning of this kind of new trajectory, uh, in my life.

Jim: Uh, Lindsay, you mentioned the power of community. I don’t want to miss that, because I think in some ways, your sister, Laurie, is fulfilling that power of community, but what – what do you do with the power of community? Why is that critical?

Lindsay: So, we conduct our post-abortion healing journey through a group. Um, and so, women come and meet together. And let me just say, it’s so difficult for somebody to even make a phone call or someone to even walk through the door. Um, I’ve had so many women over the years say – I always say, “What does it feel like to be here today?” And most of the time they say, “I got to the parking lot and I almost drove back home.”

Lindsay: Um, there’s so much fear.

Jim: Hm.

Lindsay: Uh, from being exposed and from being vulnerable. Yet…

Jim: Right.

Lindsay: …It is amazing. And I’m sure you’ve seen this too, Laurie, when they can get there and when they can start talking and start sharing stories – it’s amazing the power that God has, just in those beginning moments of community.

Laurie: That’s right.

Jim: Yeah. Laurie, um, I don’t want to miss this. Uh, someone’s going to contact us and say, “What about the men? You really missed the role of the man in the whole story and we may grieve too.” However they express it. So, I want to hit that. You have a story about a grieving father who came to one of your Deeper Still retreats.

Laurie: Yes.

Jim: I’m sure those are suspended currently, but…

Laurie: Mm-hmm. Yes.

Jim: …Hopefully, they’ll get back on track soon. But, um, describe what happened and-and why having some kind of memorial service – which is what the outcome of this was – is – and why it’s so beneficial. So, there’s two components.

Laurie: Yeah. Yes.

Jim: Men’s role in this and then, uh, the power of recognition, memorial service, that kind of thing.

Laurie: Yes. I’m glad you brought that up, Jim, too about the grieving and reconciliation, because I wanted to talk about that. But I want to speak right now to the men out there, because this is not just a woman’s issue. We know that for every aborted baby, there was a father. That is a father to that baby or babies who were aborted. Men – men express post-abortion stress symptoms, as do women. A lot of men experience anger. I mean, we know that God puts in a man – right? – the DNA to be a protector, to be a provider, to be a warrior – right? – for his, for his wife, his family, his children and he abdicates that authority when he allows the enemy to convince him, “Yep, just pay for the abortion,” right? But men need to grieve as well as women. Um, at our Deeper Still retreats that we have, one session is built upon the other. We start on a Friday afternoon. Friday night is telling their story, which brings a measure of their healing, even then. Um, Saturday we share the gospel and what Jesus did to heal you and to forgive you of that sin. One of the sessions Saturday is entitled “Grieving and Reconciliation,” because for many people, me included, it’s all about the abortion. It’s all about this awful procedure, um, the trauma that happened to me. And you can separate the procedure from the life that was lost. Men, oh gentlemen, I, uh – if you could see the men that come to these retreats. Last year we had a man come to the retreat. He lost a child. It was actually him and his wife. They were boyfriend and girlfriend at the time. Um, and we used a tangible symbol to represent that baby and we use teddy bears. And I know it might sound a little odd, but the Holy Spirit covers it. And we have enough bears there for every aborted child. And this man, when it was time for him to go and receive a bear, he went up to the table and took this bear, and we put for girls maybe a little ribbon in there, maybe a little bow. Um, with the little boy bears, maybe a little bow tie. But he grabbed this little girl bear. And gentlemen, he fell to his knees sobbing, holding this bear for 15 minutes. He sat there sobbing. This brought such peace and, uh, just a balm to his soul because we can’t separate the procedure from the life. A life was lost, and that life deserves to be memorialized and grieved redemptively.

Jim: Yes.

Laurie: Not in a morbid kind of way, but in a, in a redemptive way, where actually that man or that woman can then look forward to heaven, to being reunited with that child or children.

Jim: Yeah. It’s just so beautiful, um, again, that a person can find that healing that they need, and it starts with the grieving, it starts with community. Lindsay, uh, you speak about powerful moments, miraculous moments that you’ve seen at your clinic, et cetera. There was, uh, one older woman that you worked with and I think she expressed it like feeling a great weight had been lifted off of her life. Describe that – and why did you put that in the category of a miracle?

Lindsay: You know, God has brought some amazing ladies over the years and this one, uh, woman was, um, in her 60s and she had had her abortion when she was 18. So, more than 40 years had passed and…

Jim: Wow. Think of that.

Lindsay: …She told us her story and it was like over the weeks, she began to – to lay down burdens and to lay down grief, and pain, and shame, and anger and God just lifted that. Um, and it also enabled her to own her part of the decision. In this case, her parents had strongly forced, encouraged her, took her to the clinic when she was 18. Then she realized, “I could’ve spoken up, or I could’ve…”

Jim: Well, right. And in that context, I mean, she resented that.

Lindsay: Yes.

Jim: And they never really talked about it. I – In reading that, it shocked me…

Lindsay: Yes.

Jim: …That the parents made this decision. She was 18, they took her to the clinic, and it’s like they never spoke about it for years.

Lindsay: They never spoke about it again. And I don’t know about you, Laurie, but I – I hear that story often. That, “My parents took me, or my boyfriend took me and then we never spoke about it again.” And that was so painful and then to continue to grow up and, um, this woman maintained an amazing relationship with her parents. She even cared for them, um, as they were in their last days of life and she did that faithfully. Um, and then when they had passed, she finally felt like God said, “It’s time for you to – to deal with this pain.”

Jim: Yeah.

Laurie: That’s the power of healing. I – I love stories like that, Lindsay.

Jim: Yeah. And let’s – unfortunately, time is up. But let me have you, uh, take a swing at that person that’s not experienced that healing. Speak to her directly. I mean, she’s in that spot. She’s resentful. Maybe others, her boyfriend, her husband, her parents played a substantial role in the decision she was forced to make. And you walk away from that, you have this tear in your heart. You knew what was there inside you, and yet, others and you have guilt that you capitulated. You’re guilty that you allowed them to talk you into it. So, you have this compounding problem. Speak right to her heart. And this is where we’re going to end, so if you’re in that spot, we want you to call us. We are equipped to manage that emotion. We want to absorb that, and to help you, and to coach you, and to supply the resources you need to get on a better path.

Lindsay: Yeah.

Jim: But, Laurie, go for it.

Laurie: I would say, beloved woman, beloved man, if you have lost a child or children to abortion, know that Jesus most likely uses other people to help you in your healing. I would say, reach out your hand and there is help. Just reach out your hand and trust in Him and He can bring you healing, and peace, and you can have joy and destiny for your future.

Jim: Wow. If you’re listening to that and you’re living in that pain, reach out. We’re right here. John will give you the details in a minute. And again, for those of you in the Christian community who, um, want to be part of the movement, I’m telling you, now’s the time to jump on the bandwagon because it is moving in the culture today. The younger generation is more pro-life than the former generation.

Laurie: Yeah.

Jim: Uh, changes are coming. And we have a great program called Option Ultrasound, which these ladies are familiar with. $60 saves a baby’s life. I’m always intrigued by an encounter I had with, uh, an abortion-minded person. They, uh – from the clinic, from Planned Parenthood. I said, “What’s the average abortion?” They said, “$600.” It’s just like the Lord to equate this. For 10% – $60 – we can save a baby’s life together. And it’s in concert with the clinics these ladies represent and many hundreds of other clinics around the country. Be a part of it. The Lord sees that. It’s not our resource, it’s your resource that’s going to save a baby’s life. So, Jean and I have done that. We’ve signed up to save a baby’s life every month and I’d encourage you to do the same.

John: Donate and join our pro-life team and, uh, you can do that when you call 800, the letter A and the word FAMILY. 800-232-6459. Or online you can donate at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast. And when you get in touch, please let us know if you’d like us to connect you with one our caring, Christian counselors. Once more, that number. 800-A-FAMILY.

Jim: Lindsay and Laurie, thank you for being with us. Thanks for sharing those experiences. Laurie, for your journey. I mean, it’s amazing. It’s so wonderful to see you speak with experiential passion. You know nobody can take that away from you.

Laurie: Amen.

Jim: Um, you know the pain, and no one can steal that. And you know the healing power of Christ, right?

Laurie: That’s right.

Jim: So, it’s beautiful. And Lindsay, thanks for what you do as the COO at Parkridge and keeping everything moving and having such a heart to counsel these women. It’s beautiful. And there are hundreds of women like you working in a pregnancy resource centers around the country. Isn’t it a blessing?

What a wonderful thing…

Laurie: It’s an honor.

Jim: …To be part of this movement.

Lindsay: It truly is.

Jim: Thanks for being with us.

Laurie: Thank you.

Lindsay: Thank you.

John: And again, in closing, uh, reach out to us if we can help you in any way, or if you’d like to get behind the Option Ultrasound program with your support of $60 a month. Once more, our number, 800, the letter A and the word FAMILY. On behalf of Jim Daly and the entire team here, thanks for joining us today for Focus on the Family. I’m John Fuller inviting you back as we once more help you and your family thrive in Christ.

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Dr. Patti Giebink is an OB-GYN who serves on the board of the Alpha Center, a well-known pregnancy center located in Sioux Falls, S.D. She also travels intermittently to work in mission hospitals in Pakistan and other countries. After completing her medical training, Dr. Giebink worked for Planned Parenthood from 1995-1997, during which she was the only abortion-provider in the state of South Dakota. She eventually experienced a radical change of heart on the issue of abortion after receiving God’s grace, forgiveness, and love, and she is now a passionate advocate for the pro-life movement.

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Unexpected Choice: An Abortion Doctor’s Journey to Pro-Life

Unexpected Choice is told from the perspective of a doctor who actually performed abortions through Planned Parenthood. The book chronicles her journey from being a pro-choice physician to someone speaking on behalf of the pro-life movement.

Navigating a Toxic Culture with Your Daughter - Part 2

As a pediatrician, Dr. Meg Meeker has seen thousands of girls come through her office through the years. They struggle with eating issues, sexual identity, social media…and many other challenges in this toxic culture. Dr. Meeker will encourage parents to invest love and time in their daughters and develop their character to give them the best opportunity for a bright future, all rooted in a spiritual foundation. The discussion also includes healthy feminism vs. toxic feminism

Mrs. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as a an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong DaughtersStrong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers

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Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe

Meg Meeker has been a pediatrician for more than thirty years, is a mother and a grandmother, and has seen it all. She knows what makes for strong, happy, healthy young women–and what puts our daughters at risk. Combining that experience with her famous common sense, she explains the eleven steps that will help your daughter–whether she’s a toddler or a troubled teen–to achieve her full human potential.

Cherishing Your Spouse Every Day

Do you love your spouse, or do you truly cherish them? Gary Thomas encourages couples to make a daily effort to go beyond the ‘duty’ of love, and combat the natural inclination to drift apart, by choosing to see the best in their spouse.

Mr. Gary Thomas

Gary Thomas is an international speaker and best-selling, award-winning author whose books include Married SexSacred Marriage and Sacred Parenting. He has also written numerous articles for several prominent national magazines. Gary and his wife, Lisa, reside in Texas and have three children. You can learn more about Gary by visiting his website, www.garythomas.com.

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Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work

“Most marriages survive by gritting teeth and holding on. But marriages can and will not only survive but thrive when husbands and wives learn to cherish one another.” Those are the powerful words of bestselling author Gary Thomas in his newest book–Cherish. And in a world desperate for marriage redemption, it is needed now more than ever. Thomas shows that although there are a countless number of marriages consisting of two people just going through the motions, there are real ways this pattern can be reversed: when husbands and wives learn to cherish one another in proven, loving, and everyday actions and words.

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Newest Release - Episode 2: Heroes Providing Hope

Discover the amazing work our PRC’s Directors, Nurses, and Volunteers are making in their communities! You’ll see firsthand testimonies of a PRC in action, and that there are other options outside of abortions! You’ll also discover how your family can support your local PRC!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 4: Sometimes the Choice is Hard

Hear real life stories of parents who have made the decision to choose life even though the circumstances were overwhelming. You’ll see why “ALL” life is precious to God and why choosing life is always the right decision!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 3: The Power of a Picture

Have you ever wondered what a baby looked like in the womb? With today’s technology, Moms and Dads can see the baby’s heartbeat, facial expressions, and movements! You’ll find out why more women choose life once they hear their baby’s heartbeat and realize it’s a real living human!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 5: It’s Going to be Amazing!

After a couple has chosen life, hear the heartwarming stories of children that culture would have cast aside, yet are making tremendous impacts in their communities. Whether the diagnosis was adverse or the circumstances were difficult, these stories will inspire you to come along side of families who have chosen life!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 6: Families Helping Families!

So, after all you’ve seen through the SeeLife ‘21 Episodic journey; what can you do now? We’ll share how you can partner with some amazing organizations that are making significant impacts in the pro-life movement! You want to Celebrate Life!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 2

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

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Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

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Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Effective Habits to Embrace in Parenting

To be an effective parent, you must be a leader in your child’s life, guiding with a gentle hand and setting a solid example. Dr. Randy Schroeder provides the insight you need to be a leader-parent. As he explores the foundational Rs—relationship, routines, responsibilities, and rules—you’ll better understand the role you play in your child’s life. You’ll learn great phrases to employ such as “Either/Or/You Decide” and “When You/Then You”. While there is no perfect parent, this nuts-and-bolts material will equip you to lead your child in a loving, confident manner.

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Dr. Randy Schroeder

Dr. Randy Schroeder has spent more than four decades writing, counseling, speaking, and teaching. For nearly 25 years, he was Vice President of Student Personnel Services, Dean of Students, and a professor of pastoral counseling at Concordia Theological Seminary in Fort Wayne, Ind. He’s also led a successful counseling practice helping individuals, couples, and families to thrive in their lives and relationships.

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Simple Habits for Effective Parenting

Effective parenting is now within your grasp! With this inspiring how-to comprehensive book, achieve extraordinary results in raising a child to be self-assured, self-reliant, and responsible! You will be able to successfully lead and lovingly encourage your child toward a Godly life!

The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage

God designed marriage to reflect His love to the world; and because of this, the enemy wants to destroy God’s beautiful design. Based on his book, Defending Your Marriage, Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff share about the reality of spiritual warfare against marriages, and how to combat the enemy’s lies with the truth of God. Couples will be encouraged that they’re not alone in the fight for a godly marriage and better equipped to be a shining example for the world around them.

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Dr. Tim and Mrs. Noreen Muehlhoff

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff is a professor of communication at Biola University in La Mirada, California where he teaches classes in family communication, interpersonal communication, apologetics, gender, and conflict resolution.  Tim and his wife, Noreen, are both on staff with Biola’s Center for Marriage and Relationships  where he is a co-host of The Art of Relationship podcast. 

Defending Your Marriage

Is your marriage under attack? Sometimes it can feel like the world is trying to tear your marriage apart. Internal conflicts or external pressures might make you wonder if something sinister is going on. How can you tell if you’re facing spiritual opposition? And what can you do about it? Tim Muehlhoff provides a straightforward resource for protecting your marriage from the threats of the evil one. He looks at what Scripture says about spiritual warfare and how our everyday struggles have deeper spiritual realities. And he provides practical steps for guarding our marriages with the whole armor of God.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 1

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 2

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 2

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

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Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

Cover image of Rhonda Stoppe's book "Moms Raising Sons to be Men"

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage - Part 2

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

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Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

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Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 2

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

Are You Really Okay?

Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Embracing Your Role as a Spouse

As a spouse, you have three roles to play—a friend, a partner, and a lover. On this one-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Pastor Kevin A. Thompson explores those different roles and challenges you to live them out by investing emotionally, physically, and mentally in your relationship. As friends, he suggests we learn to play and laugh together. As partners, he equips us with solid ways to handle conflict and communication. As lovers, he offers some thoughts on how to bring back the sizzle. He shares five keys to saving your marriage: humility, respect, mercy, communication, and resilience. You’ll be encouraged to intentionally invest in your marriage.

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Pastor Kevin Thompson

Kevin A. Thompson (MDiv, Beeson Divinity School) is lead pastor at Community Bible Church, a growing multi-site church with four locations in western Arkansas. Every year he meets with nearly one hundred couples with a range of needs, from pre-marital counseling to navigating the most serious betrayals. A marriage and parenting conference speaker, he and his wife, Jenny, have two children and live in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He blogs at kevinathompson.com.

Cover image of Kevin Thompson's book "Friends, Partners & Lovers"

Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work

With engaging stories and clear, simple language, pastor Kevin Thompson shows how to live out three distinct roles in marraige. Using solid biblical principles, he helps you and your spouse grow your friendship, be supportive partners through the good times and the bad, and develop a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Sharing Your Faith with Grace and Purpose

You can confidently and lovingly share your faith—you just need to learn some new tactics to do so! In this Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast, apologist Greg Koukl outlines the “Columbo” tactic of asking questions, the “self-defeating argument” tactic to find holes in your opponent’s arguments, and other specific methods for engaging in faith-building conversations with others. Greg pulls from his over 30 years of experience debating atheists and agnostics to help you share your faith with grace and truth.

Mr. Greg Koukl

Greg Koukl is a writer, public speaker and talk show host who’s spent 30 years advocating for and defending the Christian worldview. Greg has written or contributed to 15 books, including The Story of RealityTactics, and Precious Unborn Human Persons. Greg has published nearly 230 articles and has spoken on 80 college and university campuses in the U.S. and abroad.

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Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions

In a world increasingly indifferent to Christian truth, followers of Christ need to be equipped to communicate with those who do not speak their language or accept their source of authority. In Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition, Gregory Koukl demonstrates how to artfully regain control of conversations, keeping them moving forward in constructive ways through thoughtful diplomacy. You’ll learn how to stop challengers in their tracks and how to turn the tables on questions or provocative statements. Most important, you’ll learn how to get people thinking about Jesus.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 1

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

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Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Giving up Sugar, Tasting God's Goodness

As a latchkey kid, Wendy Speake turned to sugar for comfort. Every Friday, she would pedal to the candy show and use her allowance to fill her bag with candy. And one day, when she was older and a mom of three young boys, she came to realize that she was still “pedaling” away from her stress and using sugar as comfort, instead of turning to Jesus. She was joyless, worn out, tired, and in need of a change. In this interview, Wendy will challenge Christians to take 40 days to focus on fasting from something they turn to instead of Jesus for comfort. She invited people to break free from a dependence on sugar and taste the goodness of God.

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Mrs. Wendy Speake

With a background in Hollywood as a trained actress, Wendy Speake ministers to women as a bible teacher by applying the power of drama, poetry and comedy to the study of Scripture and real-life application of biblical truths. She has co-authored two books with Amber Lia titled Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and their latest, Parenting Scripts: When What You’re Saying Isn’t Working, Say Something New. Wendy is also the co-author (with Kelli Stuart) of Life Creative: Inspiration for Today’s Renaissance Mom.

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The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation

Welcome to the 40-Day Sugar Fast, a fast that begins with us giving Jesus our sugar and ends with Jesus giving us himself–the only thing that can ever truly satisfy our soul’s deep hunger. On this 40-day journey you’ll learn how to stop fixating on food and other things you use to fill the voids in life and instead fix your eyes on Christ. Anyone who runs to sugar for comfort or a reward, who eats mindlessly or out of boredom, who feels physically and spiritually lethargic, or who struggles with self-control will discover here not only freedom from their cravings but an entirely new appetite for the good things God has for us.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 2

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

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Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage - Part 2

Debra Fileta has identified the four seasons of marriage that correspond with our natural seasons – spring (new life and new love), summer (things get hot!), fall (showing our true colors), and winter (long days ahead). In this interview, she will help couples better understand the four seasons of healthy relationships, what to expect during each one, and how to carefully navigate them for a stronger marriage.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage.

Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship

Every relationship goes through four life-changing seasons: Spring. Summer. Fall. Winter. Each season plays an important role in taking your relationship to the next level. And depending on how you navigate each season, your relationship will either flourish and grow, or it will slowly die. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged or married, join licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta as she takes you on an eye-opening psychological and spiritual journey through the four seasons that she has observed in every healthy relationship.

Reconciling Faith and Science in a Medical Crisis

Dr. Lee Warren is a neurosurgeon who has faced many heavy challenges in his life – from serving in the Iraq War to removing deadly brain tumors to experiencing the loss of a teenage son. He’ll share about his difficult quest to find answers to some of life’s toughest questions, while holding onto his faith in God and the sure hope of heaven

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Dr. Lee Warren

W. Lee Warren, M.D., is a brain surgeon , inventor, Iraq War veteran, and author of I’ve Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know, winner of the Christian Book Award®. His previous book, No Place to Hide, was included on the 2015 U.S. Air Force Chief of Staff’s Recommended Reading List. Dr. Warren has appeared on The 700 Club and the CBS Evening News, and his writings have been featured in Guideposts magazine. His Dr. Lee Warren Podcast, which is heard in more than 60 countries, helps listeners use the power of neuroscience, faith, and common sense to change their lives.

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I've Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon's Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know

This gripping inspirational memoir grapples with the tension between faith and science—and between death and hope—as a seasoned neurosurgeon faces insurmountable odds and grief both in the office and at home.

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 1

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

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Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

Cover image of Jodie Berndt's book "Praying the Scriptures for Your Children"

Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 1

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

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Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

Cover image of Rhonda Stoppe's book "Moms Raising Sons to be Men"

Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage Part 1

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

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Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

Cover image of the book "Marriage Triggers" by Guy and Amber Lia

Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 1

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

Are You Really Okay?

Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Navigating a Toxic Culture with Your Daughter - Part 1

As a pediatrician, Dr. Meg Meeker has seen thousands of girls come through her office through the years. They struggle with eating issues, sexual identity, social media…and many other challenges in this toxic culture. Dr. Meeker will encourage parents to invest love and time in their daughters and develop their character to give them the best opportunity for a bright future, all rooted in a spiritual foundation. The discussion also includes healthy feminism vs. toxic feminism

Mrs. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as a an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong DaughtersStrong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers

Cover image of Dr. Meg Meeker's book "Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture"

Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe

Meg Meeker has been a pediatrician for more than thirty years, is a mother and a grandmother, and has seen it all. She knows what makes for strong, happy, healthy young women–and what puts our daughters at risk. Combining that experience with her famous common sense, she explains the eleven steps that will help your daughter–whether she’s a toddler or a troubled teen–to achieve her full human potential.

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Newest Release - Episode 1: The Truth About Life!

In this episode, we will tackle tough questions like, “When does life begin?” and “What does the Bible
say about Life?” You’ll discover and understand the stages of pre-born life and that babies are more than
just a clump of cells!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!