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Paul Batura: Adoption can be very awkward. It can be very dysfunctional. Itโs not the stuff that, you know, fairy tales are made of. That thereโs a lot of challenge, thereโs a lot of tears, thereโs a lot of uncertainty and I think maybe we can learn from that.
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John Fuller: Thatโs Paul Batura. Heโs with us today on Focus on the Family to share what we can learn about adoption. Your host is Focus president and author Jim Daly and Iโm John Fuller.
Jim Daly: John, I think today people will be inspired by the amazing impact that adoption has had on the world. We often donโt hear these stories. Today weโre gonna concentrate on that and a few months ago, we talked with one of our colleagues, Paul Batura, about a handful of adopted men and women who changed the world, such as Steve Jobs, Faith Hill and others.
Today we want to come back and profile more folks who Paul highlighted in his book, Chosen for Greatness, such as Babe Ruth and Art Linkletter. Iโm lookinโ forward to the discussion. Here at Focus on the Family, we passionately believe in Godโs heart for adoption and we live that out daily through our Wait No More efforts, which works with families to get kids adopted out of foster care into โforever families,โ as we call them. And we want to invite you to be part of those efforts, as well, and weโll have more information about that, John.
John: Yeah, theyโre one-day events, usually on a Saturday and you can find out more at focusonthefamily.com/radio, or call 1-800, the letter A and the word FAMILY.
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Jim: Paul Batura is vice president of communications here at Focus on the Family. He and his wife, Julie, live in Colorado Springs and they have three adopted children. Paul, welcome back. I guess, welcome from your desk into the studio, right? (Laughing)
Paul: Good to be down here. Thanks for havinโ me.
John: Had to take the express elevator to get here.
Jim: (Laughing) Yeah, right; it is good to have you, Paul. You do such a great job here just on that communication side. Weโre grateful to it. Paul would be most of the interface with the media here at Focus, he and the team in the communications department. So, thanks for what you do normally day to day and what youโve done here in your new book. On a grand scale, tell me how adoption has changed the world.
Paul: Well, of course, on a macro level is why I wrote the book.
Jim: Yeah. (Laughing)
Paul: I was kinda fascinated by the fact that when you hear about adoptees, you look up their stories, you so often see what theyโre known for. Theyโre known for their, you know, inventions, their um โฆ productions, um โฆ their accomplishments on โฆ in the sport โฆ sporting world. But so often, their adoption story is sort of buried in their biography. Itโs, you know, a little footnote.
Jim: Their success kind of overโ
Paul: Thatโs right.
Jim: –shadows their adoption.
Paul: And everyone has a childhood. Everyone starts from somewhere and of course, our childhoods matter. Where we come from makes a big difference and uh โฆ and when I looked into the backgrounds of these adoptees, it occurred to me that um โฆ you know, as I said last time I was here, their adoptions, you know, they didnโt succeed in spite of being adopted. They really succeeded because they were adopted.
Jim: Yeah, I love that Scripture that Heโs close to the brokenhearted and saves those crushed in spirit. Thatโs an orphan, I mean, just by definition. Thatโs what you feel like every day, โcause you donโt have what others have and you struggle. Letโs get to it. Letโs start with George Ruth Junior. (Laughing) And people are goinโ, โWhoโs that?โ The Babe.
Paul: The Babe, yeah. I โฆ you know, heโs such a โฆ um โฆ a larger-than-life figure. Thereโs a great line, one of my favorite lines about Babe Ruth that said, had he not um โฆ been born, heโs something of a figure that could never have been created. He was the um โฆ I think the line was, he was the 4th of July, a brass band and New Yearโs Eve all rolled into one.
Jim: (Laughing) Yeah, right.
Paul: He was this guy that lived in excess. Thatโs what heโs known for, but of course, he started as a poor kid on the streets of Baltimore. He was from this little neighborhood in Baltimore that was known as โPig Town.โ You know why it was called โPig Town?โ
Jim: No.
Paul: Because pigs would literally run through the streets and people anxious for food would like tackle the pig, butcher them and uh โฆ you know, have a feast.
Jim: Oh.
Paul: But thatโs the โฆ the poverty into which he was born. His โฆ his parents were very working class. He was the oldest of eight kids, but um โฆ six of them died in infancy, which was not uncommon. This is 1902, so early, early part of the century.
Jim: Now he lived 1895 to 1948, so โฆ
Paul: Thatโs right, yeah and um โฆ his uh โฆ his mom was a bit of a โฆ a mystery and thatโs a lot of what surrounds the Babeโs story. Very little is known about his parents. Um โฆ he told different accounts of them. We know his father was a saloon owner among other things. And uh โฆ
Jim: Well, and he kinda lived that life out in his early years definitely.
Paul: He definitely did. Um โฆ when he was โฆ when he finally earned some money and uh โฆ was able to โฆ
Jim: But the big change for him, even though maybe the seeds of that did not manifest till later in his life, but he was sent to a Catholic orphanage, I believe, rightโBrother Matthiasโ
Paul: Thatโs right, yeah.
Jim: –if I remember correctly and you highlighted that in the book. Why was that relationship so important?
Paul: Well, it was the most important thing for him. It was St. Maryโs Industrial School for Boys, which wasโ
Jim: Well, that sounds inviting.
Paul: –It does, (Laughter) I know.
John: Industrial School.
Paul: And when you โฆ when you see a picture of it, itโs โฆ itโs an imposing place.
Jim: Right.
Paul: Um โฆ there were three types of kids who went there. There were orphans. Uh โฆ there were โฆ those who had uh โฆ their parents abandoned them for whatever reason. You know, so they were orphans. You had kids who were in boarding school, who went home on weekends. Babe was actually, you know, the โฆ the quintessential orphan, โcause his โฆ his father โฆ his mother and father, dropped him off and he was listed as being vicious and incorrigible. Now he was 7-years-old.
Jim: Oh, my.
Paul: So, you wonder how viciousโ
Jim: Yeah.
Paul: –and how incorrigible could a 7-year-old be?
Jim: Itโs almost a little bit juvenile detention, right?
Paul: Thatโs right, yeah. And โฆ but what he found at St Maryโs is what he had been missing at home. Brother Matthias, who became his father there at the school, was this tall imposing man.
Jim: Six foot five–
Paul: Yeah, andโ
Jim: –which had to be big for that era.
Paul: –pretty tall and pretty large and he loved baseball. And he would hit fungoโs to George and โฆ and others.
Jim: Thatโs just hitting grounders and โฆ yeah.
Paul: Uh โฆ well, fungoโs are fly balls.
Jim: Okay.
Paul: And the way Babe tells the story, uh โฆ 350-foot shots, which sounds a little exaggerated, you know, a typical ballpark.
John: Like over the fence kind of [swing].
Paul: Well, yeah, but just towering, so Babe loved it and um โฆ uh โฆ when he was playing, they had a lot of sporting events at this school. There were 28 teams, uh โฆ uniformed teams as part of St. Maryโs, 1,000 kids. So, they โฆ they considered sports to be sort of the โeighth sacramentโ was what they called it.
And um โฆ Babe was criticizing the pitching and Brother Matthias said, โWell, if youโre โฆ if โฆ you know, letโs see you do it,โ you know, kinda called him on it. And Babe started pitching, really excelled and uh โฆ you know, one thing led to another and he was eventually drafted by the Baltimore Orioles for โฆ
Jim: On the spot, even.
Paul: Yeah, he was drafted.
Jim: He was signed, right?
Paul: I should say he was signed by the Baltimore Orioles. But it was at St. Maryโs โฆ he learned so much at St. Maryโsโdiscipline. He obviously was um โฆ cultivated in his faith. Um โฆ he was really given that shot and given a chance to perfect a trade. He became a[n] expert shirt maker. Thatโs what the school was sort ofโ
Jim: (Laughing)
Paul: –known for. The school required every student to have a trade–
Jim: To learn a trade.
Paul: –whether it was a printer or a banker or a shirt maker and thatโs what the Babe did.
Jim: And made โฆ with the sewing machine and the whole bit.
Paul: Oh, he said he could make a shirt in less than 15 minutes.
Jim: Wow, I never knew that.
Paul: And he thought โฆ and he thought thatโs what โฆ he thought that was what he was gonna grow up to becomeโa shirt maker.
Jim: Paul, let โฆ let me ask you about the end of Babeโs life, because most people donโt know this, but he turned more toward his faith before he died. We only hear most about his uh โฆ you know, his problems, his dark side. But explain what happened toward the end of his life.
Paul: Well, he became very much um โฆ a โฆ I guess, thoughtful about where his โฆ he โฆ where he was. He knew he had lived a life of excess and so, he turned to his faithโthe faith of his childhood. And um โฆ very much, you know, confessed his sins. He felt it was his um โฆ job to encourage children not to do the same thing, not to live that excessive life that he had lived. Very, very touching, you know, his last words, so to speak, were in an article that was published in Guidepost magazine, where he talked about the importance of faith and turning your life over to the Lord.
And when he was buried, I found this was very poignant, he was buried with a baseball in his hand and it said, โSafe at home.โ And I thought isnโt that the truth. I mean, thatโs where he finally found his peace, was at the end of his life. But again, he had lived this life where, you know, he would go out drinking on Saturday nights and then be the first person at mass on Sunday morningโ
Jim: Huh.
Paul: –to you know, ask for forgiveness for what he had done.
Jim: Well, and what that speaks to is how we all, even living today, how we need to integrate our faith into our life, not just live it on Sunday. And I appreciate that testimony that the Babe had.
John: Well, youโre listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly and our guest today is our colleague, Paul Batura and his book, Chosen for Greatness captures a lot of really great adoption stories and Babe Ruth was the first of several weโre planning to talk about today.
Jim: It is, John. Next, a favorite really. I used to love watching this โฆ this person when I was a child, Art Linkletter. And uh โฆ of course, he had his funny show and โฆ and uh โฆ you know, I would โฆ I would sit and listen when I was 7-, 8-, 9-years-old. But I didnโt realize he, too, was an orphan. And to remind everybody of his refreshing humor, letโs play a clip from one of his old shows.
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Art Linkletter: Whatโs your favorite Bible story?
Child: Um โฆ Adam and Eve.
Art: Yeah, that was where they ate the apple and all?
Child: Yeah.
Art: How did it end? How did that story end?
Child: Um โฆ well, Adam โฆ Adam and Eve said, Theyโre sorryโ to God.
Art: They โฆ they said they were sorry.
Child: Yeah and โฆ and thatโs how men got the Adamโs apple.
Audience: (Laughter)
Art: Well, that may be true, but uh โฆ (Laughter) Eve was the one who gave the man the Adamโs apple, didnโt she?
Child: Yeah.
Art: What do we learn from the story of Adam and Eve?
Child: Well, Adam would be better off as a bachelor, because โฆ because Eve was a trouble maker.
Audience: (Laughter)
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Jim: (Laughing) Thatโs pretty โฆ that may be pretty accurate. (Laughter) No, it is so wonderful, but that kind of refreshing humor was his trademark and heโs actually Canadian. I want to throw that out for all our Canadian listeners. He was born in Moose Jaw, Canada there. Soโ
Paul: Thatโs right.
Jim: –shout out to our northern neighbors.
Paul: He was one of the best โฆ the great lines from Art regarding interviewing kids was, he โฆ he used to say that the best people โฆ and I donโt know, maybe you agree with this, Jim and John, but he said, โThe best people to interview are those who are under 10 and over 70, โcause when โฆ when youโre under 10, you say what โฆ you donโt even know what youโre saying. But when youโre over 70, you donโt care what youโre saying.โ
Jim: (Laughing) Thatโs right. I think thatโs probably accurate. Um โฆ tell us his story, his adoption story. What did he come from and where did he head off to?
Paul: Yeah, so, you mentioned Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan. His biological parents came there from another part of Canada to give birth to him. And his parents, who were John and Mary Linkletter, had put in for an adoption. They had lost an infant tragically. They were older folks. His mother was 42, I believe and his father was 52. They were sort of the unconventional adoptive couple.
Jim: Right.
Paul: Um โฆ they adopted him. Art never knew he was adopted until he was 11-years-old. He used to watch his parents get mail from โฆ you know, somewhere else and uh โฆ take the letters into their bedroom and read them and he never knew what they were reading.
Finally, the curiosity got the best of him once and he went in and he read the letters. And it โฆ thatโs how he found out he was adopted.
Jim: He was about age 11 at that time.
Paul: He was and his biological parents had been writing to try and just check and see how he was doing and um โฆ he sort of grew up with this wistful โฆ wonder as to what life wouldโve been like had his biological parents never made an adoption plan for him. But he had a very happy childhood, you know, very creative kind of childhood. His parents were โฆ his father was an itinerant preacher. His mother, you know, was this doting kinda lady. Art had fun โฆ funny jobs. I mean, he had a job licking ice cream cones when he was a little kid.
Jim: What โฆ okay, that โฆ okay.
John: Sign me up.
Jim: Howโd he get that job?
John: How do you get that one?
Jim: I want to do that as an adult. (Laughter)
Paul: He was at โฆ he was at a โฆ a park where they were selling ice cream and he was just paid to walk around eating ice cream.
Jim: Oh, as a sales, like a. Yeah.
Paul: Yeah.
Jim: Thatโs clever actually, man.
Paul: Not that bad, but his โฆ they moved around a lot. They moved from Canada. They moved to Lowell, Massachusetts. His father had a 5 and 10 store. It was a โฆ a disaster. It didnโt work out. Moved to Southern California. Thatโs where they wound up settling and his father was a cobbler, a shoe cobbler and um โฆ taught him a very important lesson. He said, โArty, whatever you decide to do in life, make sure you love it, because youโre gonna be doinโ a lot of it.โ And you know, that was impressedโ
Jim: In factโ
Paul: –impressed upon him as a young kid.
Jim: –he said something like, if you donโt love it, youโll fail at it.
Paul: Right.
Jim: Thatโs really interesting for young people to think about what they want to put their life toward vocationally.
Paul: Absolutely.
Jim: Um โฆ
Paul: And the environment that he was in was, you know, when you look at โฆ this is whatโs so interesting in all of these stories when you try โฆ you have the advantage now of time, of looking back and realizing, what was the Lord up to? And Art, I mean, for a while, Art lived โฆ as a little kid he lived in a โฆ in a retirement home, because his parents couldnโt afford to live anywhere else and I guess his father had some odd jobs there.
Jim: Wow, thatโs interesting. So, thatโs what gave him the insight to interview people over 70, like you said.
Paul: Yeah, he could talk to โฆ you know, they used to say about Art Linkletter, he could talk to anybody about anything anywhere. And he just knew how to do it. He became a disc jockey and โฆ and uh โฆ you know, jumped freight trains and traveled the country when he turned 18. Lived a very adventurous life, but it โฆ a lot of it stemmed from his ability to just get along with people.
Jim: Well, he was so well-respected and again, weโre talking to Paul Batura, one of our own here at Focus on the Family. Heโs written a book, Chosen for Greatness. He has three adopted children himself. And uh โฆ Paul, itโs fascinating how those dramatic things in life really do shape you, shape your view, also shape your spiritual development.
The next one some people might say, wow, okay, because of the turmoil that this particular person lived in. Itโs Nelson Mandela from South Africa, living in an era of segregation, apartheid as it was known. He had an interesting childhood, as well. What was it?
Paul: He did. Again, a common theme here is poverty. He was โฆ he was living in a very poor South African tribe. His father โฆ he was born– his name, itโs hard to pronounce, but itโs the best pronunciation Iโve heard is Rolihlahla (Holyshaza phonetically) was his first name. A teacher gave him the name Nelson.
Jim: Right.
Paul: I think maybe thankfully so, so we could all pronounce [it].
Jim: Rolihlahla sounds pretty good though.
Paul: It does sound pretty good.
Jim: (Laughing) I kinda like it.
Paul: He was named after the British admiralโ
Jim: Okay.
Paul: –Lord ad โฆ Lord Nelson. But he had a pretty conventional childhood up until his father became ill, eventually died of tuberculosis.
Jim: How old was he about that time.
Paul: He was 8-years-old.
Jim: Okay.
Paul: And his father knew he was dying and thought it important that he go and find another family. Now this is unconventional here, because you know, his mother was still living. So, you know, a family today would hear this and think, well, why would you uh โฆ you know, in essence, adopt your son out? In that uh โฆ era and in that custom.
Jim: Yeah, he lived 1918 to 2013, not long ago passing away.
Paul: Right.
Jim: But that โฆ that whole African tribal community is very different than Western culture. Polygamy was part of it and other things, but thatโs whatโ
Paul: Right.
Jim: –youโre talking about.
Paul: Yeah, polygamy and patriarchy sort of were the marks of that.
Jim: Yeah.
Paul: He ha โฆ his father had other wives.
Jim: So, who โฆ who took him in? Who adopted him?
Paul: Yeah, it was another chief. It was a friend of his fatherโs, a guy named Chief Jongintaba of a โฆ of a larger tribe, very highly respected man. His mother brought him on this long walk to live with this new family.
Jim: And Chief Jongintaba, he โฆ he was a Christian, correct?
Paul: He was and actually, the โฆ the whole tribe there was sort of a Methodist missionary village and uh โฆ the faith was a major component of their life. They had Bible study. They had services. They sang hymns. It really became quite the centerpiece of his life.
Jim: Let me ask you this. For his father to seek out that particular man, was it in part due to his faith? Was there something there that he liked– Nelson Mandelaโs father and then put him in that place for that purpose.?
Paul: I didnโt see anything that he was chosen specifically because of his faith, but he liked the stability that was there. He specifically liked the leadership that Jongintaba offered, which was just again, you look back and try and figure out. This was the critical thing for Nelson Mandela. His adoptive father um โฆ was in charge of this whole tribe and brought an amazing air of leadership. He taught Nelson Mandela so many lessons, specifically that you know, the minority should never get trampled by the majority. So, his father taught him, when youโre running a meeting, listen before you talk. Ask questions. Donโt be the first person in the room to share your opinion, especially if youโre the leader, because if you do, then you discourage the minority opinion, which might be the right opinion, from being offered and talked about.
Jim: Sounds like the book of Proverbs.
Paul: I think so. I think it was โฆ Iโm sure he was inspired by Scripture. So, it was โฆ that was a โฆ a hugely pivotal thing for him, for Nelson. But the story of Nelson and we can get into this more, itโs not โฆ itโs not cookie-cutter perfect. It obviously has some wrinkles and โฆ and again, does that sound familiar with those who are listening who have adoptive children? Itโs not all Hallmark Hall of Fame.
Jim: Paul, when you look at his life in total, what do you think he learned and then applied as a leader when he became president of South Africa?
Paul: Hm โฆ well, you know, he came out of a โฆ a polygamist culture and so, when he โฆ when he was old enough, his father actually wanted him to marry someone in particular. It was gonna be an arranged marriage. He ran away from home because he wanted to avoid that. Um โฆ so, you know, thereโs an example of, you know, just being an adoptive dad doesnโt make you a great dad necessarily. I mean, there are gonna be those โฆ those cultural challenges, that type of thing.
Jim: Sure.
Paul: But um โฆ what he learned uh โฆ that later came to be pivotal for him, you know, was this leadership ability from his adoptive father. You know, he was in prison for 27 years.
Jim: Robben Island.
Paul: Right and uh โฆ then of course, he liberates his country from apartheid, but it took a lot of patience. It took a lot of persistence. It took a lot of um โฆ just strong inner belief in the cause and thatโs what he learned as a young man from watching his father. You know, he had to learn to get along with people with whom he had strong ideological opposition, but he did so respectfully, but he also led very decisively.
Jim: Thatโs for sure. Hey, I uh โฆ want to raise the, probably the most prominent adopted child in world history and thatโs Jesus, who was adopted by His father, Joseph. Obviously, Mary was His biological mother, but why did God choose that, in your opinion, and the author of the book, Chosen for Greatness? Thereโs no greater child to ever be adopted than Jesus Christ. And it even feels funny talking about it in those terms, but Joseph did take him as his own, but describe that environment.
Paul: Well, I โฆ the story of Jesus is and โฆ and the idea that He was adopted is an amazing thing that even surprises Christians who have thought about this topic for a long time. To your first question, why did God do this? I mean, only God knows for sure, but I think when you consider the fact that if you are a Christian, youโve been adopted by God and into Godโs family. That is the most profound thing. And โฆ
Jim: So, He led by example.
Paul: I think so. I think thatโs exactly right and you know, when youโre adopted you assume all the rights and privileges of that family and isnโt that.. we donโt โฆ have not earned our way to heaven. We have not done anything to deserve salvation. We canโt, you know, perform better and โฆ and get more results.
Jim: Itโs a free gift of God.
Paul: Itโs a free gift and thatโs really what adoption is. And what I love about the โฆ the story of Jesus and Joseph and why I wanted to end the book on this is because we often think of the โฆ the Christmas story as this idyllic cookie-cut โฆ not cookie-cutter, but this beautiful night where it was โฆ all was calm, all was bright.
Well, there was that. Scripture is very clear. It was a โฆ a star-filled night obviously and uh โฆ you know, Jesus born in the stable. But there was a tremendous dysfunction surrounding it.
Jim: Describe it.
Paul: Well, I mean, you think about it, you have an unwed mother who was–
Jim: Teenage unwed mother.
Paul: –right, whoโs chosen to bear Jesus and to give birth. You have a โฆ an awkward positioning of a stable and โฆ or a cave, depending upon your tradition. Then you have the fact that the wise men are tryinโ to come worship Jesus and you have a king who wants to kill him. And then you have a dream in the middle of the night sending Jesus and his adoptive โฆ or his parents out, you know, a different way to escape to another country. I mean, this is pretty dramatic. I mean, this is a โฆ movies are often not this dramatic.
And um โฆ I think what Godโs getting at there is that, or at least with adoption, adoption can be very awkward. It can be very dysfunctional. Itโs not the โฆ the stuff that, you know, fairy tales are made of. That thereโs a lot of challenge. Thereโs a lot of tears. Thereโs a lot of uncertainty. And I think maybe we can learn from that because I mean, I โฆ Iโll tell you, Jim. I watched a lot of TV as a kid and I grew up watching good bor โฆ you know, blah TV. You know (Laughter), โThe Brady Bunch,โ โGilliganโs Island.โ
John: โLeave It To Beaver.โ
Jim: There โฆ it was shaping your idea about what family was to be.
Paul: It was, but you know what it did to me? It made me um โฆ think that everything gets solved in 27 minutes and itโs a โhappy ever endingโ kind of thing. Thatโs the kind of TV my parents let us watch.
When you become an adoptive parent, when you become a parent, you realize, itโs not like that and you have to dig in, roll up your sleeves. Do your best; pray like crazy.
Jim: Be patient.
Paul: Be pa โฆ I mean, yeah, be patient and trust that the Lord โฆ you know, we tell our boys that when it comes to Godโs sovereignty, thereโs no Plan B.
Jim: Yeah.
Paul: So, I canโt figure it out why He chose to allow us to raise them, why He didnโt allow their biological mother to do it, but itโs His plan andโ
Jim: Wellโ
Paul: –itโs not Plan B.
Jim: –itโs not and I so appreciate in your book, Chosen for Greatness, how you have highlighted these โฆ you know, people that have achieved incredible things, including as you said, ending the book with Jesus Himself being adopted in a sense by Joseph. Um โฆ an amazing, an amazing work to really encourage people. Man, todayโs program has flown by and one thing I loved about our conversation today is that your book is about the adopted individuals, but itโs also about the parentsโboth the birth parents and the adoptive parentsโas youโve described it in the book. Youโre really done the research to go a little deeper, to understand why these people have achieved so much with the time God has given โem on this earth.
Itโs a reminder to all of us how important our roles as moms and dads are in the lives of children, both your natural born children and for both of you, John and Paul, your adoptive children, as well. If youโve been listening along and believe in adoption and would want to prayerfully consider what you could do, get in contact with us.
We have a whole program designed to help you explore this area of adoption, the area of foster care, respite care, which to me is like grandparenting. Jean and I have done quite a bit of that. Weโve had probably 15 kids in our home and thatโs just taking children from a foster family for a night or two on a weekend and giving them a break to get the laundry done and get some things done and be a family of their own for a few days. Itโs a terrific way to โฆ to engage the foster system.
And also you can start the adoption process, which weโre thrilled about and to encourage you and to discourage you, to give you the real tough news of how these kids will test you and they will and how you need to be prayed up for that situation.
So, Paul, thank you once again, for raising up these lives that have meant so much to the world and uh โฆ the irony of them being adoptedโBabe Ruth and Art Linkletter and Nelson Mandela and the Lord Himself. What examples of humanity coming to grips with their environment and achieving great things. This has been terrific.
John: Well, youโll find a copy of Paulโs book, Chosen for Greatness: How Adoption Changes the World at our website. We have all the resources Jim has mentioned there, as well, for whatever your interest is, just learning more or doing more with regard to foster care and adoption. Our website focusonthefamily.com/radio or call 1-800-A-FAMILY: 800-232-6459.
Jim: Paul, as an adoptive father three times, if someoneโs listening to this and theyโve been praying about this maybe, but they just havenโt gotten over the line to make the final decision, give it your best shot. Why should I do that?
Paul: Itโll be the best thing you ever did if you feel like the Lord is leading you to do it. Um โฆ you know, itโs the gift that keeps on giving, getting to be a parent, getting to invest in the life of someone else. Uh โฆ thereโs no better, thereโs no better way.
You know, weโve talked so much about investing in your 401(k), 403(b), wherever your retirement plan might be. The best thing you can do is to invest in other children and uh โฆ I canโt โฆ I mean, my Julie and I are just so thankful that weโve been given the chance and entrusted with these kids.
Jim: Good to have you with us.
Paul: Thank you for having me.
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John: And again, Paul Baturaโs excellent book is Chosen for Greatness. Weโll send a copy of that to you when you make a generous donation of any amount to this family ministry. And learn more and join the support team for our Wait No More Initiative to encourage foster care and adoption. Just make a note of that when you get in touch. Once again, our number is 800-232-6459.
Well, be back with us tomorrow. Youโll hear a humorous message from Jill Savage about the need to โlet goโ of some of your expectations.
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Jill Savage: You see like this headline and the headline says, โBody after Baby Three Months.โ And you go, โMy body doesnโt look like that after Baby Three Years.โ (Laughter) Or in my case sixteen years.
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