Urgent Need: As the back-to-school season begins, families are facing mounting pressure—tough choices, cultural confusion, and strained relationships.
Will you make a gift before August 31 to help provide Christ-centered support in this critical season?
When you’re grieving the loss of someone who isn’t at the table, traditional holiday family events can be especially hard. Perhaps this is the year to do something different.
My parents love to have all their kids at their house for holidays, but they’re supportive and flexible and have never laid a guilt trip on any of us when we’ve made other plans.
Many of my friends don’t have it so good. They would never think of not meeting their family’s holiday expectations. They often find themselves building their plans around those expectations rather than aroundwhat’s best for their immediate family.
When you’re grieving the loss of someone who isn’t at the table, it can be especially hard to move through traditional holiday family events. Perhaps this is the year to break with tradition, do somethingdifferent, make a new memory.
Every family has holiday assumptions; some see them as rigid rules that can’t be broken. But part of taking care of your family right now may mean not making the expected trip, not participating in the usual rituals, not showing up at the big dinner. That’s OK.
Besides crossing things off your list that you don’t want to do this year, perhaps there are some new things you want to try – particularly things that will honor the memory of the one you’ve lost.
For example, do you want to give a gift to someone who played an important role in your loved one’s life? Do you want to buy a tree you can plant in the yard as an ongoing reminder of hope and healing in the years to come? Do you want to make a donation to a charity or ministry in your loved one’s honor?
Nancy Guthrie and her husband, David, minister to grieving people through their Respite Retreats – developed for couples who have faced the death of a child. They also serve as hosts for the video curriculum used in GriefShare groups that bring grieving people together in 8,500 churches around the country. The Guthries live in Nashville, Tenn., and have one son.
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