In earlier generations, adoption and birth mothers were often looked at negatively. The language surrounding adoption reflected this as well. As adoption has evolved into a more open relationship that seeks to honor all, the language has shifted.
Birth Mother
Just as with any holiday and milestone throughout the year, birth mothers need love and support during Christmas.
What do we do when trauma leaves us with feelings of rejection and abandonment? Are there scriptures for healing a broken heart?
Even in fully open adoptions, filled with visits and solid relationships, there are fears that every birth mother worries about.
When it comes to supporting a birth mother, there is not an “easy” option. Both parenting and adoption come with grief and loss.
It goes beyond the adoptive family unit. Adoptees and birth parents also live this lifelong journey of adoption.