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Oral and Anal Sex: Biblical Guidelines for Intimacy in Marriage

How can I tell what’s appropriate in my sexual relationship with my spouse? Are oral and anal sex OK?

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Preparing Financially for Marriage

What should an engaged couple know about finances as they make their plans for married life? What do they need to talk about in terms of money and budgeting?

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Restoring a Marriage After Infidelity

How can I rebuild my marriage after having an affair? Several years ago my wife and I were having problems, and as a result, I became involved with another woman. Thankfully, my wife has forgiven me and we are back together. But I want my relationship with her and the children to be as strong …

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Social Media Accounts and Passwords: Best Practices for Married Couples

Do you think it’s okay for spouses to have separate social media accounts with separate passwords? My husband does. He thinks it’s important for couples to trust one another and respect each other’s privacy. I, on the other hand, see some potential pitfalls here. I believe the health of any marriage depends upon openness, honesty, …

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Stay-at-Home Mom Wants to Make Life Easier for Husband

How can I support my husband and keep our marriage a priority when it takes everything I’ve got just to keep the household running? Being a stay-at-home mom of small children isn’t easy, but my spouse works hard, too, and I don’t want to neglect his needs. What can I do to come alongside him?

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Tips for Developing Relationship With Stepchild

What’s the best way for a stepparent to form strong bonds with his or her stepchildren? I recently got re-married to a wonderful man who is planning to adopt my three children. Unfortunately, my middle child, a preschool-age boy, has had a hard time warming up to him. What can we do to encourage their …

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Wife Doesn’t Get along With Husband’s Friends

What can I do about my negative feelings towards my husband’s “buddies”? We are very happy and have a great relationship, except for one thing: I don’t get along with his friends. Is there a way to solve this problem? It’s leading to arguments and tension between us.

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Young Adult’s Parents Disapprove of Romantic Relationships

How should I respond to my parents’ negative feelings about the people I’ve been dating? I’m a young adult in my early twenties, living in my parents’ home. I’ve had several relationships over the past few years, but my mom and dad haven’t thought much of any of them – despite the fact that the …

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Cross-Dressing Man Wants to Understand His Own Behavior

What do you think about transvestism?

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Struggling With Same-Sex Attractions

Is there any way I can overcome my life-long struggle with same-sex attraction? I’ve tried to resist, but it seems inevitable that I will eventually act on these feelings. What should I do?

Can Christian symbols be used to celebrate holidays in public places?

I just heard that because of the “separation of church and state,” my city government will no longer use any “Christian” decorations on government property in¬†celebration of various holidays. Can¬†holidays like Christmas¬†or even¬†Independence Day¬†be celebrated in the public square with Christian symbols?

Do I need a credit card to order by phone?

Do I need a credit card to order by phone?

Does Focus on the Family work with any associate organizations internationally?

Is Focus on the Family associated with any affiliate organizations internationally?

How do I contact my local, state and federal representatives?

How do I contact my local, state, and federal representatives?

Is Focus hosting any conferences in the near future?

Is Focus hosting any conferences or retreats in the near future?

What can you tell me about the possible link between abortion and breast cancer?

What can you tell me about the possible link between abortion and breast cancer?  Does an abortion put a woman at greater risk of breast cancer than a miscarriage?

What is the meaning of the error I received while on your Web site?

I received an error message while waiting for a page to load on your website. What does the error message mean? Is it a problem with your website or with my computer?

Where can I get a referral for a Christian lawyer?

I need some legal advice. Where can I get a referral to a Christian attorney?

I’m having trouble accessing different areas and features of your website. Can you help?

I’m having trouble accessing different areas and features of your website. Can you help?

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“Backsliders” and Hebrews 6:4-6

Is it possible for a “backslider” to return to faith? Hebrews 6:4-6 seems to say no. I’m a returned “backslider” myself, so this passage of Scripture has always been painful and confusing for me. How can I be sure I am restored? Doesn’t the message of these verses cancel out everything the New Testament has …