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Focus on the Family Broadcast

Embracing God’s Gift of Life

Embracing God’s Gift of Life

Laura Lynn Hughes shares her powerful testimony of choosing life, facing heartbreak, and advocating for the rights of the pre-born in a discussion based on her book, Choose Zoe: A Story of UnPlanned Parenthood and the Case for Life.
Original Air Date: May 3, 2019

Preview:

Laura Lynn Hughes: I would say that God is not mad at you. He’s madly in love with you. And He wants you to bring your pain, anything that you’ve ever been through, to his Son, Jesus. It’s great to be able to End take responsibility for when we have done things that have caused division with us and the Father.

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John Fuller: Today on Focus on the Family, you’ll hear how facing an unplanned pregnancy was one of the most difficult, frightening circumstances that our guest faced, and how it changed her life. Welcome to Focus on the Family, with your host, Focus president and author, Jim Daly. I’m John Fuller.

Jim Daly: John, my heart goes out to women and men in this situation that you describe. We want them to know there’s hope. There’s hope in Christ, and that’s the key. God has a plan for every life. We believe that here at Focus on the Family. He’s the Creator of life. And we also want you to know that if you’ve had an abortion, at some time in the past, there is forgiveness and healing available through Christ.

John: Yes.

Jim: That is the great message. Today, you’re going to hear about that hope and healing as we visit with Laura Lynn Hughes, the author of the book, Choose Zoe, A Story of Unplanned Pregnancy and the Case for Life. I love the title. Laura didn’t know it at the time, but her unplanned teen pregnancy would eventually reveal her life’s purpose. And I think that should draw everybody in, John.

John: Mm-hmm.

Jim: You’re gonna want to stay with us to hear this great story. Laura’s a strong pro-life advocate, volunteering at a pregnancy clinic and speaking for life in schools and conferences. So with that, Laura, welcome to Focus on the Family.

Laura Lynn Hughes: Thank you.

Jim: It’s so good to have you. And we are really lifting up the pro-life effort. And I am thankful that the Lord seems to be dropping the scales from the eyes of those who do not see this from a spiritual perspective. That life in the womb is life. And I think you agree with that.

Laura: Yes, exactly what’s happening. Those scales are coming off.

Jim: Their scales are coming off. I’m so excited. I mentioned a book title. And some may be wondering what Zoe or Zoe means. Tell us what it is.

Laura: Well, in John 10:10, when it says, “The thief came to steal, kill, and destroy, but I came”…” Jesus came, “… to give us life more abundantly.” That word, life, is Zoe. And I use the term “Choose Zoe” in the book because most people think that’s the name of the baby on the cover.

Jim: Z-O-E.

Laura: Yes.

Jim: Right.

Laura: But it’s pronounced Zoe (Zo-ay). And it’s just a totally exciting thing because it’s that life we can live here in the culture. We can live it now.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: We don’t have to wait till we get to heaven to live that. You know?

Jim: And experience it.

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: It’s so true, you know, it’s interesting. When I was 15, accepted Christ, that was the scripture that the person who gave me my first Bible put in there. And let me say as a, you know, a new convert to Christianity, there’s a lot of book of John’s in the Bible. (laughs)

Laura: (laughs)

Jim: First John, Second John, Third John, and the book, the gospel of John. And that’s where that’s found. But what a powerful scripture that really does describe the culture today.

John: Mm-hmm.

Jim: That the thief comes to steal, kill, and destroy.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: That’s every aspect of your life. That’s your marriage, that’s your children. And then the Lord says, “But I have come that you might have Zoe, life, more abundantly.” And that just touches me because that was the first scripture I memorized.

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: Way back when I was 15 years old. (laughs)

Laura: (laughs)

Jim: Laura, you were raised in a Catholic home growing up, and you went to Catholic school. Describe your family life at that time. What was it like growing up?

Laura: Wow. I was raised in Montana with a mother who stayed home…

Jim: I’m jealous already.

Laura: (laughs)

Jim: I love Montana.

Laura: …and did a lot of volunteering. And my family was very much in the Catholic faith. And they lived good deeds. And they also lived love and family. They really were living the pro abundant life.

Jim: Huh.

Laura: And we went to Catholic schools. We went to mass every morning before school and on Sunday. Every night at 6 o’clock we had dinner, and then we all went in, all 10 of us, and got on your knees and prayed the rosary. We prayed for people that were sick in the hospital. We prayed for those in leadership, and the President. And we would pray for just the culture of life to emanate into people’s families. So I really saw Christian values played out.

Jim: Yeah. And I’m grateful to the Catholic community, especially on the pro-life issue. I mean, they have been there from the beginning, kind of steering the broader Christian community toward that resolution that life begins in the womb, begins at conception. They have been there.

Laura: Exactly.

Jim: And I deeply appreciate that. However, for you, as a girl growing up in a Catholic home, at 15 something happened, and it changed your life. What happened?

Laura: Absolutely. Well, I fell in love, or mistook sex for love. However you want to look at it. But I fell in love with a boy. My dad had told us, “Don’t have sex before marriage. Don’t be unequally yoked.” I knew those things. My parents taught us everything that you should teach children. But sex was not talked about much. So I didn’t know there was going to be feelings if you liked a boy or kissed a boy.

Jim: Right.

Laura: You know, I just was totally naive in that area. And so he asked, and we did, and I conceived. (laughs)

Jim: Right.

Laura: Just like that. Yes.

Jim: You’re 15 at the time.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: And speak to that process of saying it to your dad. How’d that go? I mean, and really help the listeners who may not have ever gone through that experience, and for those that maybe it was a few years ago, and they still have the pain of it. Speak to that first time you said to your mom or your dad, “I’m pregnant.”

Laura: Well, I actually did not do that. I did what any responsible 15-year-old would do, and I hid the pregnancy, and I never told anyone. So I let people guess. And once my mom found out, she said, “I’m gonna go pick up dad from the airport tonight, and I’m gonna tell him you’re pregnant on the way home.”

And so I called my boyfriend, and we went and hid in the church parking lot. I came home about 3:30 in the morning, so it’d be in between the time my mom would go to bed from sewing, and my dad would always get up and read the Bible about 4:30, 5. And so I snuck in between, and there sat my dad, across the room in a green velvet chair. And I just burst into tears. And he stood up. And he walked over to me, and he gave me a hug. And he told me that he loved me. And that mom and he were too old to raise another child, and that all he asked is that I would pray every single day what was best for my baby, whether it was me parent, and they would help guide me, or placing my child into loving adoptive arms.

Jim: Wow, what a response. How did that make you feel when your dad was so willing to be there for you?

Laura: It just took all the shame out of it. Because Satan plays tricks on you, like, “Oh, now this is shameful.” “You’ll never be able to do this.” “You know, you’re not married.” “What’s your friends gonna say?” “What’s the church gonna say?” “What’s the community gonna say?” And to have the one person who helped me bring me into this world and really valued life.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: The whole Imago Dei, we’re all made in God’s image. To have my dad parent me with grace like that, well, it just meant the world to me. It helped me to hold my head high.

Jim: Right.

Laura: And it helped me to parent my own children.

Jim: Yeah. As a woman, and I think only a woman can understand this at some level, but Jesus encountering the woman caught in adultery.

Laura: Yeah. (laughs)

Jim: Have you identified with that? I mean, it’s a different thing, but…

Laura: Absolutely.

Jim: …I mean, to feel forgiven.

Laura: Absolutely, to feel forgiven. And I think of the woman at the well. And you know, five marriages and, or relationships at least, and I think of what he did. You know, He gave them that living water. There was no shame. He didn’t point at their sin. Maybe when they walked away, he would say“, “Sin no more.”

Jim: How does that, I mean, again, describe that feeling of the depth of that. That he could have, with the woman caught in adultery, in according to the law, should have allowed them and conferred upon them the ability to stone her to death. That was the law.

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: But He said no.

Laura: No.

Jim: Whoever’s without sin, let him cast the first stone.

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: And everybody walked away. That’s one of the most powerful messages in scripture, I think.

Laura: It is, and He came to heal, and to set us free. And how is that gonna happen if we point fingers and we condemn?

Jim: You know, Laura’ I’m mindful of a woman who is rapt, just filled with guilt. And in the church, I mean, some of the data is powerful about the number of women who have had abortions, who are Christians even. Maybe after they made that commitment to Christ. What word do you have for them? And they’re listening right now.

Laura: I would say that God is not mad at you. He’s madly in love with you. And He wants you to bring your pain, anything that ’you’ve ever been through, to his son, Jesus. Because Jesus came to give us life, abundant life. He didn’t come to… I mean, he actually scorned the shame. So he did not come to point fingers. With that said, it’s great to be able to repent. It’s great to be able to take responsibility for when we have done things that have caused division with us and the Father.

Jim: Yeah. Let’s move forward, Laura. ’you’ve volunteered for over a decade in a pregnancy clinic in California. Given your past, what motivated you to get involved directly in clinic work like that?

Laura: Well, one of my daughters wanted to apply to counsel at Alpha, and she was only 16. And so she was away at a mission’s trip, and Alpha came to church that Sunday, when she felt, God had spoken to her about volunteering at Alpha. And Alpha was at my church the same day, so I grabbed all the literature, and I grabbed one for me and one for her.

Jim: And Alpha’s a pregnancy resource center? A…

Laura: Yes.

Jim: …a pro-life clinic.

Laura: Yes.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: Alpha Clinics. So anyway, we decided to volunteer and go through the training together. And I just loved it. I always knew that I was supposed to be helping the young, pregnant girls. But I didn’t feel quite called to it yet, if that makes sense.

Jim: Sure.

Laura: I felt like I was raising my own children, and it was just perfect timing.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: To be able to go in and help at the clinic.

Jim: And I would think part of that motivation, obviously, many of these girls coming into the clinic, they’re 15, 16, maybe even younger. But those were the ages of the girls that you obviously were when you first got pregnant. Was that the motivation? Can I give them the right answer?

Laura: Absolutely, and they were even younger than that.

Jim: Yeah. You have lots of stories.

Laura: Yes. (laughs)

Jim: In fact, Tiffany is one that is captured in the book. What was Tiffany’s story, and why did that capture your heart?

Laura: Tiffany was so smart. For the first time, wanted to see what would happen in Tiffany’s life. ‘Cause I always wonder, what’s gonna happen in the child’s life. And Tiffany was just so remarkable. You know…

Jim: So she came to the clinic and looking for what?

Laura: …yeah. She came to the clinic, fist raised in the air, “No white, Republican man is ever gonna tell me what to do with my body.”

Jim: Okay, so she had the talking points down.

Laura: And she was in college.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And I said, “Okay.” I’m thinking, “I’m not a man.” (laughs) So let’s start there.

Jim: Right.

Laura: You know, let’s talk about it. And what I loved is she had really gone over her research. She looked at life in the womb. She looked at abortion. She looked at the risks. She looked at adoption. She went to the church, to my church. And my pastors took her through life in the womb. They showed her what the Bible says about the life and took her through some fetal development. And so the church, and the pregnancy clinic, we joined hands with her story. And it’s a powerful outcome. So she has her little girl, and she is running a Celebrate Recovery at her church. And her and her boyfriend co-parent. And she’s in college. And so she’s beat all the statistics, and all the odds, and I’m just really excited to see. It’s so fun to see her and her little girl, Alaska.

Jim: Let me ask this question. Looking at Tiffany now, and how many years ago did she have this baby?

Laura: About five years now.

Jim: Okay, so you have that much, and she has that much history now with this child. Does she have any regrets? Have you talked to her? Have you…

Laura: Absolutely no regrets.

Jim: …I mean, isn’t that wonderful? That…

Laura: Yeah. (laughs)

Jim: … to me is the power of that testimony.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: And that’s the testimony you’re gonna find over and over and over again. That a woman who did decide for life, either through adoption or to raise that baby, sometimes in difficult circumstances.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: That the choice to allow that baby to be born and to live, and to honor God in that way…

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: … is the guiltless approach.

Laura: It is.

Jim: It’s the way to go, because…

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: …God’s in control, right?

Laura: There’s no regrets.

Jim: No regrets.

Laura: And you can look at a baby and think of the unknown. “Well, what’s this gonna mean?” This is, you know, “I’m not gonna be able to get educated.” Or “What’s gonna happen here?” But you’re embracing love.

Jim: Yes, and what I love about it is it speaks volumes about the pro-life community being not just for the baby and saving that baby’s life, but for the mother.

John: Mm-hmm.

Laura: Absolutely. It’s her decision to make.

Jim: Absolutely. And they find help in the church. So often they’re told, “You’re not gonna find help there.”

Laura: No.

Jim: But through the pregnancy resource centers and the churches, when they’re functioning well, they’re gonna find lots of help and support.

Laura: Absolutely.

John: And if you’re feeling like, “I’d like to try to talk to somebody, but I don’t know a church. I don’t know a pregnancy center,” call us, please. We have caring counselors here. They will listen to you. They’ll talk things through. They’ll pray with you. Our number here at Focus on the Family is 800, the letter A, and the word FAMILY. 800-232-6459. Online, you can find a lot of great help and resources including the book by our guest, Laura Lynn Hughes, called, Choose Zoe. That’s at focusonthefamily.com/broadcast.

Jim: Laura, let me ask you. We touched on it. These younger girls that come into the clinic. What are their ages, and how do they inspire you in terms of their decision making?

Laura: Well, we had three 12-year-olds in my town in one month.

Jim: Okay, let me just pick my jaw up. Three 12-year-olds. 12-year-old girls. Precious little girls who are coming probably by themselves or with some other person, other than their parents.

Laura: By themselves.

Jim: Into the clinic. Man, I can’t imagine…

Laura: Thank God. (laughs)

Jim: … the fear that they have, though, too.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: To have the courage to be able to do that as a 12-year-old.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: That’s amazing.

Laura: They’re very young. They’re very naive. They’re very immature. But they’re also very open to the truth.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And when they come in, you might only have a little bit of time with them. Because once you realize that they’re 12-years-old, then we’re mandated to report.

Jim: Right.

Laura: So then you’re talking police or CPS or both. And you may not get to see that little girl again. So for me, I want to encourage her, let her know how important she is. Let her know that the life inside of her…you know, I can tell her the development at the time, because I might not be able to see her again.

Jim: Right.

Laura: You know, and if she would like, I can pray with her.

Jim: And this could be the last time she hears, “Pray for your baby.”

Laura: Yes.

Jim: You know, be mindful of your baby and its future.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: I mean, that’s…

Laura: Because when you take the focus off of your situation…

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: …when the fear goes away, and you’re able to focus on the love for your child. Then you can make a decision that you can both live with.

Jim: Laura, this may be a really tough question, but I think I need to ask it. So many people, I think both in the church and outside the church, possibly, would say in that situation, “Is it ever the right thing to do, to let that 12-year-old have the abortion?”

Laura: Well, physically, if she’s not real ready, then they will do a cesarean section. But that can happen anyway in today’s world with pregnancy, where it’s never a guarantee that we’ll be able to have a natural delivery. And the girls that I know that are that young, even the ones that was incest, or even the girls a little older even, that were raped. I’ll tell you this, the most common thing that I have heard is that they wanted to sometimes take their life, because it’s very common that the girls, six times more when they’re a teenager, will commit suicide…

Jim: Uh-huh.

Laura: …after having an abortion, within six months.

Jim: After the abortion.

Laura: And so it’s very important to be able to support them in their grief and in their trauma. And those girls and the girls who are raped, they will tell you, “I wanted to take my life. My baby saved my life.”

Jim: Boy, what a statement.

Laura: It’s powerful. I’ve heard it every time.

Jim: That is, I mean, it’s breathtaking.

Laura: Yeah.

Jim: That a child of that age has to make that kind of dramatic decision.

John: Mm-hmm.

Jim: And I’m sure, in many cases, without a lot of support around them. That’s what the work of the clinics… I’m so proud of these pregnancy resource clinics, who are there with volunteers like you, Laura. Who are willing to talk to these girls and give them a biblical, godly perspective on what’s happening in their life. And it’s unfortunate, so unfortunate that they’re having to face that kind of decision at such an early stage in life.

Laura: Right.

Jim: But God’s there. I love the scripture. He’s close to the broken hearted and saves those crushed in spirit.

Laura: Absolutely.

Jim: Laura, let me, save the best for last here. Because as you were writing this book, Choose Zoe, a stunning revelation came to you about your own daughter. What happened?

Laura: Well, I was writing. And I knew I was gonna include abortion and abortion recovery. Because we do have that ministry at our church. And so I wanted people to not just look at this as pro-life, we only care about the babies. Because anyone in the pro-life community knows that we care about discipling the young man and the young woman. That with the crisis pregnancy, and we care about those who have been lied to and have chosen abortion, and the pro-life ministry is a caring ministry. And it encompasses…

Jim: Absolutely.

Laura: … all things. And I didn’t know who I was gonna use yet in the story. And I got an email. And I read the email, and it was from my daughter. And she’s mentioning that in high school, she had a secret abortion. And…

Jim: And this is the first time you had heard it.

Laura: …I pushed delete. I pushed delete on that computer, and I went upstairs. And I, like, erased it from my mind. Then I thought, “Oh my gosh.” And then night after night, I was in a fetal position.

Jim: Oh, my.

Laura: And my chest was heavy, and I was, like, I’d only lost my grandma, and my mom. But it was that type of grieving, you know? I’d lost a grandchild.

Jim: Huh.

Laura: And here, I fight for the young girls, and my own daughter, the laws didn’t protect her. They took my parental rights away, and she was able to go into Planned Parenthood and have an abortion. And so she had to go through that.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And she had to lose a child. And go through a medical procedure all on her own. My kids never went anywhere by themselves.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: Like, I’m a mom.

Jim: Right.

Laura: I would have never chosen that for her. I also would have never wanted her to go through something like that completely alone. And so she had so much recovery already happening in her life.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And she said, “It’s a part of our fabric.”

Jim: Right, well…

Laura: It’s a part of our pro-life story.

Jim: …in the great… you know, part of this story is that she became the director…

Laura: (laughs)

Jim: … of the clinic, right?

John: (laughs)

Jim: Is that, I mean, that’s…

Laura: Oh, it’s so exciting.

Jim: …I mean, wow.

Laura: (laughs)

Jim: You have to be so proud of her.

Laura: And that was the next email. Fast forward a few years.

Jim: (laughs)

Laura: So I’m at my job, and out comes some printing. She had sent a form to my job, and it was actually an application for Alpha. And so it comes into my printer. And I read it, and I’m like, “No way.”

Jim: (laughs) It’s from your daughter. Would you like to be a volunteer at our clinic?

Laura: Yeah, even in the ’70s, my mother was with Alpha Pregnancy Clinics. It was called Alpha Crisis, at the time, in Montana. And my sister, Debbie, also. And my sister, Barb, did the phone calls. And my daughter, Jazzy, and so it’s really exciting to see that it’s a family…

John: Yeah.

Laura: …family affair.

Jim: Yeah, that’s something. Laura, behind every unplanned pregnancy, obviously, there’s a young man or a man involved. We need to acknowledge that. Sometimes a boyfriend or husband, they can bring a lot of pressure…

John: Mm-hmm.

Jim: … on that young lady, or that girl to get the abortion. Threatening to leave them or divorce them if they’re married.

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: What are some of your experiences dealing with that kind of pressure for that woman?

Laura: Yes, the man is still the number one coercer and pressurer for abortion. The second is their own mother.

Jim: Okay.

Laura: Which is very sad.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And it’s growing. Because we have so many post-abortive moms that are now offering it to their own children.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: But with the young men, it’s very important that men in church and fathers teach men what it’s like to be a man. And to protect, and to provide for their child.

Jim: Right.

Laura: Because there’s, like this, you know, open borders of sexuality, and then when it comes to pregnancy, it’s all on the woman’s plate.

Jim: Right.

Laura: But there are times, too, when the woman makes the decision, and the boy really wants the child and has no rights…

Jim: No voice.

Laura: … whatsoever.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: But when you look at what a woman’s going through. And back when I had my daughter, my boyfriend was not saying, “Abort.” But it was also a really terrible relationship. Way too young…

Jim: Well, sure.

Laura: … for having sex.

Jim: Yeah.

Laura: And so that’s what I speak to.

Jim: 15, 16.

Laura: Yeah. That’s what I speak to with the young girls is that hurt and that heartache, and their value, and how can we mend that? Because that drowns out the voice of a boy saying, “You’re not important. The baby’s not important.” So the key is to always build up the young lady. And once in a while, the men come in. You know, the young teenage guy, even.

Jim: With the girl?

Laura: Yes. And that’s really exciting, and we’ve got materials that they can watch. They can see what’s going on in the womb. They can come in and see the ultrasound themself.

Jim: Right.

Laura: And that’s so powerful. And those are usually a positive outcome, as far as giving birth to the child.

Jim: Yeah, Laura, let me, at the end here, we need to provide that kind of practical help. Someone today may even hear from their teenage girl. You know, “Mom, Dad, I’m pregnant.” What are some things they can do? Where do they turn for help? Especially if they’ve never been through this before. What can they do that’s biblically informed? And where do they go?

Laura: Well, as you know, Focus on the Family has all kinds of literature that they can look up.

Jim: Yeah, we appreciate that.

Laura: (laughs) And the most important thing is just to realize that the daughter really needs love. She needs care. There’s so many resources out there. There’s a pregnancy center almost in every town now. And so you can just Google your area, and where a pro-life pregnancy center would be. So if you don’t know what to do, get them in to someone where they can physically see someone that can counsel them and help them through this and navigate through it. Because you’ll get all the adoption options. You’ll be able to see what abortion does, and actually the risks of abortion. But you will have all the parenting and medical needs met. You’ll be able to get all the resources in town that you may need. And it’s just a phenomenal place to come, so…

Jim: Yeah, that is so good.

Laura: You’re not alone.

Jim: Right, you just need to make people aware that you need help.

Laura: Absolutely.

Jim: And that, sometimes is so difficult. But I would encourage you, if you’re in that spot, do it. Start with a call here to Focus on the Family. Laura, one thing that we’re so proud of, I think for over 15 years now, we’ve done something called Option Ultrasound.

Laura: Yes.

Jim: And it is a great program. We work with hundreds of clinics around the United States. Pregnancy resource clinics. Robyn Chambers is the one who…

Laura: Yes.

Jim: … heads that up. And I want to say thank you to the donors who have made that possible.

Laura: Absolutely.

Jim: It’s one of the easiest things to raise money for, when we talk to our donor community, to say, “Will you help save a baby’s life?” I’m so proud of the Christian community saying, “Yes.” And we have gotten that down to $60. You know, when you think of an abortion, Laura. It costs about $600 to take a baby’s life.

Laura: Right.

Jim: And it costs only $60 to save a baby’s life. And so I’ve got to beg and plead and just say, “Will you help us do that? Would you give us $60 so we can in turn take that resource that you give us and turn it toward Option Ultrasound?” And that helps us put an ultrasound machine in a clinic. To train a clinic to operate the machines, et cetera, so that when that 15-year-old girl, like Laura was, could walk into the clinic, they can actually see the image of their baby. The heartbeat…

Laura: Mm-hmm.

Jim: …and perhaps, depending on development, the fingers, the toes. That baby sucking its thumb right in the womb. And let me say boldly, this is life. It is a live human being. All it needs is time to grow a little bigger. And for those in the abortion community, I would hope that you would think about that. Think about what you’re doing. There’re so many better ways to deal with this than ending the life of a child. And I think together, we can do that.

John: Well, we invite you to join us with our Option Ultrasound program. Your monthly gift, or even a one-time gift will make a big, big difference, as we continue to help moms decide to keep their babies. Option Ultrasound provides 3D ultrasound equipment and training for pregnancy centers across the country. And more than half of abortion minded women decide to keep their baby after seeing that little boy or girl’s image on the screen. And they hear the heartbeat. So please, consider a monthly gift if you can. Or if not, a one-time gift to save a baby’s life.

When you donate today, we’ll say thank you for joining the support team, and making life possible, by sending a copy of the great book by Laura Lynn Hughes, Choose Zoe. Again, our number, 800, the letter A, and the word FAMILY. And when you get in touch, be sure to ask about other resources, that we might be able to make available to you. And if you need to talk with someone, just ask to be connected to our counseling team. Once more, the number 800, the letter A, and the word FAMILY. Online, we’re on focusonthefamily.com/broadcast.

On behalf of Jim Daly and the entire team, thanks so much for joining us today for Focus on the Family. I’m John Fuller, inviting you back as we once more help you and your family thrive in Christ.

 

 

 

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Best of 2022: Embracing God’s Truth in a Hostile Culture (Part 2 of 2)

Rod Dreher describes how you can teach your children to honor God, find fellowship and solidarity with other believers, and even discover value in suffering for the Gospel. He shares powerful stories of Christian dissidents under communism and encourages families to live counterculturally as radical disciples of Jesus Christ. (Part 2 of 2)

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Best of 2022: Embracing God’s Truth in a Hostile Culture (Part 1 of 2)

Rod Dreher describes how you can teach your children to honor God, find fellowship and solidarity with other believers, and even discover value in suffering for the Gospel. He shares powerful stories of Christian dissidents under communism and encourages families to live counterculturally as radical disciples of Jesus Christ. (Part 1 of 2)

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A Legacy of Music and Trusting the Lord

Popular Christian vocalist Larnelle Harris reflects on his five-decade music career, sharing the valuable life lessons he’s learned about putting his family first, allowing God to redeem a troubled past, recognizing those who’ve sacrificed for his benefit, and faithfully adhering to biblical principles amidst all the opportunities that have come his way.

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Accepting Your Imperfect Life

Amy Carroll shares how her perfectionism led to her being discontent in her marriage for over a decade, how she learned to find value in who Christ is, not in what she does, and practical ways everyone can accept the messiness of marriage and of life.

Navigating a Toxic Culture with Your Daughter - Part 2

As a pediatrician, Dr. Meg Meeker has seen thousands of girls come through her office through the years. They struggle with eating issues, sexual identity, social media…and many other challenges in this toxic culture. Dr. Meeker will encourage parents to invest love and time in their daughters and develop their character to give them the best opportunity for a bright future, all rooted in a spiritual foundation. The discussion also includes healthy feminism vs. toxic feminism

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Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as a an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong DaughtersStrong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers

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Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe

Meg Meeker has been a pediatrician for more than thirty years, is a mother and a grandmother, and has seen it all. She knows what makes for strong, happy, healthy young women–and what puts our daughters at risk. Combining that experience with her famous common sense, she explains the eleven steps that will help your daughter–whether she’s a toddler or a troubled teen–to achieve her full human potential.

Cherishing Your Spouse Every Day

Do you love your spouse, or do you truly cherish them? Gary Thomas encourages couples to make a daily effort to go beyond the ‘duty’ of love, and combat the natural inclination to drift apart, by choosing to see the best in their spouse.

Mr. Gary Thomas

Gary Thomas is an international speaker and best-selling, award-winning author whose books include Married SexSacred Marriage and Sacred Parenting. He has also written numerous articles for several prominent national magazines. Gary and his wife, Lisa, reside in Texas and have three children. You can learn more about Gary by visiting his website, www.garythomas.com.

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Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work

“Most marriages survive by gritting teeth and holding on. But marriages can and will not only survive but thrive when husbands and wives learn to cherish one another.” Those are the powerful words of bestselling author Gary Thomas in his newest book–Cherish. And in a world desperate for marriage redemption, it is needed now more than ever. Thomas shows that although there are a countless number of marriages consisting of two people just going through the motions, there are real ways this pattern can be reversed: when husbands and wives learn to cherish one another in proven, loving, and everyday actions and words.

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Newest Release - Episode 2: Heroes Providing Hope

Discover the amazing work our PRC’s Directors, Nurses, and Volunteers are making in their communities! You’ll see firsthand testimonies of a PRC in action, and that there are other options outside of abortions! You’ll also discover how your family can support your local PRC!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 4: Sometimes the Choice is Hard

Hear real life stories of parents who have made the decision to choose life even though the circumstances were overwhelming. You’ll see why “ALL” life is precious to God and why choosing life is always the right decision!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 3: The Power of a Picture

Have you ever wondered what a baby looked like in the womb? With today’s technology, Moms and Dads can see the baby’s heartbeat, facial expressions, and movements! You’ll find out why more women choose life once they hear their baby’s heartbeat and realize it’s a real living human!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 5: It’s Going to be Amazing!

After a couple has chosen life, hear the heartwarming stories of children that culture would have cast aside, yet are making tremendous impacts in their communities. Whether the diagnosis was adverse or the circumstances were difficult, these stories will inspire you to come along side of families who have chosen life!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

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Newest Release - Episode 6: Families Helping Families!

So, after all you’ve seen through the SeeLife ‘21 Episodic journey; what can you do now? We’ll share how you can partner with some amazing organizations that are making significant impacts in the pro-life movement! You want to Celebrate Life!

Yes, I Promise to Pray for the Pre-born and Their Moms!

Will you pray for the pre-born and moms that are facing unexpected pregnancies? We will send you a 7-day prayer guide that will help guide you along this journey with us!! You can even choose to receive this great resource by text!

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 2

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

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Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

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Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Effective Habits to Embrace in Parenting

To be an effective parent, you must be a leader in your child’s life, guiding with a gentle hand and setting a solid example. Dr. Randy Schroeder provides the insight you need to be a leader-parent. As he explores the foundational Rs—relationship, routines, responsibilities, and rules—you’ll better understand the role you play in your child’s life. You’ll learn great phrases to employ such as “Either/Or/You Decide” and “When You/Then You”. While there is no perfect parent, this nuts-and-bolts material will equip you to lead your child in a loving, confident manner.

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Dr. Randy Schroeder

Dr. Randy Schroeder has spent more than four decades writing, counseling, speaking, and teaching. For nearly 25 years, he was Vice President of Student Personnel Services, Dean of Students, and a professor of pastoral counseling at Concordia Theological Seminary in Fort Wayne, Ind. He’s also led a successful counseling practice helping individuals, couples, and families to thrive in their lives and relationships.

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Simple Habits for Effective Parenting

Effective parenting is now within your grasp! With this inspiring how-to comprehensive book, achieve extraordinary results in raising a child to be self-assured, self-reliant, and responsible! You will be able to successfully lead and lovingly encourage your child toward a Godly life!

The Spiritual Battle for Your Marriage

God designed marriage to reflect His love to the world; and because of this, the enemy wants to destroy God’s beautiful design. Based on his book, Defending Your Marriage, Dr. Tim and Noreen Muehlhoff share about the reality of spiritual warfare against marriages, and how to combat the enemy’s lies with the truth of God. Couples will be encouraged that they’re not alone in the fight for a godly marriage and better equipped to be a shining example for the world around them.

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Dr. Tim and Mrs. Noreen Muehlhoff

Dr. Tim Muehlhoff is a professor of communication at Biola University in La Mirada, California where he teaches classes in family communication, interpersonal communication, apologetics, gender, and conflict resolution.  Tim and his wife, Noreen, are both on staff with Biola’s Center for Marriage and Relationships  where he is a co-host of The Art of Relationship podcast. 

Defending Your Marriage

Is your marriage under attack? Sometimes it can feel like the world is trying to tear your marriage apart. Internal conflicts or external pressures might make you wonder if something sinister is going on. How can you tell if you’re facing spiritual opposition? And what can you do about it? Tim Muehlhoff provides a straightforward resource for protecting your marriage from the threats of the evil one. He looks at what Scripture says about spiritual warfare and how our everyday struggles have deeper spiritual realities. And he provides practical steps for guarding our marriages with the whole armor of God.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 1

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Reigniting Your Passion for Jesus - Part 2

For those of faith whose passion has waned over time, Kim Meeder will reinspire you in your relationship with Jesus Christ as she tells powerful, true stories about God that will spark renewed joy in your heart and encourage you to share the Gospel with others.

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Kim Meeder

Kim Meeder and her husband, Troy, are the co-founders of Crystal Peaks Youth Ranch, a non-profit organization in Bend, Oregon, that rescues abused horses and pairs them with hurting kids for mutual healing. Kim is a popular motivational speaker and the author of a half dozen books including Hope Rising and Bridge Called Hope, which feature inspirational stories from her ranch.

Revival Rising

With enthusiasm that will set ablaze your passion to reach the hurting, Kim Meeder encourages you to let the holy fire of God’s presence fill your heart, soul, mind and strength. As your fear and pride melt away, those around you who are losing their battle for hope will be transformed by encountering His redeeming love in you. This–this is revival rising.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 2

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

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Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

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Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage - Part 2

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

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Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

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Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 2

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

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Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

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Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Embracing Your Role as a Spouse

As a spouse, you have three roles to play—a friend, a partner, and a lover. On this one-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Pastor Kevin A. Thompson explores those different roles and challenges you to live them out by investing emotionally, physically, and mentally in your relationship. As friends, he suggests we learn to play and laugh together. As partners, he equips us with solid ways to handle conflict and communication. As lovers, he offers some thoughts on how to bring back the sizzle. He shares five keys to saving your marriage: humility, respect, mercy, communication, and resilience. You’ll be encouraged to intentionally invest in your marriage.

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Pastor Kevin Thompson

Kevin A. Thompson (MDiv, Beeson Divinity School) is lead pastor at Community Bible Church, a growing multi-site church with four locations in western Arkansas. Every year he meets with nearly one hundred couples with a range of needs, from pre-marital counseling to navigating the most serious betrayals. A marriage and parenting conference speaker, he and his wife, Jenny, have two children and live in Fort Smith, Arkansas. He blogs at kevinathompson.com.

Cover image of Kevin Thompson's book "Friends, Partners & Lovers"

Friends, Partners, and Lovers: What It Takes to Make Your Marriage Work

With engaging stories and clear, simple language, pastor Kevin Thompson shows how to live out three distinct roles in marraige. Using solid biblical principles, he helps you and your spouse grow your friendship, be supportive partners through the good times and the bad, and develop a healthy and satisfying sex life.

Sharing Your Faith with Grace and Purpose

You can confidently and lovingly share your faith—you just need to learn some new tactics to do so! In this Focus on the Family Daily Broadcast, apologist Greg Koukl outlines the “Columbo” tactic of asking questions, the “self-defeating argument” tactic to find holes in your opponent’s arguments, and other specific methods for engaging in faith-building conversations with others. Greg pulls from his over 30 years of experience debating atheists and agnostics to help you share your faith with grace and truth.

Mr. Greg Koukl

Greg Koukl is a writer, public speaker and talk show host who’s spent 30 years advocating for and defending the Christian worldview. Greg has written or contributed to 15 books, including The Story of RealityTactics, and Precious Unborn Human Persons. Greg has published nearly 230 articles and has spoken on 80 college and university campuses in the U.S. and abroad.

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Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition: A Game Plan for Discussing Your Christian Convictions

In a world increasingly indifferent to Christian truth, followers of Christ need to be equipped to communicate with those who do not speak their language or accept their source of authority. In Tactics, 10th Anniversary Edition, Gregory Koukl demonstrates how to artfully regain control of conversations, keeping them moving forward in constructive ways through thoughtful diplomacy. You’ll learn how to stop challengers in their tracks and how to turn the tables on questions or provocative statements. Most important, you’ll learn how to get people thinking about Jesus.

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage - Part 1

Debra Fileta has identified the four seasons of marriage that correspond with our natural seasons – spring (new life and new love), summer (things get hot!), fall (showing our true colors), and winter (long days ahead). In this interview, she will help couples better understand the four seasons of healthy relationships, what to expect during each one, and how to carefully navigate them for a stronger marriage.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage.

Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship

Every relationship goes through four life-changing seasons: Spring. Summer. Fall. Winter. Each season plays an important role in taking your relationship to the next level. And depending on how you navigate each season, your relationship will either flourish and grow, or it will slowly die. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged or married, join licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta as she takes you on an eye-opening psychological and spiritual journey through the four seasons that she has observed in every healthy relationship.

How a Former Abortion Doctor Became Pro-Life

As an abortion doctor at Planned Parenthood, Dr. Patti Giebink believed she was helping women. Later, she began reading scripture and God gradually changed her heart on the abortion issue. Patti tells the story of her long journey from abortion doctor to pro-life and encourages listeners to share the message of life with compassion.

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Mrs. Patti Giebink

Dr. Patti Giebink is an OB-GYN who serves on the board of the Alpha Center, a well-known pregnancy center located in Sioux Falls, S.D. She also travels intermittently to work in mission hospitals in Pakistan and other countries. After completing her medical training, Dr. Giebink worked for Planned Parenthood from 1995-1997, during which she was the only abortion-provider in the state of South Dakota. She eventually experienced a radical change of heart on the issue of abortion after receiving God’s grace, forgiveness, and love, and she is now a passionate advocate for the pro-life movement.

Cover image of the book "Unexpected Choice: An Abortion Doctor’s Journey to Pro-Life"

Unexpected Choice: An Abortion Doctor’s Journey to Pro-Life

Unexpected Choice is told from the perspective of a doctor who actually performed abortions through Planned Parenthood. The book chronicles her journey from being a pro-choice physician to someone speaking on behalf of the pro-life movement.

Giving up Sugar, Tasting God's Goodness

As a latchkey kid, Wendy Speake turned to sugar for comfort. Every Friday, she would pedal to the candy show and use her allowance to fill her bag with candy. And one day, when she was older and a mom of three young boys, she came to realize that she was still “pedaling” away from her stress and using sugar as comfort, instead of turning to Jesus. She was joyless, worn out, tired, and in need of a change. In this interview, Wendy will challenge Christians to take 40 days to focus on fasting from something they turn to instead of Jesus for comfort. She invited people to break free from a dependence on sugar and taste the goodness of God.

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Mrs. Wendy Speake

With a background in Hollywood as a trained actress, Wendy Speake ministers to women as a bible teacher by applying the power of drama, poetry and comedy to the study of Scripture and real-life application of biblical truths. She has co-authored two books with Amber Lia titled Triggers: Exchanging Parents’ Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses and their latest, Parenting Scripts: When What You’re Saying Isn’t Working, Say Something New. Wendy is also the co-author (with Kelli Stuart) of Life Creative: Inspiration for Today’s Renaissance Mom.

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The 40-Day Sugar Fast: Where Physical Detox Meets Spiritual Transformation

Welcome to the 40-Day Sugar Fast, a fast that begins with us giving Jesus our sugar and ends with Jesus giving us himself–the only thing that can ever truly satisfy our soul’s deep hunger. On this 40-day journey you’ll learn how to stop fixating on food and other things you use to fill the voids in life and instead fix your eyes on Christ. Anyone who runs to sugar for comfort or a reward, who eats mindlessly or out of boredom, who feels physically and spiritually lethargic, or who struggles with self-control will discover here not only freedom from their cravings but an entirely new appetite for the good things God has for us.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 1

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

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Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Understanding the Root of Your Child's Misbehavior - Part 2

Often, children act out because they are used to getting attention through bad behavior. Dr. Kevin Leman offers advice to help parents transform their child’s behavior. He discusses the benefits of allowing your kids to learn from real-life consequences and describes the importance of understanding your child’s temperament based on his birth order.

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman

Dr. Kevin Leman is an internationally known family psychologist and an award-winning, New York Times best-selling author. He is also a popular public speaker and media personality who has made countless guest appearances on numerous radio and TV programs. Dr. Leman has written more than 50 books including The Birth Order BookHave a New Kid by Friday and Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.

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Why Your Kids Misbehave and What to Do about It

Tantrums. Talking back. Throwing toys or food. Meltdowns. Slamming doors. Kids know just how to push your buttons. You’ve tried all sorts of methods, but nothing seems to work. In this book, Dr. Kevin Leman reveals exactly why kids misbehave and how you can turn that behavior around with practical, no-nonsense strategies that really work . . . and are a long-term win for both of you.

Loving Your Spouse Through the Seasons of Marriage - Part 2

Debra Fileta has identified the four seasons of marriage that correspond with our natural seasons – spring (new life and new love), summer (things get hot!), fall (showing our true colors), and winter (long days ahead). In this interview, she will help couples better understand the four seasons of healthy relationships, what to expect during each one, and how to carefully navigate them for a stronger marriage.

Author Debra Fileta in the Focus on the Family broadcast studio

Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage.

Love in Every Season: Understanding the Four Stages of a Healthy Relationship

Every relationship goes through four life-changing seasons: Spring. Summer. Fall. Winter. Each season plays an important role in taking your relationship to the next level. And depending on how you navigate each season, your relationship will either flourish and grow, or it will slowly die. Whether you’re single, dating, engaged or married, join licensed professional counselor and relationship expert, Debra Fileta as she takes you on an eye-opening psychological and spiritual journey through the four seasons that she has observed in every healthy relationship.

Reconciling Faith and Science in a Medical Crisis

Dr. Lee Warren is a neurosurgeon who has faced many heavy challenges in his life – from serving in the Iraq War to removing deadly brain tumors to experiencing the loss of a teenage son. He’ll share about his difficult quest to find answers to some of life’s toughest questions, while holding onto his faith in God and the sure hope of heaven

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Dr. Lee Warren

W. Lee Warren, M.D., is a brain surgeon , inventor, Iraq War veteran, and author of I’ve Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon’s Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know, winner of the Christian Book Award®. His previous book, No Place to Hide, was included on the 2015 U.S. Air Force Chief of Staff’s Recommended Reading List. Dr. Warren has appeared on The 700 Club and the CBS Evening News, and his writings have been featured in Guideposts magazine. His Dr. Lee Warren Podcast, which is heard in more than 60 countries, helps listeners use the power of neuroscience, faith, and common sense to change their lives.

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I've Seen the End of You: A Neurosurgeon's Look at Faith, Doubt, and the Things We Think We Know

This gripping inspirational memoir grapples with the tension between faith and science—and between death and hope—as a seasoned neurosurgeon faces insurmountable odds and grief both in the office and at home.

Praying Scripture Over Your Child’s Life - Part 1

Jodie Berndt loves to pray for her children. She’s been doing that for the past thirty years. Now she helps other parents to talk to God, asking for the salvation of their kids, and for wisdom, self-discipline, purpose, a future and much more. She offers fun and practical encouragement that moms and dads can put to work immediately in their daily lives as they prepare their children for a life in Christ.

Headshot of Focus on the Family broadcast guest Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt

Jodie Berndt is a public speaker, a Bible teacher, and the the author of 10 books. Find out more about Jodie and get some free resources (including printable prayer cards and calendars) at her website, jodieberndt.com.

Cover image of Jodie Berndt's book "Praying the Scriptures for Your Children"

Praying the Scriptures Over Your Children

You will discover how using the Bible to shape your desires and requests opens the door to God’s provision—and frees us from things like worry and fear in our parenting! This expanded edition of the bestseller features updated content on issues like technology and identity, and comes with new material designed to invite children into the family prayer circle. Purchase now and receive 10% off your product.

Mothers and Sons: Being a Godly Influence - Part 1

Rhonda Stoppe describes her early motherhood challenges of raising a son, which was intimidating to her. She found help through group of older women mentors. She urges moms to see their role as ministry in shaping sons to be good and godly men. Rhonda outlines several practical suggestions to moms about spiritual training, how to communicate with boys, and supporting the father-son relationship as a wife.

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Rhonda Stoppe

Drawing upon 35 years of experience as a mentor, pastor’s wife, and homeschool mom, Rhonda Stoppe offers encouragement and guidance to women as an author and public speaker. She is popularly known as the “No Regrets Woman,” as she is especially passionate about helping women live life without regrets. Rhonda’s books include Moms Raising Sons to Be MenReal Life Romance, and The Marriage Mentor, which she co-authored with her husband, Steve.

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Moms Raising Sons to Be Men

Mothers of boys have the special calling to shape future men of God. Popular speaker Rhonda Stoppe, mom to two sons, knows this opportunity is a challenge, a joy, and probably the most important work of a woman’s life. Drawing from years of experience, this inspirational resource will revive the faithfulness and fortitude a woman needs to partner with God as they shape the character and heart of a future godly man.

Identifying Triggers in Your Marriage Part 1

They were both convinced they had married the wrong person. From almost the very beginning of their marriage, Amber and Guy Lia experienced various tensions and personality clashes related to house cleaning, backseat driving, workaholism, and intimacy. In this two-day Focus on the Family broadcast, Amber and Guy discuss how they bravely faced the triggers head-on, and committed to working on their own relationships with Jesus. As you listen to the Lia’s story, you’ll feel hope that you, too, can see real marriage transformation!

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Mr. and Mrs. Guy and Amber Lia and Mrs. Jean Daly

Amber Lia is a work-at-home mom, blogger, public speaker, and co-author of two best-selling books. Her husband, Guy, is a former TV, feature film, and VFX development and production executive who has worked on popular TV shows and films. Guy and Amber own Storehouse Media Group, a faith- and family-friendly TV and film production company based in Los Angeles,

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Marriage Triggers: How You and Your Spouse Can Exchange Angry Reactions for Gentle Biblical Responses

A husband-wife team offers practical advice for married couples to end the cycle of reactionary arguments by examining the most common issues that trigger disagreements and apply God’s Word to radically transform relationships.

What to Do When You're Not Okay - Part 1

Life can be pretty stressful. Between work, relationships, and other obligations, the pressure builds, and we lose sight of who we are. Counselor Debra Fileta helps you better understand your emotions, assess your mental, physical, and spiritual health, and intentionally pursue a path to wellbeing. In dealing with anxiety, depression, and panic attacks, Debra understands the importance of self-examination as well as the benefits of seeking professional help. She offers biblically-based advice, tools, and encouragement to help you get on a path toward healing and wholeness.

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Mrs. Debra Fileta

Debra Fileta is a licensed professional counselor specializing in relationship and marital issues. She is also a public speaker and the author of multiple books, including Married SexChoosing Marriage: Why It Has to Start With We > Me, Love in Every Season, and Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are, How You’re Doing, and Why It Matters. Debra’s popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, and her Love + Relationships podcast reach millions of people each year offering guidance on topics including love, sex, and marriage. Debra resides in Pennsylvania with her husband, John, and their four children.

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Are You Really OK: Getting Real About Who You Are

In Are You Really OK? author and licensed counselor Debra Fileta challenges you to get real with who you are and how you’re doing spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically so you can recognize where you need growth and healing.

Navigating a Toxic Culture with Your Daughter - Part 1

As a pediatrician, Dr. Meg Meeker has seen thousands of girls come through her office through the years. They struggle with eating issues, sexual identity, social media…and many other challenges in this toxic culture. Dr. Meeker will encourage parents to invest love and time in their daughters and develop their character to give them the best opportunity for a bright future, all rooted in a spiritual foundation. The discussion also includes healthy feminism vs. toxic feminism

Mrs. Meg Meeker

Dr. Meg Meeker is a pediatrician who is widely recognized as one of the country’s leading authorities on parenting, teens and children’s health. With appearances on numerous nationally syndicated radio and TV programs, her popularity as a an expert on key issues confronting families has created a strong following across America. Her work with countless families over the years served as the inspiration behind her best-selling books which include Strong Fathers, Strong DaughtersStrong Mothers, Strong Sons and The Ten Habits of Happy Mothers

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Raising a Strong Daughter in a Toxic Culture: 11 Steps to Keep Her Happy, Healthy, and Safe

Meg Meeker has been a pediatrician for more than thirty years, is a mother and a grandmother, and has seen it all. She knows what makes for strong, happy, healthy young women–and what puts our daughters at risk. Combining that experience with her famous common sense, she explains the eleven steps that will help your daughter–whether she’s a toddler or a troubled teen–to achieve her full human potential.

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Newest Release - Episode 1: The Truth About Life!

In this episode, we will tackle tough questions like, “When does life begin?” and “What does the Bible
say about Life?” You’ll discover and understand the stages of pre-born life and that babies are more than
just a clump of cells!

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