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Marital Communication

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Your Retirement Communication Plan

Do you need new ways of handling disagreements with your spouse?

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How to Manage Conflict During the Coronavirus

It’s never easy to manage conflict in a marriage. The coronavirus has added even more challenges. Learn how to work through the conflict.

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Family Finances and COVID-19: Five Helpful Tips

Family finances are taking a hit during the COVID-19 crisis. If you and your spouse are facing financial changes, here are five tips to help.

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How to Grow Closer to Your Spouse During the Coronavirus

Are the coronavirus, quarantines and uncertainties putting a strain on your marriage? Here are ways to fight the fear and grow closer to your spouse.

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Staying Connected When One Spouse Is Traveling

Travel is tough on a marriage. But with a bit of planning, you and your spouse can stay connected when one of you is away from home.

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10 Tips for Proper Marriage Maintenance

Does your marriage need a tune up? Try these tips for a marriage maintenance weekend.

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6 Valentine’s Day Ideas to Help You Celebrate Your Spouse

Valentine’s Day isn’t a test to validate or discredit our marriage. It’s simply a way to celebrate the one we love.

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4 Things Guys Need to Know Before Buying Valentine’s Day Gifts

Stressed about finding the right Valentine’s Day gift? Start with these four helpful hints that will remind your wife how much you love her.

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How to Write a Love Note to Your Spouse

A love note doesn’t have to be flowery or sappy. It’s just a way to express your love for your spouse in a way they’ll understand.

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A Film Reviewer’s Thoughts on Marriage Story and Real Marriages

Critics praise the way Marriage Story portrays a couple in crisis, but film reviewer Paul Asay says there’s a powerful message behind Marriage Story.

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Married … With Household Chores

Couples come clean about household chores and share what they’re willing to trade to avoid cleaning house.

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‘Just Relax’ and Other Things You Shouldn’t Say to Your Wife

Saying “Just relax” might be the worst thing a husband can say to his wife. Why? Because she hears: “I’m not taking you seriously.”

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Bible Reading in Marriage Is Transformational

Invigorate your spiritual connection by reading the Bible together. By applying biblical principles as a couple, you’ll reach into an untapped power source.

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Can We Talk? Communication Advice for Husbands and Wives (Part 2 of 2)

Psychologist Dr. David Clarke offers couples practical advice for breaking down common communication barriers in a discussion based on his book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars: The Do’s and Don’t’s of Getting Your Man to Open Up. (Part 2 of 2)

Focus on the Family Broadcast

Can We Talk? Communication Advice for Husbands and Wives (Part 1 of 2)

Psychologist Dr. David Clarke offers couples practical advice for breaking down common communication barriers in a discussion based on his book Men are Clams, Women are Crowbars: The Do’s and Don’t’s of Getting Your Man to Open Up. (Part 1 of 2)

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To Keep Your Marriage Strong, Learn How To Listen Well

Active listening is important when you’re talking to your spouse. Here’s how to focus on your spouse’s feelings and deepen your relationship.

A smiling couple sits together on a couch, engaged in a lively and positive conversation. The woman, wearing a white t-shirt, leans in with a warm and expressive smile, while the man, dressed in a denim shirt, listens attentively. Their body language reflects open communication, illustrating how to give constructive feedback in marriage in a way that strengthens connection and understanding.

How to Get Your Spouse to Want Your Feedback

Persuading someone to accept feedback isn’t just about phrasing things the right way. You’re showing your spouse what he or she doesn’t already know. Both of you will grow through this trust-building process.

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Accepting Feedback Without Defensiveness

Feedback can reveal flaws that we don’t see in ourselves. It can be painful, but it’s essential. If we respond with defensiveness, we shut down a valuable tool for building an honest, thriving relationship.

When Your Spouse Won’t Support Your Great Idea

Independent thinking doesn’t automatically shut off after the wedding. So when your spouse doesn’t agree with your great idea, how should you negotiate a solution?

Why Can’t She Lie to Me?

My wife’s painful honesty hurts my feelings. She must not know the strategy known as “the white lie.” A time comes when each spouse is tempted to tell one. Is a white lie too much to ask for?