
How Do I Raise My Sensitive Child?
Learn how to raise your sensitive child without sacrificing effective discipline or setting boundaries.
Read the suggestions of parents like you who have found ways to help encourage their children’s developing prayer life.
Some people think that infants and toddlers are too young to pray, but they’re not. Here are ways that other parents like you have incorporated prayer time with young children into their busy lives:
I want to teach my toddler that actions have consequences, but I also want to guide her heart in
understanding the greater lessons of repentance and obedience. An effective way to teach my toddler
these big lessons has been through a small timeout prayer.
At the end of every short timeout, we say a prayer. The format is simple and the same every
time:
—Beth Sickel
Praying with children can begin as early as birth.
—Karen H. Whiting
My husband prayed, “Dear God, thank You for this meal,” and continued until our 2-year-old squirmed, 9-year-old poked at his broccoli and 12-year-old looked bored. Our task was to get our toddler to sit still and involve the other kids in prayer.
“Dad,” our 9-year-old said, “when you pray, it sounds like church. I thought grace was short.”
My husband, who is a minister, was not used to giving really short prayers, but he promised to make the next one shorter. “Or, better yet,” he said, “let’s all take turns saying grace.”
I knew the two older boys would say really short prayers. That would help keep our toddler from moving too much, and the older boys would be engaged and more interested in prayer time.
As our family began to take turns praying, we eventually found the best way to include our toddler. We had everyone hold hands. That kept him from squirming and included him in the prayer.
—Su Wright
Take small pieces of paper, and write names of 20 to 50 people you know. Some you will know well and some not as well. Try to include all the people who surround your children’s lives.
Fold the papers in half and put them in a bowl in the middle of the table. Every time you have a meal, let one child pick a paper from the bowl. Then, as a family, pray for that person, thanking God for the work that person does, how he or she affects your family’s lives and the pleasure you have in knowing him or her.
If your little ones are not talking yet, you can teach them “thank you” in sign language. Have them touch the tips of their fingers to their chin, move their fingers two inches away from their chin and then raise their right arm to heaven, which is the sign for “God.” In this way, even young children can thank God for the people in their lives.
Include People You Know
Mothers
Fathers
Siblings
Friends
Teachers
Pastors
Neighbors
Baby sitters
Include People You Don’t Know Well
Mail carrier
Lifeguard
Librarian
Trash collector
Bank teller
People on your street
Newspaper deliverer
Grocery store cashier
—Chris Brack