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PTSD and Domestic Violence

Should special consideration be given to an abuser with post-traumatic stress disorder? My spouse recently returned from a two-year deployment overseas. In the month or two since he’s been back I’ve noticed some disturbing changes in the way he treats me and the children. He’s sullen and withdrawn. On occasion we’ve been subjected to verbal …

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Sexual Conflict in Marriage

How can we fix an unsatisfying sex life? We’ve been married for more than two years, and our sexual relationship has never been mutually satisfying. For some reason sex makes me feel “cheap” and “used.” My husband says I approach it as if it were a chore. That frustrates him and makes him angry. What …

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Spouse Has Lost Faith

My spouse of twenty years has decided that she is no longer a Christian. As a matter of fact, she now claims to be an atheist. This has upset and changed our entire relationship. I don’t understand what is going on with her or how to respond. Can you help me?

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Surviving Unemployment in Marriage

How can my spouse and I survive my recent job loss? Without my income I can’t see how we’re going to make ends meet. What will we do if I can’t find another employment opportunity?

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Verbally Abusive Husband and Dad Wants to Change

What can I do to alter my bad habit of speaking harshly and critically to my wife and children? I desperately want to be a better husband and father, and I need to change my behavior. Can you help me start moving in that direction?

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Wives Who Initiate Sex

Is it healthy and appropriate for wives to take the lead when it comes to lovemaking? My husband and I enjoy a fulfilling and satisfying sex life, but that’s one thing I’ve wondered about: There are times when I desire physical intimacy, but I have doubts about whether it’s right for me to get things …

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Addicted to Pornography

Can you help me overcome my obsession with sexually explicit material?

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Feminine “Preferences” and Male Sexual Identity

As a guy do you think it means I’m gay because I’ve always had a preference and appreciation for feminine and “girly” things? I’ve been this way since I was a small boy, I’m not sure what to make of this.

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Love, Sex, and Same-Sex Orientation

Does God expect gay people to live without love? I’m a Christian, and I have a sincere and earnest desire to live a holy life. At the same time, I struggle with intense same-sex attractions. Other believers have told me that my obligation in this area is the same as that of a Christian heterosexual …

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Responding to Adult Child Who Says He’s Gay

Can you help us figure out how to respond to our grown son who has just informed us that he’s a homosexual? This announcement has turned our world upside down. Tears, depression, frustration, anger – they’re all part of the kaleidoscope of emotions that I go through during the course of a day. We want …

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The Process of Overcoming Addiction to Pornography

Why don’t more people realize that porn addiction can be overcome?

Can I get a transcript of a Focus on the Family program or broadcast?

Can I get a transcript of a Focus on the Family program or broadcast?

Does a portion of the Thriving Kids Roadmap money go to Focus?

Does a portion of this money go to Focus?

How can I honor pregnancy center volunteers inexpensively?

Are there special, inexpensive gifts Focus would recommend for honoring our pregnancy center volunteers?

I have questions about an order I placed. Can you help?

I have questions about an order I placed. Can you help?

My family is facing financial problems. Can you help?

My family is facing financial problems. Can you help?

What is Focus on the Family’s mailing address?

What is Focus on the Family’s mailing address?

When will I begin receiving the magazine I ordered?

I just signed up to receive a magazine from Focus. When will the first issue arrive?

Will I get a receipt for the donation I sent?

Will I get a receipt for the donation I sent?

Where can I find Dr. Dobson’s materials on your website?

I’ve been looking for material by Dr. Dobson and can’t seem to find any on your website. Can you help me locate it?