โMy Body, My Choiceโ is a term coined by the pro-choice movement to represent bodily autonomy, freedom of choice and women’s rights. Consequently, the term is used most often by those who identify as pro-choice.
But it shouldn’t be.
In fact, every facet of the term โMy Body, My Choiceโ can break down to support life.
Bodily Autonomy and "My Body, My Choice"
The Argument for Abortion
Bodily autonomy refers to oneโs right to make independent decisions involving their body without outside interference. In short, itโs the right to self-governance. The core of this idea was first articulated in the 70โs by philosopher Judith Jarvis Thompson. Judith is also the originator of theย violinist argument in her article, โA Defense of Abortionโ โ the idea that even if a fetus is in fact alive, abortion is still morally permissible because it relies on someone else to survive.
Additionally, the Fourth Amendment to the United States Constitution states “the right of the people to be secure in their personsโฆ shall not be violated.” The Supreme Court has also upheld the right to privacy, which, as defined by Julie Lane, often protects rights to bodily autonomy. Pro-choice advocates believe this also includes abortion, though there is no guaranteed right to abortion in the Constitution.
Why It's Actually Pro-Life
As a reminder, bodily autonomy is the self-determination of oneโs own body without outside interference. And since she acknowledges the unborn are people, Judithโs argument debunks itself. Yes, women shouldnโt have someone else tell them what to do with their bodies. But neither should their child have someone else govern theirs. Oneโs rights cannot and should not elevate above anotherโs.ย
Bodily autonomy arguments in favor of abortion – like the violinist argument – have further flaws. ย
For one, in the violinist argument of detaching oneself as life support for another, the best case-scenario is both living dependently. But in an abortion, if both the mother and baby survive, itโs considered a failure. Abortion is the intentional ending of a life โ something no other ethical or legal scenarios would allow. Additionally, her argument involves a forced commitment to someone elseโs life. However, with abortion (except in cases of rape/incest), two people voluntarily have sex โ the only act that would bring new life into existence, and part of the intended purpose of sex. The child is not an unwelcome parasite; itโs exactly where itโs supposed to be. And, once that life is created, parents have an obligation and privilege to care for their child at a minimum of nine months. After that, they may choose parenthood or to make an adoption plan.
โMissing from bodily autonomy arguments for abortion is any recognition that a moral relationship between a mother and child already exists by the time a woman is contemplating an abortion.โ
- Alexandra Desanctis and Ryan Anderson
Freedom of Choice and "My Body, My Choice"
The Argument for Abortion
The term โpro-choiceโ refers to the idea of freedom of choice. It describes an individualโs opportunity to perform an action they select from at least two available options, unconstrained by external parties.
Why It's Actually Pro-Life
There are many choices besides abortion that will give women freedom of choice while still recognizing and protecting an individualโs right to life. There is a decision to have or not have sex, a decision to parent, a decision to make an adoption plan and within adoption, a choice for open or closed adoption.
To explain this another way, if I want someone out of my life, I have the choice to confront them, ignore them, press charges, even file a restraining order. However, I obviously do not (and should not) have the choice to take their life. I only have rights over my body and what I do in relation to others. I shouldnโt have the right to determine what someone elseโs body does. If that were considered acceptable, so would horrendous acts like slavery, sexual assault and human trafficking: all of which allow someone else to control your body and what rights you have.
Bodily Integrity and "My Body, My Choice"
The Argument for Abortion
Bodily integrity is the third tenant of โMy Body, My Choice.โ Itโs defined as the inviolability of the physical body, emphasizing personal self-ownership. Essentially, human beings should determine what happens with their bodies because it is their property. Itโs a fair and agreeable concept. Bodily rights are a societal pillar. But the overarching pro-abortion argument of bodily integrity insinuates not all humans have the same privilege. Like a parasite to a host, they define a preborn child as merely an uninvited resident impeding on a womanโs body. So, it would naturally be her choice whether to keep it around or not. A woman is simply using another method of contraception and healthcare by choosing abortion โ at least in the eyes of those who are pro-choice.
Why It's Actually Pro-Life
This self-ownership shouldnโt overstep into anotherโs self-ownership. If weโre following a concept of bodily integrity, it must be for everyone instead of just certain groups.
The Universal Declaration of Human Rights (UDHR), Article 3 is undeniably clear:
“Everyone has a right to life.”
Everyone. Regardless of dependency, age, race, gender or any other discrimination. In Articles 1 and 7 of theย UDHR, it declares all deserve a right to live based on the equal dignity of human beings. There is humanity in the unborn โ even pro-choice arguments acknowledge that there are two sets of DNA. Two sets of heartbeats. Two distinct humans. And they are both fully deserving of their individual rights.
The pro-life movement isnโt trying to take away a womanโs authority of her body; we want women to succeed, and have thousands of pregnancy medical centers dedicated to supporting them and their families. We do draw a line when anyoneโs rights infringe on someone elseโs. Everyone should have autonomy of their body, especially when it comes to their basic ability to live. Rights should never stretch so far that someone has anotherโs rights in their hands. Humans werenโt meant to own or be owned.
Itโs a babyโs body and a babyโsย choice, just as it is her body and her choice.


