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Marriage Prep

A Guy’s Guide to a Successful First Date

Can you navigate the first date without freaking out or freezing up? It is actually possible to relax, be yourself and have a good time? It is, and here are a few principles for helping that happen.

A Boundless Romance

Thanks to Boundless.com a young couple discovers online inspiration to help guide their relationship.

Ask the Tough Questions About Your Relationship

Questions to Ask Yourself Am I ready for a relationship? Are there issues I need to address in my own life first? Have we shared enough varied experiences to know what each other is like? Have you seen him when he’s hungry or tired? Have you seen her around ministry opportunities? What do family and …

Addressing Red Flags in a Relationship

At this point you might be wondering, like the disciples did in Matthew 19:10, “If this is the case, maybe it’s better not to marry.” That is an important decision. Depending on the severity of the red flag, a friend may be able to address them while remaining in the relationship. And not every red …

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When You May Need to End a Relationship

Estimated reading time: 3 minutes Even if we’ve confronted a concern in the best possible way, if we stay in the relationship, it’s hard to tell if change has occurred and for what reason. It’s like trying to repair a car while driving down the highway. You don’t owe it to your friend to stay …

What to Look For in a Relationship

Sometimes when it comes to addressing red flags, it can be equally as important to know what you are looking for; to identify the green lights. Government officials responsible for uncovering counterfeit money spend a lot more time looking at the real stuff than the fake. Several behaviors will be important in a healthy marriage. …

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Preparing to Start a Family

Couples who arrive at a shared vision and a purposeful approach to starting a family are able to experience greater joy in their marriages and in their future roles as parents.

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Unfulfilled Intimacy: What Do I Do?

Remember that you are not alone; your ache is common to every human on earth.

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Getting On the Same Page About Kids

Do you and your spouse have different beliefs about starting your family – about when to get started or whether to have children at all?

Dating Later in Life

Dating and Singleness Later in Life

Jenna, Elisabeth, John and Suzanne all thought they would have found Mr. or Mrs. Right years earlier, but life didn’t turn out the way they planned. By now, these thirty- and forty-somethings have all been playing the dating game a lot longer than they’d care to admit. But first let’s set the record straight: This …

Embracing Romantic Grief

We need to learn to embrace heartbreak and grief in order to be able to love again.

Dr. Bill Maier on Premarital Sex

Dr. Bill Maier addresses the issue of premarital sex.

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Dr. Bill Maier on Cohabitation

Dr. Bill Maier addresses the issues of cohabitation and living together.

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Settling for a Spouse

The real danger in pursuing a spouse is that we will “settle” for the world’s vision of self, love and marriage.

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Developing a Healthy Sexual Relationship

If you want a deeply satisfying sex life, you must become a student of your spouse.

Taking the first year off in marriage — a joyful newlywed couple shares a sweet moment outdoors, smiling and enjoying each other’s company.

Taking the First Year Off

Cutting back during the first year should serve as a unique contribution to the happiness of your spouse.

Your City or Mine?

What you decide will change at least one of your lives in dramatic way. But as important is how you decide.

A romantic couple kisses under twilight with warm lights surrounding them, evoking King Solomon’s line on premarital sex about not awakening love before its time.

Solomon’s Line on Premarital Sex

The first time I read the Song of Songs in the Bible I thought, No. Way.

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Sex and the Art of Bonsai

Bonsai keepers remove everything but what is essential to the plant. We cultivate holiness in a similar fashion.

Sex is About Union

Sex Is About Union

The union between a husband and wife is ultimately beautiful because it too stands as a picture of the union between Christ and the church.