Learning Styles: Different Kinds of Smart
Recognize the differences in how your children learn.
Teaching children to think critically, whether in books or about what people say, is a skill that will benefit them their entire life.
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Teaching children to think critically will help them develop a skill that will benefit them their entire lives. Here are some ways that other parents have trained their kids in this important cognitive area:
Recently, my 5-year-old proclaimed that she had leprosy. Naturally, I assured her she didn’t.
She retorted, “Oh, yes I do because I heard my friend say that leprosy makes your skin itch, and my skin itches, so I have leprosy.”
That is when I taught my young daughter that before repeating a new word or phrase to others, she needed to ask herself a few questions:
Finally, she needed to tell Mom and Dad what she’d heard and ask us what it meant before spreading a misunderstanding to others.
—Laura Bailey
My children and I made an I Wonder book. We jotted down questions about daily observations. We didn’t answer any of the questions. Instead, we wondered out loud, talking together and brainstorming possible answers. If a certain question led to serious interest and conversation, we might get books on the topic or research it online.
By wondering, we created a habit of observing, which led to analyzing. It was the first step in teaching my kids the critical-thinking process.
—Cathy Edwards
A few nights a week, I present my kids with simple questions or discussion topics relevant to each child’s season of life. Silly, spontaneous questions are my favorite, but we also talk about more serious topics.
These questions trigger imaginative answers based on my kids’ knowledge, developing worldview and problem-solving skills. They also create opportunities for the kids to analyze each other’s answers and offer additional insight. But we don’t allow harsh criticism. Our dinner-table discussions come with an Ephesians 4:29 rule: Each family member must avoid “unwholesome talk,” only making comments that build others up and help the solutions being discussed.
—Amy Traurig
Here is how I help my kids select good reading material:
—Jane Johnson Struck
Our children will eventually come to understand that not everyone in our communities, our country or the world share our beliefs. There will be times when kids read opinions that directly contradict what they’ve learned at home and in church.
As a parent, you can help your child build a strong foundation in critical-reading skills. And you can help him or her examine exactly what messages are being communicated:
—Kirsetin Morello